https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 13 Apr 2026 14:56:19 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-177122 Sat, 02 Jun 2012 20:01:55 +0000 mrsjyw 177122@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I read this earlier this week, but didnt comment. I WOULD FREAK THE EFF OUT!!!! I'm freaking about having children after this first pregnancy... let alone, finding out that I'm preggs a MONTH after L&amp;D!? I WOULD SERIOUSLY GO BONKERS! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176873 Sat, 02 Jun 2012 08:56:35 +0000 littlebug 176873@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@dc yoga bee: That makes me so sad for your friend. Good for you for standing up and defending her!</p> <p>@eeh: Well, he left his ex-wife for Tori. I'm sure that's always lurking in the back of her mind. Definitely some confidence issues there. </p> <p>I would freak out, for sure. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176870 Sat, 02 Jun 2012 08:47:22 +0000 Mrs. Pen 176870@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: haha yes!! If I could afford all the help money can buy, I'd totally be popping out more ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176848 Sat, 02 Jun 2012 07:21:38 +0000 yoursilverlining 176848@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>In all honesty, I would terminate the pregnancy. Getting pregnant that soon after wouldnt be fair or good for me, LO, or my husband. Which is why I'm getting my IUD back asap, and no funny business before it's in and working! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176821 Sat, 02 Jun 2012 06:10:04 +0000 MsLipGloss 176821@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would probably, laugh, cry, and then laugh some more, and then cry some more . . . This pg has not been easy, or a whole lotta fun. I can't imagine doing it again right away and not loosing my mind a few times along the way. *jinkies* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176818 Sat, 02 Jun 2012 05:56:27 +0000 mediagirl 176818@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I read the article about Tori Spelling and do feel bad that she feels she needs to give her husband. She didn't do it for them. </p> <p>I think I would seriously freak out. Being pregnant has been no fun. I cannot imagine being pregnant for almost 19 months straight! Especially with three kids at home, one brand new. That being said, her situation is different b/c she can afford nannies. </p> <p>@dcyogabee that is horrible. I feel bad for your friend but also think she might need to consider some new friends of her own. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176794 Sat, 02 Jun 2012 01:26:21 +0000 loveisstrange 176794@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh lord. I would shoot myself. One unplanned pregnancy followed immediately by another? Oh heck no.</p> <p>In reality, I would cry.... a lot. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176791 Sat, 02 Jun 2012 01:01:48 +0000 MissKitten 176791@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This happened to my mother. My brother and I are actually born 9 and a half months apart. I was in hospital for months after I was born though so in my parents case it was really just a need to be close to each other because they were told I wasn't going to make it. It was apparently one of those "one time is all it takes" things. ;) </p> <p>They both freaked but did such an amazing job. I have the utmost respect and awe for my mother. I'm 33 weeks pregnant with my first and I honestly have NO idea how she did it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176773 Sat, 02 Jun 2012 00:20:02 +0000 Mrs. Superhero 176773@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would cry. I puke for the entire time I'm pregnant, I can't imagine doing that with only a month break. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176769 Sat, 02 Jun 2012 00:05:55 +0000 BoogieBea 176769@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When my second LO was around 6 months, I felt a little bit of nausea one morning reminiscent of being pregnant. I freaked out and immediately when to get a home test. It was negative, thank God! I made my the appointment with my ob to have the iud put it right after the scare. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176766 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 23:59:50 +0000 lemondrop 176766@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Coco Bee: awww, I can just imagine this tiny baby spread eagle in the middle of a huge bed and you guys huddled up in the crib. Hang in there, things will sort themselves out! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176761 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 23:41:51 +0000 Rosie Girl 176761@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would cry! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176760 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 23:32:53 +0000 MsMini 176760@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would freak out. This probably isn't a popular opinion, but I think we would seriously entertain termination. We want to have 2-3 kids, but I had such a rough pregnancy complications-wise I think it would be seriously hazardous to my health to do it again right away. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176739 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 23:01:28 +0000 Arden 176739@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Heh... my first thought was - "Awesome! Wait... no." </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176738 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 23:00:30 +0000 Mrs. Pen 176738@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@lemondrop: yup same here. Partly because our son has commandeered our bed (the little stinker!), who would've thought that a 3 month old would need a queen size bed LOL!! (yup, he sleeps on it even if we're not there) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176735 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 22:58:19 +0000 lemondrop 176735@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Coco Bee: lol, yeah, not physically possible here either, it took a while to get back in the saddle again :)</p> <p>The day we brought him home (early January) we started discussing when to go for #2, but I really didn't want to give birth twice in 2012!! We'll re-visit the discussion again towards the end of the summer. I want to enjoy babyhood as much as possible and not feel crappy while he is small and nurse a little longer... