https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 15 May 2026 19:02:38 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful/page/2#post-504393 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 21:01:51 +0000 Andrea 504393@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Rubies: omg</p> <p>Nope, no worries. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful/page/2#post-504390 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 21:00:16 +0000 fatkid 504390@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MRS. LEMON-LIME agree with what you're saying. Worrying doesn't make it so, and maybe my larger point is that one shouldn't feel less about themselves or their partner for worrying because the reality is adultery happens. As Chris Rock put it, a man is only as faithful as his options. And on the road, those options may rear itself whether it's the booze on the company per diem or running into that other lonely commuter stuck on a PHX layover. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful/page/2#post-504288 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 20:21:08 +0000 Bao 504288@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope I trust him! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful/page/2#post-504270 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 20:15:06 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 504270@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@fatkid: True True, but shouldn't wives be completely blindsided by a one-time indiscretion or a full on affair? The question was do you worry, not do you know for sure your mate is faithful. I wouldn't put cheating past anyone, but at some point you have to simply trust your partner til they give you a reason not too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful/page/2#post-504152 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 19:23:04 +0000 lomom 504152@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wouldn't worry. </p> <p>I'd be annoyed though, if this female coworker I hate was on the trip too. She seriously pushes the boundaries of appropriateness (flirts with DH, touches him when she speaks, always sits next to him and very close to him, whispers to him, etc.) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-504142 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 19:20:03 +0000 mlm2934 504142@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@fatkid: exactly </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-504116 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 19:10:23 +0000 sslm 504116@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, I trust him completely! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-504060 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 18:53:22 +0000 MaisyMay 504060@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I like it when DH travels for work, and have actually encouraged him to do it more. I have no worries about him cheating though.<br /> 1-The guy is awkward! I love his goofy, awkward self, but others wouldn't find him as attractive.<br /> 2- I trust him. I wouldn't have married him if I felt like I couldn't trust him.<br /> 3 - He's a very dedicated Christian, as am I, and wouldn't commit such an egregious sin. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-504049 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 18:47:40 +0000 matador84 504049@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH travels for work and never worried, he's so into work it wouldn't cross his mind--or mine! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-504048 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 18:47:21 +0000 doodlepoodle 504048@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am confident in our marriage, DH used to work in a different state for 2 weeks/month and I'm absolutely confident in his fidelity. I know not all people know before they "know" but DH is totally an introvert so it would have to be someone who was throwing themselves at him...like I did when me met ;-) </p> <p>With that said, I do have a friend who cheated on her husband this summer (emotional/made out) and trust me you would NEVER guess it when you know her...she's very religious, devoted, etc but she just kind of lost control of her emotions. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-504042 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 18:40:18 +0000 Rubies 504042@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not at all. My husband has no game. LOL! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-504036 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 18:34:59 +0000 MsMini 504036@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't worry at all. My security was cemented as DH's brother recently cheated on his wife while travelling, and DH was livid and sick that his brother would do that to his wife and kids. His disgust with the whole situation, and extreme disappointment in his brother really showed me how much DH values faithfulness in a marriage. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-504023 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 18:24:43 +0000 JerricaBenton 504023@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>my husband travels a few times a year and it's never really crossed my mind to worry. I don't have any trust issues with him and he calls me all the time when he's away. I wouldn't like it if he were in situations where women were approaching him, but not because I think he would do anything. I used to have to travel for my old job and I was put into some really bad situations, having to fend off advances from close coworkers and higher-ups - often while they were seriously drunk. Most I didn't even tell my husband about because he would have like, beat people up, lol. It was actually one of the reasons I decided to quit. I would hate to think of my husband in those situations but obviously I know he wouldn't be in danger and I do trust that he would walk away no matter what. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503890 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 17:07:53 +0000 Mrs. Pen 503890@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. bird: well your husband is a fox- I can understand you being worried lol ;)</p> <p>@chopsuey119: sooo sweet.</p> <p>I would never worry. I can tell DH has no desire to ever cheat. Never. And I know he never would ever. