https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 04 May 2026 13:01:00 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-942409 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 14:22:36 +0000 daniellemybelle 942409@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. bird: LOL - "merely a placeholder."</p> <p>I'm not worried about this. If heaven is as perfect as it's supposed to be, then I will be free of the drama and jealousy that makes earthly life sucky sometimes! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-942339 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 14:07:40 +0000 BananaPancakes 942339@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pui: I believe this, as well. I sure hope the afterlife is something completely different and more enlightening than the physical life. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-942323 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 14:05:17 +0000 yoursilverlining 942323@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>haha this reminds me of the Curb Your Enthusiasm when Larry and Cheryl renew their vows.....</p> <p>[Cheryl is reading a draft of her renewed wedding vows to Larry]</p> <p>Cheryl: "We'll love each other throughout this lifetime, but after death through all eternity."<br /> Larry: You mean this is... this is continuing into the afterlife?<br /> Cheryl: Yeah, that's the idea. Do you have a problem with that?<br /> Larry: Well, I... I thought this was over at death. I didn't know we went into eternity together. Isn't that what it said in... "'til death do us part, " I thought it was...<br /> Cheryl: Do you have a problem with eternity?<br /> Larry: Well...<br /> Cheryl: We finally found each other, Larry, and we're celebrating this for all eternity.<br /> Larry: I guess I had a different plan for eternity. I thought... I thought I'd be single again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-942305 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 13:59:47 +0000 SugarplumsMom 942305@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Dang, I've never thought I could be a sister-wife until now. Now I have to ask DH. Hehe. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-942303 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 13:59:16 +0000 runsyellowlites 942303@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>After being a single parent for a number of years I really couldn't imagine ever re-marrying if something happened to DH.. and I think he'd rather not re-marry either (can't remember exactly). I'm not opposed to him re-marrying though if he wanted (especially if he were still young when something happened).</p> <p>As for afterlife.... I think I'd love his new wife with the same kind of perfect love as I'd love DH aaaaaaand my focus would definitely be on God &amp; not my personal thoughts on DH or the new wife he had while alive. Kind of makes me sad when I think about it BUT I know when that time comes I'll have a completely different perspective &amp; won't be "me" focused anymore. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-942301 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 13:58:51 +0000 Bookish 942301@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd kick her a** :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-942263 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 13:47:04 +0000 LemonLong 942263@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband is inactive Mormon. He was sealed to his ex-wife, so if they die they'll end up in heaven together. Ha, I bet that would be fun! She's remarried now, so I assume she was unsealed from him, but we never got notification of it so who knows! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-942159 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 13:28:12 +0000 sarac 942159@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would certainly want him to remarry, because I couldn't stand the thought of him being alone the rest of his life and have no one to take care of him. I'd like to think that I'd get on well with his ghost second wife (since he liked her well enough to marry her) and that we could split him up or something. Or maybe have some kind of afterlife polyamorous marriage? Who knows - hopefully ghost me is still adventurous. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-941089 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 09:26:17 +0000 Rubies 941089@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: Oh, he can go sleep on the afterlife couch. :D </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-941057 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 09:21:35 +0000 mrbee 941057@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Rubies: who would he sleep with though? Or is there no sleep in the afterlife... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-941003 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 09:12:43 +0000 wahine08 941003@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pui: I agree with this! I think in the afterlife, you see past these things. I hope at least, I'm a really jealous person! LOL. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940954 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 09:02:49 +0000 Rubies 940954@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd let her live with us if she was less attractive than me. If she was drop-dead gorgeous, I'd suggest a cage match. :D </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940950 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 09:00:45 +0000 Crisark 940950@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Twine: Agreed! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940927 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:55:19 +0000 twodoghouse 940927@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This makes me glad I don't believe in an afterlife, haha! I do hope that my husband would find someone else if I died (especially if I died relatively young and he'd have to spend a lot of time post-me). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940920 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:54:38 +0000 mrs. wagon 940920@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. bird: hehe! I love your response ;) You're so cute.