https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 24 Apr 2026 09:39:33 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398343 Thu, 15 Nov 2012 01:46:35 +0000 autumnlove 398343@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would tell DH! He doesn't gossip! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398342 Thu, 15 Nov 2012 01:46:14 +0000 HLK208 398342@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If its something shocking that has made me feel strongly about something, then I'll share with DH (as long as it wouldn't hurt the other person). If it doesn't have an effect on me then I usually don't share. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398326 Thu, 15 Nov 2012 01:14:14 +0000 MaisyMay 398326@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I tell my husband everything, unless I'm asked to not tell him or if there is something personal that I hear from a coworker. We work for the same small company but I hear a lot of personal stuff from the girls when he's out of the office. He doesn't get to hear that. :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398324 Thu, 15 Nov 2012 01:09:51 +0000 daniellemybelle 398324@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MamaMoose: This exactly. I tell my husband unless you ask me not to, and I think most understand that's just how marrieds do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398317 Thu, 15 Nov 2012 00:56:26 +0000 Pink Champagne 398317@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I tell my husband everything. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398312 Thu, 15 Nov 2012 00:34:22 +0000 birdofafeather 398312@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i assume that my friends tell their husbands everything because i tell mine everything. if a friend told me about her clitoral piercing though, i probably wouldn't have an issue NOT telling my husband. ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398304 Thu, 15 Nov 2012 00:20:10 +0000 Mrs. Sunglasses 398304@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would keep it a secret. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398282 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 23:27:52 +0000 jmarionsmith 398282@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i always say don't tell me if you don't want me to tell my dh. i tell my hubby everything. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398229 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 22:32:44 +0000 Mrs. Bee 398229@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i wouldn't tell. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398224 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 22:31:29 +0000 Rubies 398224@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't tell because I would want my secrets to be kept, too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398220 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 22:27:00 +0000 junebugmama 398220@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I never tell. If someone asks me to keep a secret than I do. DH hates it though. I think because he can never keep a secret lol. He tells me everything. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398213 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 22:23:11 +0000 MamaMoose 398213@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If I'm specifically asked not to tell my husband something then I respect my friend's wishes and I don't. But I do tell him everything unless I'm specifically asked not to. And I assume all of my married friends will tell my secrets to their spouses unless I ask them not to. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398203 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 22:10:36 +0000 Mrs. Champagne 398203@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd tell him, but he never cares enough to repeat/usually forgets! lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398187 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:53:31 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 398187@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: me too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398180 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:48:45 +0000 .twist. 398180@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@rachiecakes: Yea, if it was something that would really hurt someone, I wouldn't either. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398177 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:47:10 +0000 rachiecakes 398177@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>if it wasn't anything that would hurt anybody - and my DH isn't friends with my friends really - I don't see the harm in telling him. if it was something terribly embarrassing or something that might hurt someone if I told him, I definitely wouldn't. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398173 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:44:29 +0000 .twist. 398173@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>One of my girlfriends recently told me about a.... peer pressured piercing and we had a pretty good giggle about it, she was totally horrified about the piercing she got and I thought about telling DH, but keep having a bit of a moral conflict. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398162 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:40:09 +0000 chopsuey 398162@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I tell my DH everything :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398158 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:38:53 +0000 prettylizy 398158@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: I'd probably tell DH :S </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398157 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:38:52 +0000 blackbird 398157@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee, ok 99.999% ? </p> <p>Well, my friend said, "well i tell my mom everything". Well, some people tell their husbands everything. Doesn't really make it OK to the person whose secret you blabbed. I was really pissed about that! Now she's on my "friends not to tell stuff to" list. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398156 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:38:11 +0000 .twist. 398156@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@prettylizy: What if they told you and then, giggling, said don't tell him because they'd be so embarrassed? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398152 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:36:53 +0000 prettylizy 398152@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't often keep secrets from DH, if someone wants to tell me something that I can't tell DH, I usually just say never mind, I don't want to know. I'm terrible at keeping secrets from him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398151 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:36:47 +0000 .twist. 398151@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh, I have a friend that something similar happened with. </p> <p>When I was a lot younger my BFF and I (who's parents are also friends) went and got matching tattoos, well, I had kept all my tattoos a secret from my folks and she went and told hers. My parents found out through her parents. Terrible and yes, VERY annoying. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398148 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:35:26 +0000 mrbee 398148@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@blackbird: Only 99%? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398147 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:35:04 +0000 mrbee 398147@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wouldn't tell Bee if someone asked me not to. I usually don't share stuff even if the person doesn't ask. Depends on the secret though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398146 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:34:33 +0000 blackbird 398146@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No. I would respect my friend's privacy. ESPECIALLY if they told me NOT to tell my DH. </p> <p>You know how much it pisses me off when I tell a friend something, swear her to secrecy, then find out she told her mom or husband afterwards?! It makes me NOT tell them secrets anymore! And it's usually something personal, too :( My friend's mom knew about my pregnancy before mine! Rage. </p> <p>And with personal stuff it's like...TMI, husbands don't need to know. My husband doesn't need to know all my friends' business. And 99% of the time, the guys don't give a shit, anyways :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-one-of-your-friends-told-you-a-secret#post-398137 Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:30:09 +0000 .twist. 398137@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>...and it was pretty juicy but nothing like... life changing, and they asked you not to tell your SO/DH, would you still tell your partner? </p>