https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 01 May 2026 00:50:32 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2812693 Wed, 28 Mar 2018 19:50:50 +0000 Canoli 2812693@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@winniebee: yessssssss! Same same same! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2812635 Wed, 28 Mar 2018 15:04:02 +0000 anonysquire 2812635@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We had 3 for 11 months and then #4 was a shock. Now I want 2 more! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2812104 Tue, 27 Mar 2018 05:59:43 +0000 ValentineMommy 2812104@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>There was a time when I wanted 4. </p> <p>Due to my age, some medical concerns, and finances, we are done at 3. I am still grieving that fact, but also at peace with it.....if that's possible lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2812097 Mon, 26 Mar 2018 22:44:04 +0000 autumnlove 2812097@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, we are stopping at 3! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811608 Sat, 24 Mar 2018 03:19:36 +0000 Kemma 2811608@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@2littlepumpkins: we knew we could “afford” three without any massive financial outlay (we have a decent sized house and an SUV, plus we don’t need any new baby stuff) but four kids would mean a bigger house and new cars and I’m not sure we could swing that in the next few years!</p> <p>I’d also be pushing 40 and most likely dealing with GD again and further damage to my anatomy that comes from birthing big babies... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811604 Sat, 24 Mar 2018 00:40:47 +0000 MrsB2012 2811604@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have 3 girls. I’d love another, but dh isn’t for it. He actually said in a few years he would consider another, but if we were to have a 4th, I’d want to have it in the next 12-18 months. I don’t think it will happen, but I also wouldn’t say we are definitely done. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811497 Fri, 23 Mar 2018 11:41:08 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2811497@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ElbieKay: yeah three has been an adjustment and we don't have twins, but in a way it seems kind of good that at least two will be in similar stages. Obv take that with a grain of salt. :silly: So exciting!! I need to convince my dh to get snipped too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811411 Fri, 23 Mar 2018 05:49:19 +0000 ElbieKay 2811411@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@2littlepumpkins: thanks! I am really excited for the long term and somewhat anxious about the first year or two! First I have to get through the rest of this high risk pregnancy though. And convince my husband to get snipped afterwards :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811401 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 23:10:52 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2811401@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ElbieKay: Aww, congratulations! I'm sure it's probably a little daunting as well but one of the moms in my last birth group has twins after a singleton and they are so sweet! &lt;3 (Idk if she's around much but maybe she will chime in.) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811399 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 22:37:00 +0000 ElbieKay 2811399@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We planned on two. I am currently halfway through a hard-won second sticky pregnancy.</p> <p>It's twins this time.</p> <p>There will definitely be no fourth! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811393 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 21:15:33 +0000 Mamatimes3 2811393@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Done and tubes are tied! I have 2 boys and then a girl. If I had unlimited funds and were younger maybe I’d go for a 4th. But I kind of doubt it. I would for sure go crazy with a 4th. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811380 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 19:52:29 +0000 skipra 2811380@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Done, I think. I, getting too old and on medication that's not safe during pregnancy but if I were a year or two younger and med free I would consider it. Doesn't help that my older kids have been asking for another baby lately! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811354 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 17:43:53 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2811354@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Kemma: we didn't think we could afford three but ended up lucking out on our larger house and dh is doing well at work so we can make it work but yeah four would stretch us too thin, especially in these early years (and then again in the teen years..) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811352 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 16:50:49 +0000 misolee 2811352@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just had my 3rd. Like last week and I have gotten the “are you going to go for a fourth?” question more than I would even like to think about. Even when I was pushing this one out, the doctor was asking me if I wanted more kids. 😳 </p> <p>We are done! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811351 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 16:43:27 +0000 dolphin 2811351@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We have two girls and a boy and we are DONE. 3 is all we can handle! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811350 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 16:38:47 +0000 Kemma 2811350@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We’re expecting #3 in mid-April and I’m open to the idea of a fourth but not committed either way! I feel like when you start thinking about four kids you really have to consider the logistics whereas you can still have three kids in a normal car and a normal size house! Four is also much more of a financial stretch and I couldn’t / wouldn’t consider a fourth if it would stretch us too far. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811317 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 14:37:19 +0000 rattles 2811317@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We have two girls and a boy. I'm open to a fourth, but I'm also happy with what we have. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811314 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 14:33:29 +0000 birdofafeather 2811314@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>due in 5 weeks with our 3rd girl and heck no! i'm DONE after this. :P </p> <p>and yes, we get this a lot asking if we'll try for a boy. we were never trying for one thing or another, we just wanted 3 kiddos. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811311 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 14:28:35 +0000 winniebee 2811311@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>N.O. I would have a nervous breakdown with an unexpected 4th.... We have all boys but I'm not remotely tempted to try for a girl! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811298 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 14:02:01 +0000 MsMini 2811298@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We have 3 kiddos, a tubal ligation and a vasectomy! Safe to say we are done at 3 😂 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-3#post-2811296 Thu, 22 Mar 2018 14:01:01 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2811296@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Do you plan on a 4th? </p> <p>I feel like we've gotten this question a lot because we should "even it out." Doesn't help we have two girls and one boy rather than 3 of the same! But we are done and considering permanent bc options. </p>