https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 21 Jun 2026 14:26:57 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98654 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 20:21:22 +0000 skibobrown 98654@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aww... good luck! Yes, it will be terribly hard to not pick up your baby, but the surgery will be best for both of you in the long run. 4-6 weeks sounds like an eternity right now, but I'm sure you'll be amazed how quickly it passes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98613 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 19:42:55 +0000 autumnlove 98613@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thinking of you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98602 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 19:29:12 +0000 tequiero21 98602@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: omg lol. that's too funny! now i'm afraid i'm going to hear that song when i see your name. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98386 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 15:25:29 +0000 Maysprout 98386@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Best wishes! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98376 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 15:20:21 +0000 chopsuey 98376@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@tequiero21: This is random. But whenever I see your sn the song "Bailamos" plays in my head. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98370 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 15:17:08 +0000 tequiero21 98370@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>awww, sorry the short-term is going to suck, but long-term, how GREAT would it be to have no migraines! good luck with the surgery! and hope your LO adjusts well. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98356 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 15:05:36 +0000 mrs. wagon 98356@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: @artbee: omg. You grapefruits are so hardcore hellobee it's not even funny! Well, yes it is. :)</p> <p>We should definitely schedule a few post-a-thons to keep @artbee company!!! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98340 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 14:51:56 +0000 heffalump 98340@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: It's brought! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98338 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 14:51:13 +0000 chopsuey 98338@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@artbee: hahaha. bring it! ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98337 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 14:50:47 +0000 BSB 98337@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aww. I'm sorry. It must be hard. Let's hope these next 4-6 weeks fly by for you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98336 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 14:50:15 +0000 heffalump 98336@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: I know! I love her so much and I'm so happy that she's getting big and doing fun things and doing what she's supposed to be doing, but whenever I see a newborn I tear up!</p> <p>@mrs. wagon: You're so sweet! And thank you for saying that I have a right to be sad. My husband, of course only trying to help, is trying to cheer me up and doesn't like that I cry about this, but it's sad! I have emotions and I'm allowed to! I will be on hellobee a lot more to make the time pass.... watch out @chopsuey119! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98331 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 14:46:58 +0000 winniebee 98331@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aww! Hopefully the next month will fly for you and this will overall lead to an improvement in your quality of life and time with your daughter. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98329 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 14:46:11 +0000 mrs. wagon 98329@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@artbee: awww..... too sweet. what more can I say? it will be sad and you have a right to be sad :( Just think of how amazing it will be when you can start up again and how much your LO will have missed you!!!! :) and OH DEAR about taking it too fast-- you can rely on your hellobee friends to keep you company and discourage you from doing too much so that you can back to your daughter faster!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98328 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 14:46:07 +0000 chopsuey 98328@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@artbee: I cry when I watch videos of my LO when she was younger too. They grow so fast! :(<br /> I love her age right now.. but I still miss the good ole days too. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98323 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 14:43:55 +0000 heffalump 98323@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrs. wagon: Unfortunately watching videos of LO and not being able to snuggle her would probably make me cry. Especially because they always make me cry anyway because I see how big she's getting so fast. I'm kinda sappy. Luckily I'll still be with her every day. I just won't get to pick her up so I need someone there to help with all the work. It just sucks because I want to be the one doing it!</p> <p>@Alivoo01: I'm pretty sure it will take the whole time- I'm just hoping for 4 instead of 6! But if I do things too fast it'll mess everything up and I'll just have to go in for surgery again. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98283 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 13:50:49 +0000 MsMini 98283@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That is sad! I hope the surgery works well for you, so all of this, and the recovery is worthwhile for you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98244 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 13:30:06 +0000 banana 98244@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aw. :( Hopefully it'll go by fast. I get severe migraines from time and time and they're SO debilitating. I can't imagine getting them as often as you have. This surgery will make things so much better for you and your family, I'm sure. Hope you have a super speedy recovery!!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98242 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 13:28:14 +0000 Alivoo01 98242@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>*HUGS* Light at the end of the tunnel! While you won't be able to pick up your LO for a month, it's better than having migraines for however long and missing out on other milestones because you have to sit out. Wishing you a speedy recovery! Maybe it won't take you the whole 4-6 weeks to recover! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98129 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 11:45:10 +0000 mrs. wagon 98129@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@artbee: :( that is very very sad. But you're right, the outcome will be so much better than what you have now. Appreciate the snuggles now (and during recovery! maybe you can start gathering activities you can do in bed together?) and also can you gather videos of her so you can enjoy them while she's with your mom? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98126 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 11:42:44 +0000 heffalump 98126@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks ladies. I know it's for the best... I just feel like I have a lot going on in my life right now and the only happy thing (other than my amazing husband) is my LO. So not having her there to cheer me up is going to be so hard. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98084 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 10:28:01 +0000 SAHM0811 98084@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>awww, so sorry to hear this. i can only imagine! but you're right, a happy and healthy mommy is a better mommy! best wishes for a speedy recovery. hope the surgery can help with the migraines. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98081 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 10:26:41 +0000 chopsuey 98081@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:( hopefully you can give her lots of hugs and still hold her sitting down, right?<br /> hope the surgery goes well!!! the month will fly by quickly and you'll be migraine freeee! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98076 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 10:22:14 +0000 dc yoga bee 98076@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hoping for a healthy speedy recovery for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98060 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 10:04:22 +0000 Rubies 98060@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh dear! It will be so hard not to pick LO up but as you know, it'll all be worth in when you are recovered. HUUUUGS! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98016 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 09:10:46 +0000 Mrsbells 98016@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>thats sucky, but just remember the recovery is only temporary and then you will be better than your old self! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98015 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 09:09:01 +0000 Andrea 98015@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That sounds unbelievable sucky but just think it will be worth it in the long run. Right now you're suffering and can't spend all your time with the LO as it is. But 4-6 weeks of not picking her up, wow. =( Thank goodness you have your mom to help, too!! *hugs* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98012 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 09:08:28 +0000 pelikila 98012@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can't imagine how difficult that will be. My heart goes out to you for not getting the chance to have some serious snuggle time pre-surgery so far and also for the recovery period. I pray your surgery will do exactly what it is supposed to with no complications so you can get back to being the best mom possible. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad#post-98008 Wed, 21 Mar 2012 09:04:30 +0000 heffalump 98008@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>One week from now I'm having surgery. In the long run it will be very good. Its for my migraines and with less migraines I will be able to be a better mommy and spend more time with lo. But recovery is going to suck. I cant pick up lo for 4-6 weeks. I can hold her, but I cant strain my neck so actually picking her up is a no no. I'm devistated. All I do is care for my lo and now for over a month I won't be able to do that. Ill still be with her every day but its not the same. So I figured at least id get some good snuggle and play time in with her this week, but so far it's been all migraines so my mom gets to have her. I'm so upset. I cant wait for.this month to pass. </p>