https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 07 May 2026 17:22:49 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-551819 Wed, 06 Feb 2013 10:33:07 +0000 chrispygal 551819@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Lol, these responses crack me up. Especially @sorrycharlie: lol! We have a cat that will just sit there and STARE. She patiently waits until we are done so she can come up on the bed and lie across my legs. This is how she sleeps every night. lol.</p> <p>We go through stages - some times a lot, some times not a lot. I'm in a bit of a funk now and don't feel like it at all. Extra baby weight and the winter blues are getting to me. I took myself off the pill because I think the extra hormones were bothering me, and I already feel better. I'm with the camp that there's either no time or I'm too exhausted and going to bed much earlier than DH. Definitely need to put in some more effort. Sometimes I feel badly for DH. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-551264 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 21:22:34 +0000 junebugmama 551264@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HLK208: BAHAHAHA!!! Us too!!</p> <p>Prior to having our 2nd (even during pregnancy) almost every day. Now it's probably 2-3 times per week. This kid exhausts me lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-551263 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 21:22:24 +0000 betsyboop 551263@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, you ladies are busy! Since LO arrived, not so often for me. I'm just so tired and all I want to do after dinner is sleep. So boring. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-551259 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 21:21:00 +0000 Vegmama 551259@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@prettylizy: Hahaha ... Seriously! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-551257 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 21:20:16 +0000 prettylizy 551257@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Dude, hiding this thread from DH! lol! He can't know that some of your ladies are going 4-7 times a week! Good for you all. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-551228 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 21:01:58 +0000 HLK208 551228@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Twice a week, usually. We did try to make a goal to have sex every day for a month lol, how sad. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-551217 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 20:56:58 +0000 doodlepoodle 551217@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so jealous of you multiple time-a-weekers. I'm a "what's sexy time?" kind of girl :( We're just not on the same page right now with things, so once we have the time to work through things then I'm sure it'll increase again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-551162 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 20:41:21 +0000 mamabolt 551162@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pre-baby and during pregnancy we were 2-3x a week, but post-baby (especially once I went back to work) we are more like 1x a week if that. BF has killed my sex drive. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-551135 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 20:29:48 +0000 Lozza 551135@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Our dog will get up and leave if things get too exciting.<br /> If I had my way, it would be every day, but DH needs his beauty sleep, so I settle for 3-4 x/week. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-551025 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 19:21:27 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 551025@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sorrycharlie: omg! Lol. Our dogs don't care. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-551021 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 19:19:52 +0000 sorrycharlie 551021@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsBrewer: @.twist.: my dog humps his bed while we..you know. Super awkward. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-551012 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 19:10:32 +0000 Running Elley 551012@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>1-2 times per week since we got back into after LO was born. Sometimesssss 3. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550967 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:16:05 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 550967@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>4--6x a week. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550943 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 17:47:11 +0000 LuLu Mom 550943@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I look at these and think "how in the world do you have time for sex!?" I voted every other week, we try for once a week but it just doesn't always happen. By the time we get home from work, make dinner, feed baby, bath, play, bottle, and bedtiem we are both so exhausted we just cuddle on the couch. I miss the connection but we just haven't found a way to work it in yet! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550935 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 17:38:55 +0000 runsyellowlites 550935@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pre-baby 3-5 times a week<br /> Pregnancy usually 1x a week but sometimes 1x every 2 weeks<br /> Now about 1x a week SOMETIMES twice a week.</p> <p>In a nutshell, not enough. :-/<br /> *one tired momma* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550909 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:55:17 +0000 Rainbow Sprinkles 550909@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Since having a baby....2-3× week.<br /> During pregnancy. ...every single day!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550906 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:50:32 +0000 MrsBrewer 550906@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsTiz: Impressive!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550905 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:50:14 +0000 MrsBrewer 550905@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: I know tell me about it! We had 2 cats before, and they never bothered us. But now this dog....ugh LOL</p> <p>Sidenote: I had a breakdown yesterday to DH because it's been so long, and this dog is "ruining our marriage" I was a little over dramatic.....DH told me today that he was holding back laughter when I said that last night.... (I was just really upset because the puppy just bit a hole in my nice *down* winter coat!) So I was already a crying fool! hahah </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550901 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:47:32 +0000 MrsTiz 550901@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>6 times a week! Sometimes 7, but never less than 5. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550899 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:46:32 +0000 .twist. 550899@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsBrewer: haha yea. A puppy is definitely different. I guess I'd just try it out and see how it goes from there. lol. totally funny having to worry about animals! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550897 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:44:25 +0000 MrsBrewer 550897@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: LOL!!! Awkward is right!!! Talk about a mood killer...We're afraid to leave the puppy out of sight yet though. I mean we have a fenced in back yard, so we could always put him outside and get to business really fast, but that's no fun! hahaha plus I would feel bad with the puppy outside! hahahah </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550895 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:42:40 +0000 .twist. 550895@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsBrewer: LOL! Our dog doesn't care. However, we dog sat for a friend and that dog would just sit and stare..... He had mentioned to us that she wasn't allowed in the bedroom during "those" times and now I understand why. AWKWARD. lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550886 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:35:42 +0000 MrsBrewer 550886@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@winniebee: LOL that's why I added the "I don't remember" option to the poll! Just in case :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550882 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:30:06 +0000 winniebee 550882@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What's that? </p> <p>Just kidding. Not often....so...tired. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550875 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:23:59 +0000 MrsBrewer 550875@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Maysprout: Look at you! phew! You go girl!! :-)</p> <p>@VEGMAMA: I know it's just a little weird I admit too! I'm just afraid he's going to start barking really loudly! hahahah the way it is we are just barely whispering to each other in bed right now, we don't want to set the puppy off. Maybe we will just have to make the puppy get over it, who know maybe he won't even care! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550872 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:21:46 +0000 Smurfette 550872@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Since we got pregnant, 1-2 times a week :( Seems like one of us is always in bed before the other and we have so much other stuff going on. I miss being more active with our sex life. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550871 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:20:35 +0000 autumnlove 550871@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Almost never during pregnancy! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550870 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:20:27 +0000 Crisark 550870@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Now that I'm in the third trimester I'm too big and uncomfortable and not at all interested so it's like once or twice every other week. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550869 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:19:45 +0000 Maysprout 550869@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Alivoo01: Used to be! Chopsuey and I were the cosleepers who managed to get away every night. I voted 3-7 this time though. Hubby has had some travel time for some of his work recently and just had surgery last week so I give him one night a week to rest now ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-and-your-partner-have-sexy-time#post-550867 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 16:16:50 +0000 Vegmama 550867@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We got into a major rut before TTC ... maybe once a week. Now, we're 3 or more per week, and it doesn't feel forced. For us, it was just realizing the issue, and realizing it needed to change. </p> <p>About the dog in the crate, we used to care too ... but now we have 2 dogs, and a cat. It's weird sometimes when you realize they're watching you, but I think you'll get over it! :) </p>