https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 30 Apr 2026 05:06:48 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-307939 Mon, 24 Sep 2012 11:52:27 +0000 Cherrybee 307939@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beetones!! In which case - yay! I'm really pleased for you that you can make a baby!! And that's a great way to look at it!! It's so weird - it seems this happens to loads of ladies, they stop actively TTC and it happens!! I can't wait for you to POAS in October! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-307834 Mon, 24 Sep 2012 11:12:28 +0000 Apex 307834@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Its amazing to see so much heartfelt regards from you ladies, Thank you so so much. But to be honest, i'm really excited about knowing we can actually make a baby, so AF coming was not the least bit upsetting for me. For some reason, it renewed my hopes. Thanks again for all the support. I really appreciate it. And i'm looking forward to POAS in October now more than ever. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-307127 Sun, 23 Sep 2012 21:34:42 +0000 Mrs. Sunglasses 307127@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>aw sorry sweetie! don't worry you'll get a positive in the near future. hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-307114 Sun, 23 Sep 2012 21:27:47 +0000 singingbee 307114@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beetones: I'm so sorry! Hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-307088 Sun, 23 Sep 2012 20:57:20 +0000 oliviaoblivia 307088@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beetones: I'm so sorry. What an emotional rollercoaster of a weekend you've had. I sincerely hope your next cycle brings a sticky baby. Hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-307035 Sun, 23 Sep 2012 19:55:20 +0000 Grace 307035@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beetones: Nooo! That's unfair to get excited and then just have it taken back. :(. It is a good silver lining though - you can get pregnant. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-306831 Sun, 23 Sep 2012 12:14:59 +0000 Trailmix 306831@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beetones Aw, man, I'm sorry :( I had almost the exact same thing happen to me, except mine was slightly out of order (AF was three days late, I POAS, wiped but realized I was bleeding and then saw it was a positive test). So frustrating!! But you're totally right, it is a positive sign in that you CAN get pregnant! Hopefully the next one sticks... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-306830 Sun, 23 Sep 2012 12:08:28 +0000 Apex 306830@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Update ladies.....i actually got a super light BFP yesterday morning and full on AF this morning. I really didn't know whether to laugh or cry.</p> <p>On the positive side, we can actually get pregnant, so now, i am looking forward to the next cycle.</p> <p>Thank you all. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-303735 Thu, 20 Sep 2012 19:59:46 +0000 pastemoo 303735@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Good luck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-303714 Thu, 20 Sep 2012 19:54:50 +0000 Apex 303714@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oliviaoblivia: Yep, she was due bright and early today. I'm still waiting. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-303703 Thu, 20 Sep 2012 19:52:09 +0000 oliviaoblivia 303703@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beetones: good luck tomorrow! AF was due for you today right? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-303697 Thu, 20 Sep 2012 19:51:17 +0000 Apex 303697@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@oliviaoblivia: That's what i said this morning too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-303631 Thu, 20 Sep 2012 19:30:45 +0000 oliviaoblivia 303631@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beetones: bfn? Ugh! I was so hoping you'd have a bfp already. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-303613 Thu, 20 Sep 2012 19:26:13 +0000 Apex 303613@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>hi guys, i'm still waiting for something to happen....BFN this morning. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-303456 Thu, 20 Sep 2012 18:47:51 +0000 DillonLion 303456@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beetones: Yes, any update? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-303452 Thu, 20 Sep 2012 18:46:35 +0000 photojane 303452@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>yes, update us! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-303271 Thu, 20 Sep 2012 18:04:02 +0000 mango.sprays 303271@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Any update?? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-297537 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 18:18:57 +0000 blackbird 297537@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You could've ovulated later than you thought! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-297519 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 17:46:37 +0000 JoJoGirl 297519@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Chiming in too that I also had implantation bleeding and I easily, easily would have mistaken it for pre-AF had I not been charting and knew I was 7dpo. FWIW my test was positive 2 days later so you shouldn't be in limbo much longer. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-297457 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 16:16:02 +0000 photojane 297457@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i just wanted to add, that i would definitely wait a few days to test. tests are expensive, and if it was implantation, you won't get a positive test for 2 or 3 days! