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Hellobee Boards Topic: If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby... https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 02 Jul 2026 19:20:41 +0000 littlek on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-745185 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 21:55:12 +0000 littlek 745185@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Baby. I don't believe in soul mates. Weagle on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-745162 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 21:48:14 +0000 Weagle 745162@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Soulmate. tequiero21 on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-745144 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 21:40:59 +0000 tequiero21 745144@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Soulmate. I don't want to grow old alone. pui on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-744365 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 19:44:55 +0000 pui 744365@https://boards.hellobee.com/ The soul mate. twoofeverything on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-744333 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 19:41:05 +0000 twoofeverything 744333@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Soulmate, for sure. But I am so, so lucky and grateful that I don't have to choose :-) MrsStormy on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-744311 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 19:38:31 +0000 MrsStormy 744311@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I don't have a child so it might be easier now for me to answer than it will be in a few months ;-) but I would choose soulmate. I really think I could have lived without kids and been totally happy and satisfied with my husband and dogs. My life would be lonely and boring without my soulmate! rachiecakes on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-744186 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 19:19:01 +0000 rachiecakes 744186@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I felt complete having DS. I'd choose baby. If I never had a child I think I'd always feel like something was missing. Ree723 on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-744168 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 19:15:17 +0000 Ree723 744168@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I can't choose either! Maybe if I'd never had kids and didn't know how much I could love her, I would be able to say soulmate, even though I would have missed having a baby. But now that I have a LO, I couldn't imagine my life without either one of them! mrsjyw on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-744112 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 19:02:07 +0000 mrsjyw 744112@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I can't choose!!! Life wo either is unimaginable!! SugarplumsMom on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-744110 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 19:01:13 +0000 SugarplumsMom 744110@https://boards.hellobee.com/ soulmate Running Elley on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-744023 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 18:46:39 +0000 Running Elley 744023@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I love my husband so much and can't imagine life without him. He's my best friend. But.. I also would have always felt incomplete if I couldn't be a mother. So I'd choose baby. jmarionsmith on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-744019 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 18:46:19 +0000 jmarionsmith 744019@https://boards.hellobee.com/ partner for life. but thankfully i'll never have to make that decision. Lindsay05 on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-744003 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 18:43:20 +0000 Lindsay05 744003@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Soulmate. I think it's important for your health to have someone to grow old with. Bao on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-744002 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 18:43:11 +0000 Bao 744002@https://boards.hellobee.com/ A soulmate hilsy85 on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743999 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 18:42:52 +0000 hilsy85 743999@https://boards.hellobee.com/ soulmate...if I never had LO in the first place, I wouldn't know what I was missing! Raindrop on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743984 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 18:40:37 +0000 Raindrop 743984@https://boards.hellobee.com/ soulmate. i can see a happy life without kids. but raising a kid on your own is pretty tough! :) DillonLion on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743918 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 18:27:18 +0000 DillonLion 743918@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @mrskc: baby! Ra on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743768 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:59:41 +0000 Ra 743768@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Soul mate Mrs. Pickle on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743714 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:51:14 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 743714@https://boards.hellobee.com/ soulmate MamaMoose on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743676 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:39:21 +0000 MamaMoose 743676@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @mrsjazz: @prettylizy: I'm the other baby chooser. I love my husband dearly and he is an amazing husband/father/partner but I have ached for a baby for a very long time and I think I would have always felt incomplete if I never became a mother. mrsjazz on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743662 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:33:24 +0000 mrsjazz 743662@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I've wanted to be a mom for a long time so I'd choose a baby :) Dandelion on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743659 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:32:40 +0000 Dandelion 743659@https://boards.hellobee.com/ soulmate red_seattle on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743652 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:31:01 +0000 red_seattle 743652@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Soulmate. Easy choice. The soulmate is with you forever-- a child is only with you until they leave the nest and have busy lives of their own. Also, I'm not sure I would've wanted (or could've survived) motherhood if I didn't have such a great partner. But I commend and have a TON of admiration and respect for parents who do it alone. mrskc on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743644 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:28:59 +0000 mrskc 743644@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @highwire: what would you choose? Soulmate for life! deerylou on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743640 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:28:29 +0000 deerylou 743640@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I'm still pregnant with my first, so I can't adequately compare the love I have for DH to the love I have/will have for DD. I've always wanted to be a mother, but I'd most likely choose to have a soulmate for life. I truly can't imagine my world without DH in it. Mrs. Pen on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743633 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:26:51 +0000 Mrs. Pen 743633@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Soulmate for sure- as long as this means I would be ensured love and happiness forever! Rainbow Sprinkles on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743625 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:25:32 +0000 Rainbow Sprinkles 743625@https://boards.hellobee.com/ soulmate for sure. i love my daughter more than words could express but my DH actually makes me even happier. I love him so much and I couldn't imagine life without him. prettylizy on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743623 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:25:19 +0000 prettylizy 743623@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I've wanted to be a mama since I was 4. I couldn't imagine life without a child. lovehoneybee on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743622 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:25:10 +0000 lovehoneybee 743622@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I love my son more than I love anyone else in the whole world--except for my DH. MrsH on "If you had to choose between a lifetime spouse or a baby..." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-choose-between-a-lifetime-spouse-or-a-baby#post-743614 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:24:12 +0000 MrsH 743614@https://boards.hellobee.com/ soulmate.