https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 15 Apr 2026 13:10:04 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350579 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 14:00:18 +0000 MediaNaranja 350579@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would probably confront if it was a big deal. If it was something small, I would probably just let it go. I would be very wary about telling secrets again, though!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350553 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 13:38:39 +0000 Turd Ferguson 350553@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd totally say something and definitely keep it in mind for anything that came up in the future. Boo. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350549 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 13:36:37 +0000 autumnlove 350549@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks ladies. Not sure if I will say anything but I definitely won't be so quick to confide in her next time! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350376 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 12:10:29 +0000 DillonLion 350376@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Your experience probably won't be anything like this, but this happened to me and I definitely called them out on it. And it was a huge disaster. Granted, it was my mom. And she accused me of trying to rob her of the "joy of becoming a grandmother" because I didn't want her sharing details about my pregnancy to a bunch of strangers. Now she is mostly in the dark about the details. It is a shame b/c I would have liked to share more of this experience with her, but I had to seek out other support people for that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350367 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 12:05:54 +0000 Smurfette 350367@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am chicken about calling out people. I definitely wouldn't tell them anything else. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350356 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 12:01:15 +0000 blackbird 350356@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It depends. One of my girlfriends, whom i swore to secrecy about my pregnancy, promptly told her mom. Then of course when I saw them all at a party, her mom congratulated me and i was like....wtf? Tell nobody means tell nobody. But she tells her mom everything, so i should've known. </p> <p>I guess it depends what the secret is and how much she gossiped and how big of a deal it was. It would irritate me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350343 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:54:41 +0000 wahine08 350343@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would confront the friend and let them know how it made me feel. I wouldn't go off on them or anything, but I think it's important to be honest with friends in letting them know your boundries. </p> <p>I would also take serious precaution before ever sharing another secret! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350336 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:51:01 +0000 JennyLayneAZ 350336@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Both. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350329 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:49:25 +0000 Mrsbells 350329@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would confront them in a casual way just to see if they fess up and never tell another secret again </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350316 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:47:31 +0000 chopsuey 350316@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would confront and never tell her another secret! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350302 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:44:37 +0000 MrsTiz 350302@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm dealing with this right now. Actually with about 3 people. :( Next time I have news I don't want public yet, they won't know until I am ready for everyone to know.</p> <p>Poor DH has been hearing me bitch about this all week. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350242 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:27:27 +0000 Mrs. Pen 350242@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>depends on what the secret was. If it was a really big deal I would have it out with them. If it wasn't too big a deal, I would be upset, probably not talk to them for awhile and then not share things with them. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350238 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:25:59 +0000 Alivoo01 350238@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would definitely confront them, and never tell them secrets again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350232 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:24:35 +0000 Mrs. High Heels 350232@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just become a lot more selective with what I share with them in the future. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350229 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:23:42 +0000 Springtime 350229@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If they were a close friend I would call them out on it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350227 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:23:39 +0000 MamaMoose 350227@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would probably call them out. Not in an aggressive way, but I would let them know that it was hurtful to me that I shared something with them in confidence and they broke my trust. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350226 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:23:18 +0000 Running Elley 350226@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just wouldn't tell them secrets anymore. I don't usually call people out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350223 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:22:20 +0000 Foodnerd81 350223@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Depends on the friend and on the secret, but generally I wouldn't call someone out on it. I would just make sure to not tell them secrets ever again. I have one friend who I've never found out that she told me secrets, but she has told me so many other people's that I would never tell her something I didn't want the world to know. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350214 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:19:24 +0000 tororojo 350214@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would definitely not tell them secrets anymore. Depending on the person and circumstance, I might or might now call them out on it...either way, they're not very trustworthy and that changes some things. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350207 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:15:30 +0000 prettylizy 350207@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm pretty non-confrontational so I would never call someone out on something like that. I would never confide in them again though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-tell-your-friend-to-not-tell-anyone#post-350205 Fri, 19 Oct 2012 11:12:49 +0000 autumnlove 350205@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What do you do when you find out that they told several people? Do you call them out for it or just never tell them secrets again? </p>