https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 01 May 2026 17:20:39 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-504758 Tue, 15 Jan 2013 08:16:33 +0000 tequiero21 504758@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We have access to each others email on iPad. I'd read it to make sure there was nothing outstanding. Plus some of our financial accounts are under his email. So I'd need to know which and switch it over and the like... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-504178 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 19:32:35 +0000 Boogs 504178@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I already have access. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-504057 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 18:52:25 +0000 matador84 504057@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No....bygones be bygones. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-504020 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 18:24:01 +0000 hellocupcake 504020@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh no, I have the same answer as Mrs. Pen again (:<br /> Our emails even go to each other’a phones since we leave everything open (: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-503412 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 14:10:44 +0000 HLK208 503412@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-503378 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 14:00:49 +0000 MrsTiz 503378@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have all of his passwords. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-503247 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 13:00:40 +0000 banana 503247@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We already have each other's passwords but if I didn't have his password, I probably wouldn't want it anyway. He's entitled to his own privacy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-503207 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 12:46:09 +0000 Sugar.Biscuit 503207@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wouldn't want to read them. I'd hate to find something that would make me question our relationship. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-503188 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 12:39:23 +0000 Andrea 503188@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I already have access so I don't think there would be anything revolutionary in there to discover if he passed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-503131 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 12:11:29 +0000 Adira 503131@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I already have access to his e-mail, but he doesn't really use his e-mail for anything except bills, so it would be pretty boring anyway. His few personal e-mails tend to be to my brother, haha! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-503129 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 12:10:39 +0000 loveisstrange 503129@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I already have access also. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-503125 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 12:07:11 +0000 Alivoo01 503125@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I know the hubby's pw, but I wouldn't read his emails. I think he communicates mainly via text any how. Plus, the hubby shares everything with me so I don't feel like he's hiding anything from me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-503108 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 12:01:46 +0000 Mrs. Superhero 503108@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We share a computer and leave things logged in all the time. There's nothing exciting in his email. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-503071 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 11:49:00 +0000 mediagirl 503071@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have access to it, so I could get in if I wanted to. I am guessing I would want to read his emails, just to "hear" his voice again... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-503067 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 11:47:52 +0000 Anagram 503067@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would *now*, but when my husband and I first got married, I still had emails from years and years and years ago (I've had the same email since my first year of college--and I'm 32), and there were some things in there with 'sensitive" information.</p> <p>I once asked my hubs to retrieve something from my personal email and send it to my work email (my personal email is blocked at work), and when he was using the search function looking for that particular email, came upon some super old emails (and read them, which was naughty--but I would probably do the same if subject titles like "hey sexy" popped up) and got hurt feelings over long-ago stuff. </p> <p>So. I did a major cleanup of my email (as far as I know), and tried to delete every single old love email or dirty email from old flames, just because....yeah, no one wants to read exploits from their wife's or husband's past in detail. </p> <p>heh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502988 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 11:19:40 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 502988@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I already have access. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502980 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 11:17:27 +0000 prettylizy 502980@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not really, I just wouldn't care about his email I don't think. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502977 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 11:16:52 +0000 Amelieisme 502977@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not at all. What if I found something I didn't like and he's not there to explain it away? I fully trust DH, but what if it made me question him? I would rather forgo the agony of that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502952 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 11:07:40 +0000 Rainbow Sprinkles 502952@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have access to all of his accounts already! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502893 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 10:50:19 +0000 mrs. wagon 502893@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I already have access! The only passwords I don't know are for his work accounts. I'd probably want access but that all belongs to his work, not himself, even if the emails are of a personal nature. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502867 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 10:44:32 +0000 SugarplumsMom 502867@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Absolutely not. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502850 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 10:41:59 +0000 Mrs. Pen 502850@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I already have access to his account - we both know all of each others passwords and we always leave our emails/facebooks/accounts open on our computers. Neither of us are snoopy and constantly checking up on the other, but I like the openness. We both know nothing is ever going on. I think I'd be able to tell if he all of a sudden got secretive - leaving his accounts locked and changing passwords. Then I'd be curious!</p> <p>So that said - I already have access ;) Also I would find it healing to read his letters and notes and remember him that way. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502845 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 10:41:08 +0000 chopsuey 502845@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have all of his passwords. He stores them all in a program called "one password."<br /> He uses email for business mostly so I would probably go through and respond to emails </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502843 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 10:40:47 +0000 autumnlove 502843@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Probably not </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502841 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 10:40:05 +0000 Bao 502841@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Absolutely not! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502838 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 10:39:39 +0000 T.H.O.U. 502838@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I dunno, I know DH's info so it wouldn't be a big deal. Probably not though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502828 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 10:38:18 +0000 littlek 502828@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>NO!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-passed-away-heaven-forbid-would-you-want-access-to-their-email-account#post-502821 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 10:37:22 +0000 mrbee 502821@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just wondering... if your SO passed, would you want access to their email account? I don't mean for account info and the like... I mean, to read their email correspondence with other people.</p> <p>I wouldn't want to... what if there was something in there I didn't like? That would break anyone's heart, I think.</p> <p>If your SO passed, would you want access to their email account? Would you read their email correspondence with other people? </p>