Hellobee Boards Topic: If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?

Hellobee Boards Topic: If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that? https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 27 Apr 2026 04:50:26 +0000 anonysquire on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-367143 Tue, 30 Oct 2012 08:02:31 +0000 anonysquire 367143@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Ya it wouldn't bug me. I'd even let him be a porn star. Work is work. CupQuakeWalk on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-367037 Tue, 30 Oct 2012 00:24:22 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 367037@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @mrbee: ....I can't say I'm a strong enough person to put that in front of my strong beliefs (sadly):/ BSB on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-367025 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 23:23:22 +0000 BSB 367025@https://boards.hellobee.com/ My husband is an artist so he had to draw naked people in college. I had to get used to that. I think I would get used to it. singingbee on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-367023 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 23:20:30 +0000 singingbee 367023@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @MrsHotDog: oh my goodness!!! I did not see that!!! Wow!!!! I know that I'm uncomfortable watching it and I'm always thinking that they all have to hook up at some point or another. I don't want anyone but my Hubby rubbing and touching me like that. autumnlove on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365818 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 08:59:56 +0000 autumnlove 365818@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I wouldn't like it but if it was part of his job I would deal with it. Rock n Roll on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365815 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 08:59:10 +0000 Rock n Roll 365815@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I think it is hilarious that you asked this, because I thought the SAME thing while watching that scene. Just because it was so sexy and romantic I guess. But I was actually thinking of Adam Scott's wife since he is married. I was like, "Jeez, he better have had a pretty awesome proposal, because I would be pretty jealous if I was his wife after watching that!" As for your question, I guess it would depend on our relationship. I'm super confidant in our relationship as it is now, so I wouldn't be too jealous, but of course, that would be a totally different situation, so I can't say. ETA: I assumed you were talking about the proposal scene? The kissing was pretty steamy during that! Alivoo01 on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365803 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 08:52:55 +0000 Alivoo01 365803@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I quick smooch, maybe, but anything more is a no! I couldn't stand the thought of my hubby making out or having a sex scene with another woman! Hubby always said he wouldn't mind as long as I sent him a nice paycheck afterwards, but I'm sure deep down he's not cool with it. He's always saying how furious he'd be if I was on DWTS since they're so intimate with their dancing and always have their hands around each partners waist to emulate a more than dance partner relationship. chopsuey on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365777 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 08:28:21 +0000 chopsuey 365777@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Nope! Kissing's such an intimate thing. This is why Hollywood marriages are so disfunct and don't last long. MrsTiz on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365744 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 07:56:30 +0000 MrsTiz 365744@https://boards.hellobee.com/ If he was getting paid millions of dollars for it, go right ahead lol! As long as he doesn't get all KStew & the director on me. Sex scenes no, but a quick kiss might be alright. Those actors are making 10mil per movie, I doubt their husbands/SO's are mad about a 2 second kiss! MrsHotDog on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365740 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 07:52:44 +0000 MrsHotDog 365740@https://boards.hellobee.com/ No, I can't imagine we would ever be comfortable with this. Especially if the woman was Angelina Jolie. @Jennimac: did you see this? <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2012/10/22/bumping-and-grinding-on-dwts-leads-to-off-screen-hookups-between-dancers-stars/" rel="nofollow">http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2012/10/22/bumping-and-grinding-on-dwts-leads-to-off-screen-hookups-between-dancers-stars/</a> mrsjyw on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365731 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 07:44:01 +0000 mrsjyw 365731@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Probably not. But then again, if I were dating someone in the industry, I'd be more apt to be open to it, no? singingbee on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365680 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 06:06:14 +0000 singingbee 365680@https://boards.hellobee.com/ No. We would not be comfortable with this at all. I think about this when I watch "dancing with the stars". They are all over each other. My Hubby would definitely not like that and it would make me super uncomfortable. Mrs. Pickle on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365668 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 05:35:23 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 365668@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I kissed my husband for the first time while I was dating someone else because we were filming a movie scene. So no, I don't think I would be comfortable with it. Andrea on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365658 Mon, 29 