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Hellobee Boards Topic: How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue? https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 17 Apr 2026 18:38:08 +0000 Katrocap on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356756 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 23:17:46 +0000 Katrocap 2356756@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @cherrybee: Thanks for starting this post! Makes me realize we're more normal than I thought! :happy: Dagny on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356643 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 20:31:15 +0000 Dagny 2356643@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Right now, a few times a day is totally normal for us with a fussy infant and emotional toddler and me not sleeping well. We have both been really good about letting things go since LO2 arrived but I do feel like that stuff all adds up emotionally if you don't really process it (I worry about DH never emotionally processing things..). Mae on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356640 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 20:25:11 +0000 Mae 2356640@https://boards.hellobee.com/ we go through phases. We'll have a few days or weeks where everything is smooth as butter then there'll be a few days where we bicker a lot. seems to be our new normal since baby. abbydabbydoodlebug on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356608 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 19:24:49 +0000 abbydabbydoodlebug 2356608@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Oh man, today was a doozy. It felt like we were on and off bickering all day. Ugh. Normally, we don't fight much. Today was a really off day for some reason. We're planning adult time tonight to make up for it, haha. Make up sex always helps! Greentea on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356548 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 18:21:56 +0000 Greentea 2356548@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I'd say once a week we have a bad day where one or both of us is just exhausted and cranky! Cherrybee on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356542 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 18:03:19 +0000 Cherrybee 2356542@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Thanks everyone. It sounds as though we are pretty normal then! I hate arguing so much - and then DH gets annoyed at me for wanting to talk it through; he says I'm making a big deal of nothing. @Mrs. D: Thanks for the hugs. I needed them! Mrs. Sunshine on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356528 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 17:26:37 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 2356528@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Alot. And by that I mean I get increasingly upset as the day goes on because he doesn't fight at all. I just get blank stares when I say things so by the end of the night, I'm tired and have used up all my will power + the build of annoyances all day and I become completely irrational. And even when I'm being insane, all I get is blank face. Nothing pisses me off more! So basically I bicker often and he bickers never. I'm working on it Bibliolove on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356512 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 16:56:29 +0000 Bibliolove 2356512@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We did a lot when I was tired, moody, and generally unhappy. I started working out more, taking supplements, and we do much better. H shares the chore workload a bit more and I realize my limits more too. Mrs. D on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356509 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 16:54:37 +0000 Mrs. D 2356509@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @Cherrybee: I want to send you hugs, arguing can be stressful. I always take it deeply and personally. Looking at the others replies I thought our arguing was too much sometimes, but now I can see that our couple times a week (when he's home), is just fine. What pisses me off when we fight is when I thought we'd left a past arguement LONG behind us, and he brings it up as ammunition, I feel that is dirty fighting. Every couple argues differerently. If you guys are still in love at the end of the day and can let it go, don't worry about comparing yourselves to others. AprilFool on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356503 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 16:28:12 +0000 AprilFool 2356503@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Sometimes never, sometimes once a day, sometimes all day long. We will go through periods where we never bicker and then periods where it is all we do. yellowbird on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356499 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 16:22:50 +0000 yellowbird 2356499@https://boards.hellobee.com/ At least once a day, usually 3ish times and some days it's everything we say to each other! I hate bickering! Anagram on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356481 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 15:26:54 +0000 Anagram 2356481@https://boards.hellobee.com/ The more tired and stressed we are, the more often it happens. Golden on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356479 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 15:24:17 +0000 Golden 2356479@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Always. New baby and a toddler. Also, sometimes he just pisses me off :silly: Foodnerd81 on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356472 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 15:07:56 +0000 Foodnerd81 2356472@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Regular- a few times a day. Pregnant?? Always. It's terrible and I know a lot of it is me just having zero patience. The little patience I have is reserved for C so DH gets all of the snapping. :sad: Cherrybee on "How often do you bicker/ snap at each other/ argue?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-often-do-you-bicker-snap-at-each-other-argue#post-2356471 Sat, 14 Nov 2015 15:05:07 +0000 Cherrybee 2356471@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I feel like we are constantly arguing with each other these days. We must have bickered 5 times today and there were at least 3 occasions I held my tongue. Im just wondering what is normal! Thanks!