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176728 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 22:44:42 +0000 ChelseaRose 176728@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think I would also be worried about the viability of the pregnancy when my body hasn't had that much time to recover from giving birth. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176221 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 12:30:03 +0000 chrispygal 176221@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh I would totally cry too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176207 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 12:20:38 +0000 sandy 176207@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@skibobrown: Birth control options were at the top of my list at my first pp visit too...I did NOT want to get pregnant right away...not only for myself (adjusting to being a new mom) but also for LO...it would be so hard to take care of an infant while going through morning sickness, etc. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176199 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 12:16:19 +0000 runsyellowlites 176199@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If I had gotten knocked up again after DS I probably wouldn't have freaked too much.</p> <p>This time I would lose my freaking mind! I don't even know if I want anymore kids after learning of what a "high needs" baby is. I seriously would cry LOTS!... And then of course deal &amp; get happy. Lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176186 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 12:08:49 +0000 skibobrown 176186@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would cry and freak out. This is SO not a situation I would want to be in. The first thing I discussed w/ my doctor at my 6-week checkup was birth control methods! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176175 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 11:58:01 +0000 Mrs. Pen 176175@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@dc yoga bee: omg. that is seriously awful. how cruel and mean. I would seriously unfriend anyone who dared talk to me like that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176171 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 11:56:34 +0000 Mrs. Pen 176171@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@cvbee: lol yup same here. We're 3 months pp and still haven't DTD. So it's not physically possible lol</p> <p>I can't believe she ovulated RIGHT after birth, that is CRAZY! Even if she wasn't breastfeeding, it's still... wow...</p> <p>@jessiejo17: AGREED.</p> <p>I would have a REALLY REALLY hard time with it. We are barely getting by financially and definitely couldn't afford an upgrade to a 3 bedroom and MORE baby stuff (if it was a girl, if we had another boy it'd be easier!). So I would be worried about providing for our little one. But I would be excited because I believe every baby is wonderful gift from the Lord, I would need a lot of help/support though and I know I would get that from my husband, mom and sister. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176157 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 11:48:47 +0000 cyneswith 176157@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>There's no medical reason not to have sex that early if there's no tearing/hemorrhaging. I imagine she was pretty sure she wouldn't be physically able to get pregnant quite so soon - the Irish twins I know were "I was told I couldn't get pregnant while X!" (while breastfeeding, before the first period, etc.)</p> <p>I would be freaked out if I had Irish twins, and I'm still trying to figure out how we should prevent having them (mini-pill? condoms? NFP WON'T work...) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth/page/2#post-176149 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 11:42:39 +0000 lovehoneybee 176149@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're only planning on having the one, so there would be a massively overwhelmed freak-out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth#post-176145 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 11:41:39 +0000 Sweet T 176145@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would probably have a nervous break down. That is way too close together for me! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth#post-176120 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 11:12:57 +0000 Running Elley 176120@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would probably panic but be excited about it once I got used to the idea. I’d like our babies to be close together….I definitely wouldn’t plan for them to be THAT close though! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth#post-176070 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 10:33:42 +0000 holdonforonemoreday 176070@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My mom told me that she thought she was pregnant again 1 month after having me. Then she did get pregnant again 2 months later. My brother and I are 1 year and 8 days apart. She ended up having 4 kids in total in 5 years.</p> <p>I was freaked out when I got a BFP when my LO was 8 months old. Now that BFP is arriving next Thursday. You freak, then you deal. </p> <p>Tori Spelling is just crazy though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth#post-176068 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 10:33:08 +0000 MrsMccarthy 176068@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It would be pretty traumatic and crazy but i am also about to be 35 so i guess i would have to count my blessings. my husband and i hope to start trying for #2 after about a year to year and a half. we shall see. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/how-would-you-feel-if-you-got-pregnant-again-one-month-after-giving-birth#post-176062 Fri, 01 Jun 2012 10:29:06 +0000 mamimami 176062@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm with @cvbee! I would think, "that's impossible," because there's no way we would have done anything. If we had, I would probably still be thinking, "ow." </p>