https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 24 Jun 2026 02:15:25 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2445816 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 06:26:57 +0000 ValentineMommy 2445816@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Super, duper excited! I would love a third! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2445789 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 04:47:08 +0000 Pumuckl 2445789@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Pretty sure we'll try for a third by summer so if I was pregnant now I'd be annoyed by the timing but would get over it quickly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2445773 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 02:42:54 +0000 sometimesshesings 2445773@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We'd probably get used to the idea and be okay with it, but we're feeling very much done with 2. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2445772 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 02:42:45 +0000 erinpye 2445772@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not happening, permanent measures taken. If by some miracle it did, I'd be devastated and beyond terrified of the sickness (HG) starting in again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2445767 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 02:17:38 +0000 birdofafeather 2445767@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Super excited for #3 but not for another year or two! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2445759 Tue, 02 Feb 2016 01:56:26 +0000 lemondrop 2445759@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Very, very undecided at this point. Pure panic, with a tiny bit of relief that the decision was made. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444569 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 11:27:42 +0000 MrsSRS 2444569@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband would take one look at a positive test and go straight for a vasectomy. He would not be happy. I would have pretty mixed feelings. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444487 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 10:41:08 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 2444487@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We go back and forth on this, but are still mostly in the "no" camp, so I think we'd be freaked out initially, but happy too. We'd probably just go with it and be relieved that the decision was "made for us", haha. But we're really loving life now with 2 - things are balanced and really relaxed. Feeling spoiled now that the kids mainly do their own things and we can just sit back and enjoy it. Loving the rhythm we've found so far. It would definitely be an adjustment to start all over, but I think I'd be way more chill as a 3rd time mom. There was already a huge difference between 1 and 2. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444474 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 10:27:31 +0000 lilteacherbee 2444474@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We want 3, but not just yet (LO2 is only 6 months). If I got pregnant, I'd freak out for a bit, but then I'd be happy! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444467 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 10:24:56 +0000 gingerbebe 2444467@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We feel pretty done at 2, but don't feel confident taking permanent measures before 40. Pregnancy is harrrrrd on me and I'm 6 months in with my second, so if we had a 3rd it would likely be adoption and it would obviously be a very intentional choice. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444460 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 10:22:27 +0000 cascademom 2444460@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would be upset. I'm happy with two. DH and I both only wanted two kids, so we're where we want to be family size. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444408 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 09:55:33 +0000 hilsy85 2444408@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We want 3 but definitely not for a few years, if I were pregnant with #3 now, I would be incredibly upset (DD is only 3 months). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444404 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 09:53:31 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 2444404@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We're maybe on a third. I have a mild stomach bug today though and it's reminding me of all the reasons why I don't ever want to be pregnant again. Ever. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444331 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 09:23:52 +0000 Finfan 2444331@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would come around but we both feel done. DH is an oops third child and he turned out OK. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444325 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 09:22:31 +0000 lilyann 2444325@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I cannot wait to add #3 to our family! (not currently pregnant though) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444324 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 09:21:14 +0000 meredithNYC 2444324@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I want three, so I would be fine with it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444323 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 09:18:32 +0000 Andrea 2444323@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd be happy, but would honestly dread starting over. My youngest would be almost 4 by the time the baby came and that's a bigger gap than I would like, too. A friend of mine has this age gap and her older two just ignore the baby so her 3rd is more like an only child. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444281 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 08:42:59 +0000 Bao 2444281@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would cry. No thanks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444277 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 08:38:23 +0000 Foodnerd81 2444277@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are leaving the door open- as in IUD not vasectomy- but we would have to think long and hard about it. And not until our older one is in full time school for my sanity. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444273 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 08:27:44 +0000 Freckles 2444273@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@lamariniere: LOL same!!</p> <p>Seriously, would not be happy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444272 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 08:27:22 +0000 Mrs. Oatmeal 2444272@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would be pretty terrified. Eventually we would embrace a surprise, but it would take a while! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444268 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 08:22:54 +0000 lamariniere 2444268@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Panic. Sheer panic. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444252 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 08:09:51 +0000 Mamaof2 2444252@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would not be happy.<br /> My youngest is about to start K - I am ready to move on to the next stage of raising of kids! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444249 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 08:06:51 +0000 travellingbee 2444249@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No. Absolutely done at 2. I would be very upset if we had an oops #3. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-currently-have-two-kids#post-2444243 Mon, 01 Feb 2016 08:00:01 +0000 mrbee 2444243@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>how do you feel about a potential baby #3?</p> <p>I am definitely feeling super duper done at this point. If we had a surprise baby #3, it would be a big shock... as we'd be "starting over" with a newborn, just when it feels like things are getting back to normal (whatever that is). </p>