https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 25 May 2026 19:34:13 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-how-many-is-too-many#post-1795424 Sat, 02 Aug 2014 13:40:07 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1795424@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Applesandbananas: @swedishfish: Thank you both! :heart: </p> <p>@Tidybee: That makes sense. I'm going to do RPL testing soon...not convinced that we're going to find anything, though. Unfortunately it seems like bad luck/ random chance is responsible for a lot of early losses.</p> <p>@Dandelion: I'm so sorry to hear about your losses. I think it must be different for everyone...but I can imagine different losses being very different. Late losses (or the loss of a child) break my heart. :crying: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-how-many-is-too-many#post-1795418 Sat, 02 Aug 2014 13:29:40 +0000 Dandelion 1795418@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it depends on the type of loss. I've had an early miscarriage (5 weeks) and a full term loss. If I had lost another baby, I'd be done. Well, I'm done anyways, with my rainbow baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-how-many-is-too-many#post-1795414 Sat, 02 Aug 2014 13:25:49 +0000 swedishfish 1795414@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FliegepilzHut: :heart: hopefully you won't have to go through this again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-how-many-is-too-many#post-1795412 Sat, 02 Aug 2014 13:24:17 +0000 Tidybee 1795412@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've had two and if I have a third I'm probably going to say enough and get testing and not get pregnant again until I'm<br /> Sure I'm going to be monitored and treated. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-how-many-is-too-many#post-1795410 Sat, 02 Aug 2014 13:23:46 +0000 Applesandbananas 1795410@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FliegepilzHut: hugs &lt;3 I'm so sorry for your losses. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-how-many-is-too-many#post-1795407 Sat, 02 Aug 2014 13:21:39 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1795407@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@swedishfish: Yeah...so variable. This second one is stil fresh in my mind, but from where I'm standing, I can imagine having a heck of a time if this were to happen again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-how-many-is-too-many#post-1795404 Sat, 02 Aug 2014 13:17:49 +0000 swedishfish 1795404@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't know if there's an exact number. It would be a feeling that occurs that enough is enough but I can't say how many miscarriages that would take. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-how-many-is-too-many#post-1795402 Sat, 02 Aug 2014 13:16:16 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1795402@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am hesitant to ask this, because I know how personal this kind of decision-making is and how easy it is to change your mind once you're actually in a given situation...</p> <p>But, with that said-- if you've had a prior miscarriage, or miscarriages, is there a certain number that would make you say "no more"? Do you think having children at home influences or would influence your answer?</p> <p>I have had 2 miscarriages...and have no children at home, due to "unexplained" infertility. I'm a long way from giving up..,but DH and I both strongly suspect that we have a breaking point, should we get to that point. </p>