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Hellobee Boards Topic: If you had to evaluate yourself....... https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 18 Apr 2026 01:13:15 +0000 pachamama on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890524 Wed, 10 Jul 2019 06:43:13 +0000 pachamama 2890524@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @irene: I agree that parenthood amplifies your cons. I was a decent person before and had good self esteem but that's mostly gone now with the relentless stress, insecurities and tedium motherhood has brought. SugarplumsMom on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890522 Wed, 10 Jul 2019 05:44:42 +0000 SugarplumsMom 2890522@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pros: caring, thoughtful and considerate, capable, dependable, smart, loyal, honest, nurturing, kind, can cook, playful and easily amused, i have a strong moral compass Cons: lazy, unambitious, need a lot of alone time, stubborn, i have a temper, hold grudges, i'm a slob compared to most women wrkbrk on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890496 Tue, 09 Jul 2019 20:19:02 +0000 wrkbrk 2890496@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @CatchAFallingStar: I only do because it’s constantly brought up to me as a complaint :/ Mrs. Pajamas on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890439 Tue, 09 Jul 2019 10:47:55 +0000 Mrs. Pajamas 2890439@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @karenbme: you are my twin! LadyDi on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890438 Tue, 09 Jul 2019 10:25:34 +0000 LadyDi 2890438@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pros: good listener, empathetic, punctual, organized, kind, practical Cons: procrastinator, impatient (in general, but very much so with my kids), can lack motivation/direction, pessimist/grass is always greener type of mentality, anxiety, can be shy but mostly very introverted youboots on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890437 Tue, 09 Jul 2019 10:14:02 +0000 youboots 2890437@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pros: Outgoing, pragmatic, easily adaptable, great at planning, artistic, problem solver. Cons: impatient, selfish, unmotivated to the point of being lazy. (Also currently 7 mo pregnant so some of this is worse than usual) DH and I balance each other out and even though we have a lot of similar traits he really values my strengths and I value his so we make a good team. irene on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890424 Tue, 09 Jul 2019 08:53:04 +0000 irene 2890424@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pro: Creative, artistic, funny, always on-time, grateful, hard-working Cons: extreme lack of patience, yeller, anxious / "often feel/look lost", poor sense of direction, emotional, often take things personally, messy, want to have it all, procrastinate, perfectionist, emotional, shy / introverted, pessimistic, high expectations on others (especially my poor DS), don't do the "grown up" stuff very well (eg. finance, insurance, maintenance of house, yard, car...etc) Unclassified: I am extremely organized with work, but extremely disorganized in life Gosh, I am a terrible person! This parenthood thing does reveal flaws and amplify them 100 times! smuckers on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890423 Tue, 09 Jul 2019 08:50:32 +0000 smuckers 2890423@https://boards.hellobee.com/ pros: loving, loyal, kind, great memory, organized cons: emotional, know-it-all, loud, judgemental, anxious, lazy belongs on both lists: sensitive, reactive, helpful/enabler basically i'm Hermione as a Hufflepuff. Ajsmommy on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890411 Tue, 09 Jul 2019 07:16:20 +0000 Ajsmommy 2890411@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @CatchAFallingStar: I also put my kids wayyy before spouse and I don't think it's a bad thing either :shocked: oops.... cyoung on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890404 Tue, 09 Jul 2019 06:58:11 +0000 cyoung 2890404@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pros: self reflective, I deal with problems head on, kind, I have amazing patience, creative and a hard worker Cons: anxious, insecure, I overreact sometimes, I quit things a lot and never finish stuff, poor discipline, can be lazy and an escapist mentally. pachamama on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890398 Tue, 09 Jul 2019 05:37:22 +0000 pachamama 2890398@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I do this with my therapist all time time bc all I ever list in cons! Pros: organized, driven, reliable, good in social settings, root and support the underdog, empathetic (tho sometimes not with my kids🤔), energetic, makes people feel welcome, funny Cons: anxious, type a, never pleased, a nag, judgemental and critical, impulsive, obsessive, not a great listener, mean to my husband, impatient, gets stressed too easily, mean to my mom 😭 karenbme on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890397 Tue, 09 Jul 2019 05:19:17 +0000 karenbme 2890397@https://boards.hellobee.com/ pro: driven, no bs, loyal, cares about causes, patient with children, open, planner con: high expectations of others, high strung/high anxiety, stubborn, push myself too hard CatchAFallingStar on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890385 Mon, 08 Jul 2019 23:36:44 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2890385@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Oh and, kids way before husband ...kids above all else. I guess I don’t see that as a con, though. CatchAFallingStar on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890384 Mon, 08 Jul 2019 23:35:40 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2890384@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pros: friendly, accepting, fun, easy going Cons: extremely impatient, extreme high anxiety, bossy, stubborn, easily annoyed and frustrated Hypatia on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890379 Mon, 08 Jul 2019 21:47:30 +0000 Hypatia 2890379@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pros: Puts husband first, generous, plans fun outings, creative, places emphasis on self-control and kindness, keeps the family rhythm going. Cons: Insecure, doesn’t play with the kids often enough, impatient and demanding at times, battles depression and chronic pain, not very spontaneous, sometimes expects too much of the children, often dislikes other people’s kids. Littlebit7 on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890367 Mon, 08 Jul 2019 20:39:46 +0000 Littlebit7 2890367@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pros: caring, conscientious, detail oriented, always on time or early, planner, organized, good listener, puts family first Cons: inflexible, set in ways, defensive, doesn’t like to be spread too thin, kids before spouse too. wrkbrk on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890366 Mon, 08 Jul 2019 20:25:31 +0000 wrkbrk 2890366@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @Ajsmommy: I’ll play! Pros: generous, ambitious, inclusive Cons: defensive, knowingly put kid before spouse :/ Ajsmommy on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890323 Mon, 08 Jul 2019 12:54:19 +0000 Ajsmommy 2890323@https://boards.hellobee.com/ pro: laid back, organized, creative, loyal, honest, hard working, goal driven, can see both sides, optimist con: often running late, procrastinate things I don't want to do, don't take being told what to do well Ajsmommy on "If you had to evaluate yourself......." https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-had-to-evaluate-yourself#post-2890322 Mon, 08 Jul 2019 12:51:20 +0000 Ajsmommy 2890322@https://boards.hellobee.com/ what would be your pro list: what would be your con list: