https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 16 May 2026 21:42:48 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-bed-shared-with-lo1-where-did-lo2-sleep#post-2688726 Sun, 29 Jan 2017 16:26:53 +0000 FaithFertility 2688726@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cole: We got DD a full size bed and had her sleep in there!<br /> She always went down to sleep in her crib/room but would wake MOTN and come in our room!</p> <p>She now 2yrs old STTN most of the time but if she wakes me or DH go and sleep with her if need be ...DS is 12 weeks and in our room!</p> <p>This works for us! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-bed-shared-with-lo1-where-did-lo2-sleep#post-2688654 Sun, 29 Jan 2017 11:53:10 +0000 skipra 2688654@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>LO1 used to come in our bed every night. As soon as he got in he would sleep the rest of the night without waking. When LO2 was born, we had him in a cradle next to the bed. LO1 didn't like being woken up by him so he just started staying in his bed all night. It was amazing!<br /> LO2 was mostly staying in his bed by the time LO3 arrived but there are still some nights he ends up with us. We make sure LO3 stays in the RnP if LO2 comes into our bed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-bed-shared-with-lo1-where-did-lo2-sleep#post-2688631 Sun, 29 Jan 2017 10:26:25 +0000 Revel 2688631@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cole: no solution but solidarity. My daughter is in our bed from 2am ish to the morning. I'm committed to getting her to full nights in her own bed before the second one comes but no idea how! She is old enough for a sticker chart so I'm kicking that around in my head for something to try when the first tri exhaustion ends. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-bed-shared-with-lo1-where-did-lo2-sleep#post-2688627 Sun, 29 Jan 2017 09:55:45 +0000 snowjewelz 2688627@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LindsayLou: @Cole: if you guys plan to transition your older I advise to do it soon! We totally procrastinated setting up her big girl room and then we were just lazy and wanted good sleep/more snuggle time. She was napping in her room but we only moved her for night when I cam home to the hospital... So I think all the transitions were a bit much. It kinda works out that DH sleeps in there with her now so that he can get some sleep too </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-bed-shared-with-lo1-where-did-lo2-sleep#post-2688597 Sun, 29 Jan 2017 08:17:47 +0000 Cole 2688597@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@snowjewelz: @LindsayLou: honestly, I love cosleeping the vast majority of the time too, especially now that she just snuggles in and sleeps through the night for the most part. The stages of literally a dozen plus wakeups and the fact that it's a bit of a train wreck every time someone else needs to put her to bed are really my issues. I also know my husband is kind over it at this point but he's powerless to fix it without a lot of tears. </p> <p>@junebugsmama: thanks! I'll try and find it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-bed-shared-with-lo1-where-did-lo2-sleep#post-2688587 Sun, 29 Jan 2017 03:08:43 +0000 mrsbubbletea 2688587@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cole: one of the bloggers posted about this! I want to say ms cereal? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-bed-shared-with-lo1-where-did-lo2-sleep#post-2688579 Sat, 28 Jan 2017 23:00:05 +0000 LindsayLou 2688579@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Following. I'm expecting our second in Augustus and have no idea how we're going to stop cosleeping with our first. My 17 month old starts the night in her crib every night, but every night ends up in our bed sometime between midnight and 5 am. Most of the time, I enjoy cosleeping. And it's so much easier to just nudge my husband to go get her when she wakes up, nurse her back to sleep, and go back to sleep myself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-bed-shared-with-lo1-where-did-lo2-sleep#post-2688569 Sat, 28 Jan 2017 21:57:37 +0000 snowjewelz 2688569@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think this time around I'm more knowledgable and have more confidence. DD2 is 5 weeks and sleeps next to me in bed but I do plan to put her in a bassinet then hopefully crib after 6 mo. I'm totally open to cosleeping again tho.. To me it's not just a way to cope; I truly loved it and still miss having DD1 in bed with us. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-bed-shared-with-lo1-where-did-lo2-sleep#post-2688567 Sat, 28 Jan 2017 21:23:51 +0000 Cole 2688567@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@hitchhiker: thanks! I am so curious about the personality of the next baby, my daughter is just such an attached person and the older she gets the more obvious is that it's just the way she sees the world. My number one wish (besides the obvious of a healthy baby!) is that this one is a better sleeper by nature! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-bed-shared-with-lo1-where-did-lo2-sleep#post-2688563 Sat, 28 Jan 2017 20:41:47 +0000 hitchhiker 2688563@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This is us to a T. LO2 slept in her crib from night 1 (in our room). We even put her back in there after all wake ups. This continued to work even when we moved her to get own room around 6 months. But then teething happened, and many nights we have both darn kids in our bed from midnight-ish on. Ugh. I don't have the energy to fight it currently. </p> <p>But to be honest, I think this is mostly kid driven. LO2 had been a better sleeper and much more independent baby from the beginning. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-bed-shared-with-lo1-where-did-lo2-sleep#post-2688548 Sat, 28 Jan 2017 19:56:48 +0000 Cole 2688548@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're expecting baby 2 but baby 1 is almost 2.5 and still in our bed most of the night! She's a pretty attached and sensitive kid and I have no clue how we'll ever get her in her own bed all night! </p> <p>If you were in a similar boat how did you approach sleep with the next baby? In theory I want a solid plan to get her in a crib and I want better sleep habits for her but I think I'm the one who needs sleep training! I know when I'm exhausted I'll do the easy and familiar thing which is pull her in bed and nurse all night! Any advice? How did it go for you? </p>