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503883 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 17:03:39 +0000 loveisstrange 503883@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. DH is military, so if I were paranoid about it I would spend my entire life miserable. I trust him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503873 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 16:56:44 +0000 cyndistar3 503873@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband worked out of state for the entire week for a few months and I never questioned his faithfulness. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503870 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 16:56:15 +0000 LuLu Mom 503870@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>my husband travels and I never worry, he's a very faithful man and we have trust in our relationship. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503856 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 16:50:57 +0000 Rescuemom10 503856@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not at all. DH is Military and goes here and there and all over for traiing and deployments. I see a lot of cheating and divorce in the Military...but I dont worry about DH at all. I just know he wouldnt. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503844 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 16:46:05 +0000 ShootingStar 503844@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Before DH's first business trip I worried about it in the abstract, but when it came down to it I do trust him not to cheat. It was also obvious that a)he missed me a ton, and b)he didn't have the opportunity. He called me multiple times a day, texted often, and we did a lot of FaceTime, too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503819 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 16:36:28 +0000 Ra 503819@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH travels to California for a week a month every month. Cheating has never once crossed my mind. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503580 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 15:10:34 +0000 mamimami 503580@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am glad for many reasons that my husband doesn't travel much for work! I totally trust him but I don't trust some of the "ladies" out there! Plus, I agree with @mrs. bird that temptation exists and I'd just as soon we both avoid it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503571 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 15:05:49 +0000 Cherrybee 503571@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It wouldn't even cross my mind. I just can't imagine him being the type. But then, is there even a type.....?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503525 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 14:49:45 +0000 Mrsbells 503525@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I do trust him but I agree with @fatkid: that regardless of how much we trust our spouses, that doesnt mean they arent cheating. Because usually most people who find out their spouse was cheating are totally blind sighted by it.</p> <p>Sometimes the thought crosses my mind, but then I dimiss it as being baseless </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503514 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 14:46:06 +0000 fatkid 503514@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Statistically this lop-sided straw poll count of non-worriers doesn't correlate with the percentage of cheaters in a marriages. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503453 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 14:24:29 +0000 nana87 503453@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>no I don't worry about this at all. later this year I'm going to be abroad for several months and I'm honestly not the least bit worried. it'll suck to be apart, of course, but I don't think it's going to affect our relationship in the long run at all. we were in an ldr at the beginning of our relationship for awhile, and this will be so much easier than that was since we're married now and I'm more confident in what we have. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503416 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 14:12:13 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 503416@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He travels often. No worries. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503401 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 14:08:08 +0000 mrs. bird 503401@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i'll be the odd duck and say there are situations where if DH was to travel for work with certain people i would be uncomfortable. there have been a couple coworkers who have basically thrown themselves at him (even calling his personal cell on weekends because they're upset about things with their SO) and while he didn't do anything with them, i could see given the wrong situation the temptation being there. we don't believe in putting yourself in situations where it would be easy to make a poor choice, so if he did have to travel with one of these women, he would avoid spending time with them and i'd be up his ass on his cell the whole time. haha. i'm a jealous wife =D luckily he only ever traveled with the wrestling team he coached and i didn't mind him spending extra time with a bunch of sweaty guys. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503395 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 14:05:30 +0000 blackbird 503395@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not at all. You probably shouldn't be married to the guy if you're legitimately worried about this :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503379 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 14:01:13 +0000 Bookish 503379@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nah, I wouldn't worry. I have serious jealousy/trust issues, but with DH, I know he would never ever do anything to jeopardize our marriage. We both know cheating is insta-divorce (for us), and it's not worth it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-had-to-travel-for-work-or-does-would-you-worry-about-himher-being-unfaithful#post-503368 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 13:59:20 +0000 prettylizy 503368@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't worry about it. We feel like such an old married couple anymore there are zero trust issues and I know that for the most part when he is away the big thrill is getting a whole bed to himself or ordering room service and taking a really long bath. </p>