https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 13 May 2026 19:56:13 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-643312 Fri, 15 Mar 2013 00:57:18 +0000 Honeybee 643312@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I love them both equally but differently. They're both such amamzing, incredible little people, and both of them suprise me on a daily basis. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-643217 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 23:47:20 +0000 twoofeverything 643217@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would say I love them differently but equally. And so, so much. I have a soft spot for both of them, but for different things. DD will get away with much more, though, because she has had the puppy dog face and sad eyes NAILED from day one. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-643187 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 23:24:50 +0000 banana 643187@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am absolutely in love with both equally. I do have a soft spot for my daughter tho. Maybe because she's the baby and a girl. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642790 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 21:16:04 +0000 HLK208 642790@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I love them equally but sometimes it's easier to love DD because she is easier and DS is defiant and 3 haha. But I still love him like crazy! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642755 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 21:10:54 +0000 prettylizy 642755@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH often says he can't imagine our life getting any better, or us having room to love anyone else and we should just stop at 1. I hope I love them both differently, but with all of myself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642747 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 21:09:02 +0000 T-Mom 642747@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'll admit I have a soft spot for DS but mainly because he's still a baby. But I'm super proud of DD and how grown up she has become. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642629 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 20:47:45 +0000 Boogs 642629@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@rachiecakes: Must be! My husband is a twin (the older one) and I swear my MIL has a soft spot for his brother! </p> <p>I always worry about how my love for my LO would change if I have a second one. I can definitely see how it might be easier to love one child more than another on a given day depending on how they are acting. ;p </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642592 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 20:43:28 +0000 mrbee 642592@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I love them both so so much. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642532 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 20:37:03 +0000 mrs. wagon 642532@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My parents are total softies for my older brother!!! I seriously do no wrong and they still favor him!</p> <p>I love my kids equally but the love I have for each of them feels a little different. Both loves are totally all-encompassing though! I get overwhelmed when I try to think about how much I love both of them. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642517 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 20:35:11 +0000 Rubies 642517@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Bee: My older brother is my mom's favourite. I must be the anomaly! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642503 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 20:33:33 +0000 chopsuey 642503@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Bee: I'm 33 and my mom still has a soft spot for me! :D (youngest of 3!) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642451 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 20:28:14 +0000 Mrs.B 642451@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Love both equally </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642443 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 20:27:27 +0000 Rubies 642443@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can't imagine what it feels like to love someone other than my LO! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642429 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 20:26:22 +0000 rachiecakes 642429@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Bee: that would explain why my little brother can do no wrong as far as my mom is concerned! (he's 30) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642392 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 20:21:56 +0000 Mrs. Bee 642392@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i think mamas have a soft spot for the youngest. wonder how long that lasts! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-have-more-than-one-do-you-love-them-equally#post-642372 Thu, 14 Mar 2013 20:19:37 +0000 chopsuey 642372@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I love both my kids equally, but I have a soft spot for my son! Maybe because he's so good and adorable and a boy? </p> <p>I have a different type of soft spot for my baby girl too though. </p> <p>Love is so crazy! </p>