https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 13 Apr 2026 00:00:51 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2751444 Fri, 23 Jun 2017 15:07:21 +0000 snowjewelz 2751444@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@arosebyany: That's great :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2751422 Fri, 23 Jun 2017 14:30:00 +0000 arosebyany 2751422@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sunnyb: thank you for the recommendation!</p> <p>@wrkbrk: :heart: than you twin mama!</p> <p>Okay so sorry it's taken me so long to hop on here today, crazy around here! Last night he did great! Once he started to get tired after our usual routine, I turned on his white noise and night light and put him in his crib. I talked to him And let him know it was bedtime, then walked out of the room but left the door open. He would fuss a little and when he would get loud I would go back in and reassure him again and then leave again. This went on for about twenty minutes, then he passed out and slept the whole night! 😱😱we'll see how tonight goes, but honestly I think he is just as ready for his own space as we are. I woke up a lot though last night to check on him, and several times thought about picking him up and putting him in the bed, but I held strong! Hopefully it doesn't take to long for me to see it as a new normal. Thank you all so much for your suggestions and reassurances! You ladies are the sweetest :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2751419 Fri, 23 Jun 2017 14:22:38 +0000 arosebyany 2751419@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@looch: :heart: thank you<br /> @macintosh: so I made him a huge floor pillow, so usually that's where he naps, or in the car running errands lol.<br /> @snowjewelz: I'm not sure how to do this? Honestly this to me would be the best solution! I dint even think of this!!<br /> @gingerbebe: I know I should probably put him in his own room, but I'm just not ready. If the crib in our room becomes to stressful I would just put him back in bed with me. I don't know why this is such a problem for me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2751313 Fri, 23 Jun 2017 11:25:52 +0000 SweetiePie 2751313@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@gingerbebe: yeah agree. I'd do it in his own room and basically do the sleep lady shuffle until he was fine. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2751266 Fri, 23 Jun 2017 09:45:19 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2751266@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@arosebyany: how's it going? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2751224 Fri, 23 Jun 2017 08:45:59 +0000 wrkbrk 2751224@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@arosebyany: Good luck mama! We moved our son out of our room to his room at 15 months (so not the same, but similar) and I will tell you this. The time I spent dreading it and worrying was 100 times any issue we actually had. Kids get used to new stuff fast! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2751037 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 18:25:51 +0000 gingerbebe 2751037@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think moving him to his own room would work better - I think he would just be upset and scream if he saw you in the room but couldn't go into the bed. And once the screaming is literally in your face you're more likely to just pull him into the bed. I'd move him into his own room, put a bunch of stuffed animals in the crib so he doesn't feel alone, and maybe lay on the floor next to him initially and leave once he's asleep. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2751035 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 18:05:16 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2751035@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@arosebyany: I let my lo1 CIO when dh was away for four nights. It really did result in everyone sleeping better and being in better moods during the day. I would say I love you, it's time to sleep in your crib now, goodnight! ETA, she had previously slept in a crib but was insisting on coming in the pnp in our room. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2751022 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 16:31:10 +0000 snowjewelz 2751022@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Can you side car the crib to your bed for now so he still has access to your bed, but you can lay next to the crib to confine him there? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2751017 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 16:18:19 +0000 macintosh 2751017@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Where does he nap? In your bed alone? I'm not an expert by any means, but I can't imagine my son would ever fall asleep in a crib with me in the room. Can you start with him napping in the crib in his own room? Just a thought - good luck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2750999 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 15:42:55 +0000 looch 2750999@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@arosebyany: good luck, I hope it works out, I really do. This sleeping stuff is soooo stressful. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2750972 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 14:34:16 +0000 arosebyany 2750972@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@looch: my husband is off all weekend so, my plan was to let him cry it out. He kept me up for 3 hours last night kicking me repeatedly in my back. I probably have bruises. I'm literally at the "I can't take anymore stage" lol</p> <p>ETA: I sleep between him and my husband and I'm reallyyyyy starting to feel smothered. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2750960 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 14:11:33 +0000 looch 2750960@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think you have to try a few things and see what sticks. The sleeping transfer might work, it might not, you don't know until you try it. I think, though, you need a plan, like what you will do if the sleeping transfer doesn't work. Do you just bring him back to bed, or are you now going to try controlled crying, or do you have to move him to another room?</p> <p>That's where I failed in my sleeping attempts with my son, not having a series of things to try when the first one failed. As a result, my son and I coslept for close to 4 years! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2750958 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 14:08:00 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2750958@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would put him in his crib after all the usual bedtime cues. If he cried I would reassure him but leave him there. My POV is kids are allowed to be upset about things, but they aren't allowed to pick the boundary, and moving him after he's asleep might be confusing. However I can see the appeal and I just want to wish you good luck no matter what you choose! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2750956 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 14:03:45 +0000 arosebyany 2750956@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsbubbletea: I thought about that, but he literally just learned to walk 2 weeks ago, and I'm terrified of him rummaging around the bedroom and me still being out of it lol.<br /> @Pollywog: that is awesome! Maybe that's what I need to do then let him fall asleep in the bed and then move him? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2750948 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 13:53:11 +0000 mrsbubbletea 2750948@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Pollywog: That's awesome! GOod work! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2750946 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 13:49:45 +0000 Pollywog 2750946@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm slowly evicting my 16.5 month old. He falls asleep and I transfer him. When he wakes up, I comfort him back to sleep and transfer him. Then I give up and he ends up in bed with me. But, we've gone from 40 minutes in the crib to 5 hours, which is huge! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2750945 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 13:49:28 +0000 mrsbubbletea 2750945@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Good luck! My advice would be to consider skipping the crib and trying a floor bed. At that age, you might be more successful since your LO isnt used to a crib. Thats what we did with good success! We did the usual routine (for us at that point was nursing to sleep) and then I snuck away. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-official-over-co-sleeping-what-to-expect#post-2750942 Thu, 22 Jun 2017 13:46:21 +0000 arosebyany 2750942@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DS is 18mo and has been in our bed since day one, with that in mind I swear he's the size of a 3 yo, and I am done done done co-sleeping. He has a crib and it's been sitting in pieces in his closet. I took it out today and put it together in my room. I'm not ready for him to leave my room, just my bed. Help me!! What should I expect tonight?<br /> Our normal night time routine consist of taking a bath, then a before bed bottle. I know, I know he's to old for that, but this is the last one he has (weened all other bottles)and my child literally starts heading towards the kitchen and screaming at me untill he gets it. This battle is not currently at the top of my list. Ok so after his bottle me, DH, and DS usually just chill on the couch untill he starts to get tired then we head to bed(8-9). He'll play in bed for anywhere from 5 to 30 minutes then pass out. We all just go to bed at the same time because DH gets up at 4 for work, and I need as much sleep as my kid 😂. He usually gets up somewhere between 6:30 and 8.<br /> I'm sure he's going to look at me crazy when I put him in his crib tonight, and I'm not sure how I should handle it. Coddle him? Ignore him? If you've read this far bless you! I'm really hoping for the most pain free transition, for both of us :wink: </p>