https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 30 Apr 2026 17:40:51 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82878 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 14:24:43 +0000 cranberryapple 82878@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Boogs: Clever response to snooping!! :D </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82820 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 13:40:23 +0000 Crisark 82820@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My XH cheated on me and I was a snooper.<br /> However, I also liked living in denial so no matter what I found I made an excuse for.<br /> He was in fact cheating and has been married to the other woman for going on 5 years....<br /> Follow your instincts is all I can say. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82806 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 13:22:43 +0000 BSB 82806@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Everytime, I see this thread it reminds me I have to watch this episode of Grey's. I'm hoping to have time tomorrow. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82649 Mon, 27 Feb 2012 11:25:22 +0000 mrsjyw 82649@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Definitely am the snooper type. Then the confrontational type. LOL </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82352 Sat, 25 Feb 2012 22:24:46 +0000 daniellemybelle 82352@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@eeh: That makes me so sad to hear about the men your husband works with. They are someone's husband, you know?</p> <p>Answer: Snoop. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82288 Sat, 25 Feb 2012 18:47:01 +0000 BoogieBea 82288@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Snooping makes me sad that I had to resort to that. But I've done it in past relationship. I confronted first but he denied it so snooping it was. I pretty much knew that I already had one foot out the door when I started snooping but I just wanted to prove I wasn't crazy. Once I got my proof, I just high tailed out - didn't even tell him the real reason. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82261 Sat, 25 Feb 2012 17:22:20 +0000 eeh 82261@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd tell him to make sure she does his laundry. Kidding..but that's what I always tell my husband. My husband's job actually allows a lot of time/opportunity for cheating. He gets a phone call and leaves. That phone call could easily come from another woman instead of the company for all I know. His job also frequently involves staying the night in another town. A lot of the guys he works with cheat while they're there. It would be easy for him to cheat but I trust my husband 100% and it helps that he can't keep a secret to save his life.</p> <p>If I did suspect that he was cheating I would probably just ask him because I don't think I could contain my emotions long enough to snoop. I think his initial reaction would give him away. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82257 Sat, 25 Feb 2012 17:04:13 +0000 tequiero21 82257@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i'd snoop to have some sorta proof. then confront. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82128 Sat, 25 Feb 2012 07:44:24 +0000 heffalump 82128@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd ask and if I thought he was lying I'd snoop. But my husband is the most honest person ever so chances are I'd believe him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82127 Sat, 25 Feb 2012 07:41:03 +0000 mrsjazz 82127@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My boyfriend in college cheated on me. I had my suspicions and I asked him first. Numerous times and he said no and turned it around on me to ask if I was cheating.</p> <p>I became an expert snooper: I looked through all of his clothes, searched his room, his garbage!, and um, even hacked his e-mail (used to have his password and he changed it on me). I found out that I was right about him cheating on me with one girl--but that he had also cheated on me with 2 other girls!</p> <p>Snoop for sure! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82109 Sat, 25 Feb 2012 05:02:04 +0000 mediagirl 82109@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: I don't think there is enough time in the day for my husband or me to cheat! On that same note, neither of us work late, have late meetings or spend time that would be designated to the family at work or faking to be at work. I don't worry about him cheating because we're both homebodies and treasure being here more than anything else. </p> <p>As for your question? I would snoop, then confront. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82099 Sat, 25 Feb 2012 04:32:00 +0000 looch 82099@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would ask, I could snoop, but would it really solve anything? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82036 Fri, 24 Feb 2012 21:35:26 +0000 Boogs 82036@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: That's what I always think when I hear about the people that do it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82033 Fri, 24 Feb 2012 21:23:42 +0000 Maysprout 82033@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: Watch the office, it will make you feel better. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82032 Fri, 24 Feb 2012 21:18:32 +0000 Nskillet 82032@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: agreed, cheating seems like so much/work and effort how do people do it? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82019 Fri, 24 Feb 2012 21:00:12 +0000 jennylynn 82019@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd snoop. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82015 Fri, 24 Feb 2012 20:52:37 +0000 prettylizy 82015@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: as soon as I saw the title, I knew you just finished watching Greys!</p> <p>And I'd snoop! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82014 Fri, 24 Feb 2012 20:51:38 +0000 mrbee 82014@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>How do you cheat when you have kids and work? It seems impossible! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82013 Fri, 24 Feb 2012 20:49:18 +0000 Rubies 82013@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd snoop, for sure. *shudder* just thinking about it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82012 Fri, 24 Feb 2012 20:47:17 +0000 Boogs 82012@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd for sure snoop. Then, I'd likely transfer all of our funds to my personal account. After that, then I would call him out on it, haha! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82011 Fri, 24 Feb 2012 20:45:23 +0000 lilteacherbee 82011@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh gosh, I don't know! I might try to snoop but if I found anything remotely suspicious I know that I'd immediately confront him because I'd get over emotional and not be able to keep it to myself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-thought-your-so-was-cheating#post-82006 Fri, 24 Feb 2012 20:38:41 +0000 chopsuey 82006@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Would you ask him or snoop/investigate?<br /> Just finished watching Grey's Anatomy.. and ugh. I feel bad for Christina!!! </p> <p>I would probably snoop and then confront. I wish she would just ask Owen already! It's so painful to watch. </p>