https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 06 Apr 2026 13:55:54 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012457 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 16:53:27 +0000 CakeLady 2012457@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not that I remember. But lots of people asking how I could deal with not knowing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012449 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 16:50:19 +0000 littlejoy 2012449@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>A few people asked us if we were lying, but I think they were just curious. We were indeed TG until the birth. </p> <p>Next time, I think we're going to find out though. While it was so fun not knowing until the birth with LO #1, logistically it makes sense to know next time. And, I think it would be really fun. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012443 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 16:42:20 +0000 Mommy Finger 2012443@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@stiletto_mom: I totally agree. I am someone that has to know so I'd never be Team Green but I don't see this as anyone's business if they didn't want to share. We're not sharing the name that we have chosen so would they be equally pissed about that? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012405 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 16:28:59 +0000 autumnlove 2012405@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I know a few people who pretended that they didn't know because they wanted more gear and less clothing at their showers.</p> <p>I don't care either way! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012366 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 16:09:11 +0000 stiletto_mom 2012366@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Even if they WERE lying? Who cares? It's not your child. &lt;_&lt; </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012299 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 15:40:06 +0000 LuLu Mom 2012299@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wasn't TG, but I would be annoyed if people accused me of lying, and even if I was my choice, my kid, my body...back off ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012296 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 15:37:59 +0000 skipra 2012296@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! I'm not sure what was more annoying - being accused of lying about it or being accused of making life sooo difficult for other people that NEEDED to know. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012292 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 15:37:06 +0000 MrsKoala 2012292@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, my MIL did. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012284 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 15:27:27 +0000 reverie 2012284@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wasn't team green, but I'm sure it is hurting your cause that people do lie about it! We definitely had friends that found out they were having a girl and then told everyone they didn't know b/c they didn't want pink clothes. I really *really* don't care what people do, but it's not unheard of for people to lie about little things like this! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012283 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 15:26:52 +0000 gilmoregirl 2012283@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I know a couple who did that -- found out the sex but didn't share with anyone. It made people really angry, but they were always honest about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012278 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 15:25:12 +0000 sheskrafty 2012278@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We had a lot of people accuse us of lying. Sometimes it wasn't a big deal but some times the accusations were very hurtful and ridiculous. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012275 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 15:23:03 +0000 Espion 2012275@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Uh, I would be so pissed if my mom or MIL accused me of lying! </p> <p>Nope, but I've only got 16 days left to go before I find out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012274 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 15:21:54 +0000 Beth24 2012274@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope! And it surprises me that anyone would think that! It never occurred to me that someone might have thought I knew but decided to keep it a secret. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012271 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 15:20:19 +0000 youboots 2012271@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. But sometimes I feel like finding out and not telling anyone, but I'm 80% there sooooooo. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-you-were-team-green-did-anyone-accuse-you-of-lying#post-2012262 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 15:17:48 +0000 BSB 2012262@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hearing some stories from my sister, her MIL is convinced my sister and her husband knows the sex and are keeping it for themselves. My response, who cares if my sister and her husband know. It's their choice. I really think my sister is still team green and doesn't know. It must be hard being accused of lying while being team green.<br /> ETA: I wouldn't be upset if my sister was keeping it to herself. I would think that she would be honest and tell people they know but really I don't care. She's team green in my book and I'm not going to think otherwise. </p>