Hellobee Boards Topic: If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?

Hellobee Boards Topic: If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done? https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 06 May 2026 06:34:46 +0000 GrapeCrush on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1873810 Tue, 23 Sep 2014 07:42:26 +0000 GrapeCrush 1873810@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We still get asked all the time if we are having more., but yes, people still assume we are done because we have one of each. When I was pregnant with the 2nd and people found out I was having a gir, and we already had a boy, I got a lot of 'oh, the perfect family! You can stop now'. Which I hate, because people don't knwi what someone's idea of a 'perfect' family is. lamariniere on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1873732 Tue, 23 Sep 2014 03:00:02 +0000 lamariniere 1873732@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I actually hear "when are you having another" more often than "one of each and you're done". We are definitely done at one of each though. :happy: matador84 on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1873666 Mon, 22 Sep 2014 21:46:10 +0000 matador84 1873666@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I still get asked pretty often. Life is so good with my two though! Mrs. High Heels on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1873654 Mon, 22 Sep 2014 21:27:34 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 1873654@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Nope, people ask all the time if/when we're having a third. Lindsay05 on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1873640 Mon, 22 Sep 2014 21:10:24 +0000 Lindsay05 1873640@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I get opposite. "Two girls so you must want to try for a boy. "Ummm yes I do but I dont need anyone involved in my family planning. Mrs. Chocolate on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1873601 Mon, 22 Sep 2014 20:25:20 +0000 Mrs. Chocolate 1873601@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Yes people are surprised a lot to hear I want another MrsMccarthy on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1873600 Mon, 22 Sep 2014 20:24:11 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1873600@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We were going to be done at two anyway because my husband deemed it so but people seem much more convinced because we are going to have one of each. I'd still love a third if my husband ever changes his mind but I'm 37 so he'll have to do so soon and I doubt he will. HLK208 on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1869762 Fri, 19 Sep 2014 08:37:34 +0000 HLK208 1869762@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We heard that all the time, haha! But when I was pregnant with my third, I mostly heard, "well, it doesn't matter what you have since you already have one of both" creativemomma15 on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1869754 Fri, 19 Sep 2014 08:32:26 +0000 creativemomma15 1869754@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Yes! Everyone says, "oh you have the perfect family! A million dollar family!" and assumes we are finished or will say oh you're done now… But, we are definitely thinking of a 3rd and who knows after that. People are always surprised, "Oh! Really???" coopsmama on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1869749 Fri, 19 Sep 2014 08:28:11 +0000 coopsmama 1869749@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Oh yeah, I hear it all the time. "So you guys must be done now, right?!" It's annoying but I get why they would assume that - most people these days seem to want only one or two. I just tell then "we'll see" even though I really want a third. tequiero21 on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1869711 Fri, 19 Sep 2014 07:57:30 +0000 tequiero21 1869711@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Yes, was so annoying cuz we wanted three but thought we wouldnt be able to. mrs. wagon on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1869699 Fri, 19 Sep 2014 07:50:57 +0000 mrs. wagon 1869699@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Nope... all we ever hear is "when are you having your third?" :shocked: BandDmommy on "If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-a-boy-and-a-girl-do-people-just-assume-you-are-done#post-1869685 Fri, 19 Sep 2014 07:37:29 +0000 BandDmommy 1869685@https://boards.hellobee.com/ If you have a boy and a girl, do people just assume you are done? I get so many comments saying "so, your family is complete now." When I tell people we are thinking about a 3rd they are shocked.