https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 18 Jun 2026 13:51:49 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728601 Tue, 25 Apr 2017 06:17:51 +0000 dc yoga bee 2728601@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry. I'm right there with you. My DH literally says the same thing, and as the one with the fertility issues it makes me feel even more broken. And he does not want to pursue any fertility treatments because we already have been blessed with one great kid. So, I totally respect his wishes, but wanting a second child does not make one ungratful for the first! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728594 Tue, 25 Apr 2017 00:27:41 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2728594@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CatchAFallingStar: no but I've had pre-period spotting which doesn't happen every month but isn't unusual (I learned last time ttc.). I've never had implantation bleeding (although I've had other bleeding.) this and other period symptoms right at the right time for my period so I'm pretty sure it'll be here tomorrow. If it doesn't show in a few days I'll reconsider but I'd be floored honestly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728593 Tue, 25 Apr 2017 00:13:26 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2728593@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@2littlepumpkins: have you taken a test? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728589 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 23:25:31 +0000 2littlepumpkins 2728589@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CatchAFallingStar: I'm sorry. :( I feel like ttc doesn't get easier. No matter how many kids you have (unless maybe you have like six? I will never know..) it's always messing with how you picture your family, child spacing, etc. </p> <p>I'm waiting for my period to really start too. I expect tomorrow, maaaaybe the next day if I ovulated late? But this waiting for period thing sucks. </p> <p>Hope May is your lucky month! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728577 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 21:59:56 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2728577@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you all! I know I'm not the only one and I'm not alone. You are all wonderful. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728475 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 16:12:43 +0000 periwinklebee 2728475@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry - you're not alone :heart: Thinking of you and hoping there will be something to cheer you up soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728464 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 15:39:49 +0000 PeaceLily 2728464@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry. :sad: </p> <p>My husband is much more relaxed with ttc than I am. Most of the time I think it's a good thing, but it can get frustrating. I hope things work out for you very soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728446 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 15:07:48 +0000 arosebyany 2728446@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Men are stupid,and limbo is even more stupid. Sorry you're going through this :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728442 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 15:02:51 +0000 knittylady 2728442@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My first thought when I read the title- me too, friend. I feel like a lot of us are struggling right now. It sucks. The silver lining is having a community of people who "get it". I hope you get answers or AF soon for clarity's sake and that your bfp is just around the corner... :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728435 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 14:41:19 +0000 Tionn3 2728435@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My husband literally says the same thing to me. Men. I'm so sorry you're feeling down =[ Sending hugs your way. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728413 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 14:15:45 +0000 bhbee 2728413@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. I found the second time harder than the first for some reason. I felt more broken and it took longer for us. But it was worth it. No advice just hugs! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728411 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 14:13:50 +0000 mrskansas 2728411@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sorry mama :heart: My husband is also the same way and it drives me crazy and sometimes hurts my feelings.</p> <p>Hopefully when you do decide to wean your cycles will be a bit more predictable and your progesterone levels will be in a "normal" range and then it will be easier to conceive. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728409 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 14:12:57 +0000 youboots 2728409@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thinking of you. Loving the recent photos of your precious DD ❤️ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728408 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 14:11:57 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2728408@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Coral: yes.. definitely!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728404 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 14:08:23 +0000 Coral 2728404@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@CatchAFallingStar: I'm so sorry. :sad: It's harder when your SO has a much more relaxed attitude when you want something so badly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-sad-1#post-2728400 Mon, 24 Apr 2017 14:05:36 +0000 CatchAFallingStar 2728400@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Well, I thought I was out on Saturday because I had some brown spotting. That was the day my period was due. Still hasn't started. I felt like I had so many signs of pregnancy that I experienced with my daughter. I was almost certain today when I took a FRER that it would be positive. It was stark white and a giant BFN. I am surprised at how sad I am. Crying. Confused. I'm 38 and had fertility struggles the first time around. I just don't know if I can handle this again. It's so so so hard. And DH just says "whatever is meant to happen will happen." Ugh!m</p> <p>ETA - I'm 15-16 DPO </p>