Oct 2012 04:53:09 +0000 Andrea 365658@https://boards.hellobee.com/ No, I think that would be weird if it was something ongoing. I was thinking this while watching Greys. Meredith and McDreamy have been making out for years and years. I think this is why Hollywood actors are always divorcing (although I believe they are both still married IRL). sunny on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365525 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 22:11:57 +0000 sunny 365525@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I actually asked DH about this once as a hypothetical question because I was in a community theater musical and some of my fellow actors had a scene with a kiss (but I did not). We both said we wouldnt be okay with it. pinkcupcake on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365495 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 21:52:07 +0000 pinkcupcake 365495@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I think if it was his job, I'd try my best to be OK with it... but with that being said, I think it'd upset me quite a bit to watch it! banana on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365492 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 21:50:01 +0000 banana 365492@https://boards.hellobee.com/ no it would definitely bother me too much! mrbee on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365489 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 21:47:30 +0000 mrbee 365489@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @TurtleDoves: what about for your SO's artistic fulfillment? CupQuakeWalk on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365488 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 21:46:20 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 365488@https://boards.hellobee.com/ N-O. We're not compromising the values of a marriage for the sake of money & entertainment. Mrs. Blue on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365469 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 21:29:19 +0000 Mrs. Blue 365469@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I want to be cool and say it would be fine, but in reality, I think it would make me nauseated to have to see that! I'm not too jealous generally, but watching Mr. Blue have a sex scene or even just make-out with someone would so not be on my list of fun ways to pass the day! Arden on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365467 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 21:27:25 +0000 Arden 365467@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @mrbee: Nope! The only people we've kissed are each other (we've been together since high school), so I think that may be part of why he thinks it would be such a big deal. I guess it's still a hypothetical, so I don't think it's so bad now but I might feel differently if it came down to my husband actually kissing someone... I always imagine that kisses on movie/tv sets would be so unromantic, so NOT intimate, what with a huge crowd of people around you, telling you what to do, etc. So I think the lack of intimacy involved is what makes me think it's not that bad. I would have more of a problem with him having long walks in the park alone with a female friend, talking about personal things (and nothing happening), than I would him kissing a woman for work. lol Maybe I'm just weird. sarac on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365465 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 21:25:33 +0000 sarac 365465@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Nah, it wouldn't bother me. I feel really secure in my relationship, and I'm not a jealous person at all. mrs. bird on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365464 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 21:24:42 +0000 mrs. bird 365464@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Hell no! Not ok with me. doodlepoodle on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365461 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 21:19:01 +0000 doodlepoodle 365461@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Hmmm.......I'm not sure about that one. I guess it depends on if I knew the person and trusted them? I trust my hubs and he trusts me, but you always have to wonder about other creepers tryin' to get a piece of his action! ;-) LOL! :) Kissing would be one thing, sex scenes? That's a TOTALLY different thing. NO thanks. mrbee on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365460 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 21:18:30 +0000 mrbee 365460@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @Arden: Are you an actor? Arden on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365459 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 21:17:43 +0000 Arden 365459@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We've actually had this conversation. I don't think it's that big of a deal (but I probably wouldn't watch it myself), but DH thinks it would be. He said he would never do it, and it would bother him if I did. I asked if it would be better if I was kissing a woman. He said no. mrbee on "If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-your-so-was-an-actor-and-had-to-kiss-costars-as-part-of-the-job-would-you-be-down-with-that#post-365453 Sun, 28 Oct 2012 21:12:03 +0000 mrbee 365453@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I am not a jealous person, but not gonna lie. I would not have an easy time with this one. Especially if it was all filmed and broadcast for the world to see... and if I was expected to watch it with her. Just thought of this tonight when I was watching Parks & Rec and Amy Poehler was making out with her boyfriend... although in her case, she broke up with Will Arnett so I guess that particular case isn't a problem. I can't imagine it's easy for Amy to watch Will make out with Christina Applegate though (Up All Night). If your SO was an actor and had to kiss costars as part of the job, would you be down with that?