</p> <p>I believe that according to the bible, there's no marriage in heaven, so I think we'd all be awesome friends!! If she was cool enough for Wagon Sr. to fall in love with and marry, I figure she'd be our kind of people and therefore I'd love her too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940917 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:53:13 +0000 pui 940917@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't think those kinds of human things matter in the afterlife. Sure you probably still have a connection with your husband after death, but not in the same way. Your eyes are opened to things you don't currently understand in heaven. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940914 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:52:04 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 940914@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>There's a lot of what ifs going on lol. DH would have to contend with my new found boo in the afterlife. He can keep his and I will keep mine. :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940854 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:37:41 +0000 irene 940854@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hope I have met someone else in the afterlife already before the new wife dies. haha </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940838 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:34:13 +0000 jillybean218 940838@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hmm, this is not something I've given much thought to because I'm unsure about an afterlife. I would definitely want DH to re-marry, but I'm not sure he would. He's said in the past that marriage is for life and beyond, which is funny because he too is unsure of an afterlife. I'd hate for him to be lonely and unhappy if I died, just because he's afraid of ending up with two wives in an afterlife! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940753 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:10:44 +0000 babynumber1 940753@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. bird: LOL. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940752 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:10:31 +0000 Charm54 940752@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would want DH to remarry...but I'm hoping in the afterlife his spirit multiplies so we can each have him to ourselves and not have to share :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940750 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:09:25 +0000 LuLu Mom 940750@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hmmm you know I have always told my husband that I would want him to find another wife if I were to pass away, but I never thought of the after life. I would want to be reunited without the new wife. However I always pictured us old and figured his new wife would also have a passed away spouse just passing it on my grandparents. (this does not handle the situation if I were to pass at a young age.) </p> <p>I believe in heaven and I can't imagine not being happy in heaven so I'm sure God has this figured out for me before I get there ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940736 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:04:54 +0000 purrpletulips 940736@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've never thought about this for myself but I did for my grandparents. When my grandfather died my grandmother bought two plots together. She later remarried and bought a plot for her new husband on the other side of her. So, she has one husband on each side of her in death. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940735 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:04:30 +0000 mrs. bird 940735@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think since she would understand I was the first wife &amp; she was merely a placeholder, she could live with us, we could all be friends, but if she ever tried to gets touchy feely with DH, we'd have a problem! And obviously she would have her own bedroom, maybe like an in law suite. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940724 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:01:37 +0000 MamaMoose 940724@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babynumber1: Oh this breaks my heart and makes me smile at the same time! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940720 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 08:00:19 +0000 babynumber1 940720@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am a social worker in a nursing home. I had a lady that was passing away that hung on for days because she didn't want to choose between her 1st husband and 2nd husband in heaven. </p> <p>It was so sweet. She said that she loved them both so much that she didn't know how she could ever pick one. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940710 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 07:56:32 +0000 MrsKoala 940710@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My DH always says there is no way he would ever marry again. While it's sweet, I know he would be very lonely if I were to die and I would want him to be happy so I hope he'd marry again. In the afterlife, he's all mine, though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940704 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 07:54:35 +0000 Weagle 940704@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would want DH to get remarried if he wanted to. But, I believe the afterlife is heaven, and I don't believe marriage exists in heaven. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940695 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 07:52:41 +0000 MamaMoose 940695@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Twine: This is exactly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-remarried-after-your-death-and-then-you-were-reunited-in-the-afterlife#post-940688 Thu, 18 Jul 2013 07:50:53 +0000 Mrs. Twine 940688@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wouldn't be sad that he remarried when he was alive (because we all know he loved me the most and even though he was happy in his next marriage he always wished I was still alive), but I wouldn't be thrilled that she was in the afterlife with us. I would want him to choose me, of course, and then his more recent wife would need to live somewhere far away. </p>