https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 24 Apr 2026 02:49:53 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-1024370 Fri, 16 Aug 2013 14:17:15 +0000 BSB 1024370@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@meganmp: I agree with @Mrs.Someone: Wherever you feel comfortable. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-1011107 Mon, 12 Aug 2013 15:41:48 +0000 beachbee 1011107@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have one LO and two angel babies. Even after the bloodwork at my RE's office confirmed the pregnancy, I had to go home and pee on a stick so i could try to experience some of the normalcy i felt others got by getting pregnant without interventions. It sounds silly, but i wanted that moment :)</p> <p>I pray each of you gets your BFP and your sticky baby!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-999917 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 13:44:47 +0000 Mrs.Someone 999917@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@meganmp: Hang out wherever you feel comfortable! If you identify with IFers, then feel free to comment with us. You still went through a lot to get your kids, so you for sure understand what we're all going through. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-999809 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 13:21:59 +0000 TheSwissWifeStyle 999809@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bluestriped bee: @meganmp: yup, internet cheapies. :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-999752 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 13:10:10 +0000 kentuckygirl 999752@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have never seen a BFP and the more I test, the more I also feel like it will never happen. We are doing IVF with next cycle, so I am trying to remaing hopeful that this will be our time! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-999539 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 12:29:03 +0000 meganmp 999539@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bluestriped bee: Internet Cheapies? Maybe. That's a new one for me, too.</p> <p>I've always been curious if I still qualify as an IFer. I mean, I have two kids, but there is no way that I would have them without the extensive medical intervention that we've had. I think I feel... guilty? Maybe that's the word. Whatever the case, I didn't see a single 2nd line, even an evap, until it was the real deal. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-999484 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 12:16:33 +0000 ineebee 999484@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I saw one with my CP a few months ago. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-999422 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 12:03:00 +0000 BSB 999422@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@TheSwissWifeStyle: what does IC mean? Sorry, I'm horrible with abbreviations. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-998167 Thu, 08 Aug 2013 02:23:53 +0000 TheSwissWifeStyle 998167@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>2 BFPs, no LOs.</p> <p>I have one more test from my huge batch of ICs. I'm not using it til I really think it could be it. (No more early testing.) And once it's gone that's it! I'm not buying anymore. I never thought I'd get to a point where I said that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-997822 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 20:53:15 +0000 Grace 997822@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I was totally worried I'd never see one, but it did happen eventually. Thinking of you, ladies. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-997578 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 18:52:13 +0000 jmarionsmith 997578@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>3 times. 2 times ended with a lost and the 3rd i got my lo. i'm thinking of all you ladies who are struggling! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-997436 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 17:42:02 +0000 TheReelDeal 997436@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Once, it seems like a long ago fantasy at this point. Like a lot of you have already said, I fear I won't see another one. I know it gives me anxiety to POAS so I wait as long as possible. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-997410 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 17:26:07 +0000 fairefaire 997410@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No BFPs here. </p> <p>My first IUI will be next month and I will not be testing out the trigger... I don't want to see the lines unless they're real!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-997398 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 17:22:00 +0000 LovelyPlum 997398@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Three...two losses and the little plum currently in my belly. With this last one, though, I was too afraid of a bfp to test...I went straight in for blood work, because that was easier for me to handle. I only POAS in order to convince myself it was true, and even then I was so sure it would come up negative and mean another loss. I still worry about that.</p> <p>Huge hugs to everyone, no matter what your answer :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-997361 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 17:02:04 +0000 MrsTal 997361@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I believe that I've had two faint positives,, one last summer and one last cycle. I've tried to convince myself they were evaps or faulty tests because I started a day or two later but I think one or both might have been chemical pregnancies. :sad: I'm scared if I ever do see a BFP I won't believe it until I deliver a healthy LO. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-997360 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 17:01:31 +0000 swedishfish 997360@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I got my first and only BFP after my IVF cycle. I did test the trigger out because there was no way I was waiting 16 days till my beta. I got my BFP at 6 DP5DT and have a six week old now. I hope that everyone here gets their BFP and sticky baby soon :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-997305 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 16:41:55 +0000 tequiero21 997305@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I saw it twice, once with a miscarriage, once after ivf. All within about 4 years of officially and unofficially trying. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-996729 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 14:14:53 +0000 Sunshine1810 996729@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I saw one once but had a m/c. It was in 2008 when I was with my ex (definitely not planned). DH and I have been TTC for 2 years now and I have not seen one BFP. I am worried that I will never see one again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-996726 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 14:14:33 +0000 sweetooth 996726@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I voted other because I only saw my first BFP with the baby that is still growing in my belly. I honestly thought I would never see those two lines. It was a long 20 months of stark white pee sticks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-996696 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 14:05:59 +0000 mrswin 996696@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Never.... I have the same worry as @pui: and @Shutterbug: </p> <p>I never tested after my treatment cycles either (IUI) because I was too scared to like @twodoghouse: mentioned </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-996638 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 13:53:03 +0000 spaniellove 996638@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Twice...obviously no LO. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-996629 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 13:50:39 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 996629@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@twodoghouse: you're not crazy! I don't think I will have the courage to POAS after my transfer. I'm so nervous! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-996622 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 13:47:27 +0000 Shutterbug 996622@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. bird: :heart: :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-996618 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 13:46:24 +0000 mrs. bird 996618@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>3 but no LO. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-996611 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 13:43:44 +0000 twodoghouse 996611@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No BFPs for me. Going through IVF is so bizarre because this is probably the only shot I'll have to see those two lines and I'm scared to death! I don't know if I'll have the guts to POAS at the end of this. I think I'd prefer to just receive a call from my doctor's office saying yes or no, rather than stare at another stick trying to see a second line. Maybe it's POAS PTSD. @Leialou: Do you feel this way too with your IVF cycle, or am I the only crazy one here? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-996610 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 13:43:35 +0000 Shutterbug 996610@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I almost voted other, only because I tested the HCG trigger out of my system, so technically I saw a positive HPT, but it was artificial, not from a baby :)</p> <p>@pui: mine too :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-996589 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 13:38:34 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 996589@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Never </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-996576 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 13:36:07 +0000 pui 996576@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My biggest fear is that I will never see a BFP... :\ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-have-you-ever-seen-a-bfp#post-996568 Wed, 07 Aug 2013 13:34:09 +0000 BSB 996568@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm just curious how many of us who have IF, have seen a BFP(s) or have only seen BFNs. </p> <p>I haven't seen a BFP before. I know there are many of you who had miscarriages or a loss and I'm so so sorry. I know I hope and pray to see a BFP at one time in the future but I understand dealing with a loss can be so much more difficult than the BFNs. </p>