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-297420 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 15:05:30 +0000 matador84 297420@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were ntnp. I did chart days only to see how long my<br /> Cycles were. I found out I was pg in January only by a fluke because I was having awful headaches and heartburn. The reason I swore there was no way I was pg was<br /> Because in December I had weird light spotting which I mistook for getting my period. Id take a test anyways. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-297383 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 14:21:51 +0000 photojane 297383@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i didn't actively ttc, but from when i THINK i o'd, i had implantation bleeding 8dpo, and then got a bfp on 11dpo. i had the same red (and a little pink) minimal spotting, but nothing else other than few minimal cramps. i wasn't set to expect af for about another week, so i knew it had to be implantation bleeding. if you don't have any other spotting in the next few days, i would test on wednesday. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-297348 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 13:32:36 +0000 pinkcupcake 297348@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Could be implantation bleeding! I had that with my pregnancy :) and if i recall correctly, i spotted kinda late (i want to say it was at least 8 or 9 dpo??) so i remember thinking it couldnt be implantation bleeding. You might just be off on when you think you o-ed! I'd test in a couple days if I were you. Good luck! :D </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-297345 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 13:29:39 +0000 Grace 297345@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beetones: Yeah, my body is evil like that too. Curveballs all over the place. That is the reason I chart. Not charting makes me a crazy person. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-297340 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 13:22:11 +0000 Apex 297340@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Grace: I usually get Ovulation cramps between CD12-CD16 which had always coincided with a positive opk. So of course, i got those this cycle (the O cramps), i also saw EWCM but i dont remember which CD those were because i really didn't care what my CM looked like.</p> <p>Also, in all the years i've been having periods, I never, ever spot before AF. When she comes, she comes full force. Ugh i hate it when my body throws me a curve out of the blues. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-297338 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 13:15:40 +0000 Apex 297338@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Foodnerd81: Thanks for the response, but yes, nothing feels weird or hurts. and it was more like 3-5 drops of blood in my liner and nothing when i wiped. I'm actually more worried about it being another UTI. I've never been on the pill and i stopped Nuvaring back in December. So its not the usual withdrawal bleeding most bees have after the pill. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-297337 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 13:12:52 +0000 Grace 297337@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh, that sucky. It could be ovulation spotting (you may be O'ing late), it could be implantation spotting (again, you could have O'd late, and you are only 7dpo) or it could be spotting before your period. You can only wait and see. Do you have any post-O symptoms that would give you a hint as to where you are in your cycle? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-297322 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 13:01:30 +0000 Foodnerd81 297322@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So, nothing hurts or feels weird, other than the 1 spot of red when you wiped? I think you will just have to assume it's nothing until you have reason to think its something. Since going off the pill, I have a bunch of spotting before AF, but it usually follows the same pattern now, and it seems like you haven't just changed anything.<br /> So, it could be anything. If AF doesn't start by around 30 days, take a test but I don't think you can read anything into the spotting. Sorry, that's probably not what you were hoping for. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-confused-bees-general-opinions-needed#post-297316 Sun, 16 Sep 2012 12:52:16 +0000 Apex 297316@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hi Bees, </p> <p>It's been a while, i know. but i need your help. Ok just a brief summary, this cycle, i stopped everything. Stopped counting days, stopped observing CM and did not use any OPK's. So i have no idea what DPO i am, and i also stopped all the supplements (Vit B, Prenatals, Folic Acid).</p> <p>However, the only thing i did this cycle was plain, simple, fun BD whenever i wanted (With no intention of TTC). But this morning, there was some bright red spotting in my panty liner. I thought it was AF, but when i wiped, there was nothing more. and usually when AF is coming, i get cramps heralding her coming. But this time, there was/is no cramping.</p> <p>So, now i'm kinda lost. Could this be that Implantion Bleeding my fellow bees talk about or could this be another UTI (The last time i had a UTI there was blood too). I had leftover UTI test strips, so i tested and it was clear. which makes sense because I have none of the usual UTI symptoms either.</p> <p>Or maybe too much/too rough BD? except that the last time we BD'd was a couple nights ago......</p> <p>Also, I actually went back and counted days since AF was here last and i am about CD26. with a 28 (sometimes 30) day cycle, CD 26 would be too late for Implantation Bleeding right???</p> <p>Any Bee out there with a possible idea of what this could be, i have analyzed and overanalyzed this for hours now, HELPPPP!!!</p> <p>. </p>