https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 12 Apr 2026 19:47:53 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp/page/2#post-127905 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 09:09:30 +0000 winniebee 127905@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Great! Glad to know you can move forward now! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-127898 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 09:06:52 +0000 MamaMoose 127898@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: I'm so glad to hear things are moving forward for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-127891 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 09:01:10 +0000 oliviaoblivia 127891@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: That's great news! You must be so relieved. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-127881 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 08:57:58 +0000 Adira 127881@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: Agreed! Good luck! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-127875 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 08:55:18 +0000 sslm 127875@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: yes! Hopefully she doesn't take too long! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-127871 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 08:51:53 +0000 Adira 127871@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: Woohoo!!! That's great news!!!! Now are you just waiting for AF to show up so you can start a new cycle? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-127861 Wed, 18 Apr 2012 08:44:37 +0000 sslm 127861@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just took another test this morning and it was negative!!! Never thought I'd be so excited to see that!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-115950 Mon, 09 Apr 2012 19:42:27 +0000 tequiero21 115950@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a d&amp;c so was just waiting impatiently for my period... Good luck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-115875 Mon, 09 Apr 2012 17:31:13 +0000 kml636 115875@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I took one 2 weeks after the d &amp; c and it was negative. Hoping for the best for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-112602 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 16:37:10 +0000 googly-eyes 112602@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Glad to hear everything's working out! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-112518 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 14:33:07 +0000 MrsLMA 112518@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: Glad to hear that #'s came down (from 500 to 45 is a big jump downward). JUST SO YOU KNOW, my phlabotomist told me that when the nubmers get lower, they sometimes move more slowly. For me, mine went from 461 to 102 a week later, then 31 a week later, then 14 a week later, then finally down to 0 two weeks after that (5 weeks total). I got my period before I did my final blood draw and was pretty sure the levels would be at zero after that.</p> <p>I know how hard it is to want to get the process over with for a variety of different reasons- namely just to have it behind you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-112161 Thu, 05 Apr 2012 10:39:54 +0000 singingbee 112161@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: I'm glad the levels are going down. Sometimes it's so amazing how fast or how slow this whole process takes! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-110937 Wed, 04 Apr 2012 10:25:09 +0000 mrskc 110937@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: That sounds like great news! I think your levels have to go back to 0 in order to ovulate again and get AF. I hope it doesn't take too much longer! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-110917 Wed, 04 Apr 2012 10:14:41 +0000 Adira 110917@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: Ahh, I see. Well hopefully she shows up soon! The waiting game SUCKS. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-110861 Wed, 04 Apr 2012 09:11:06 +0000 sslm 110861@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: Sort of! Since I'm not at less than 5 yet, I'm not super hopeful she's coming any time soon. I'm praying she'll come sometime in April but would be happy with May. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-110756 Wed, 04 Apr 2012 07:54:34 +0000 Adira 110756@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: YAY!!!! That's great news!!!! Now are you just waiting for AF to show up so you can start over? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-110751 Wed, 04 Apr 2012 07:44:25 +0000 sslm 110751@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just thought I'd update in case anyone is following along! My doctor just called with the results of my test, my levels are at 45. The last time we checked they were 500 so she feels confident nothing is wrong and it's just taking time. This feels like good news, I just wish my body would stop taking it's sweet time!!!!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-110471 Tue, 03 Apr 2012 15:36:22 +0000 singingbee 110471@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: this blood work will come back good. I can feel it! Then you will be able to start trying again! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-110416 Tue, 03 Apr 2012 14:58:17 +0000 sslm 110416@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrskc: Thanks. I guess I'll know more tomorrow!</p> <p>@Jennimac: Thanks. I kind of wish I had opted for the D&amp;C from the beginning now. Hopefully the blood work comes back good and it's just taking my body a bit longer to adjust. Fingers crossed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-110344 Tue, 03 Apr 2012 14:22:36 +0000 singingbee 110344@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: I'm soooooo sorry. In some ways I'm okay with fact that I was further along and had to deliver so I know that everything is done and out. It's what you have to do to keep from crying. I hope that you can resolve this and begin trying again. I hate that I have to wait 3 months even though my bleeding seems to be stopping now, but I'm also glad so I don't have to 'face' TTC and tests, etc. right now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-110310 Tue, 03 Apr 2012 13:37:39 +0000 mrskc 110310@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: I'm so sorry. Hoping your levels are low and you won't need a D&amp;C. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-110302 Tue, 03 Apr 2012 13:30:19 +0000 sslm 110302@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Back to the blood lab I go... More bleeding today so we're going to test my HCG levels again. What a total nightmare this has been. It feels like we'll never get to the point where we can TTC. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-107993 Sat, 31 Mar 2012 20:10:05 +0000 pastemoo 107993@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: Oops. How did I miss that post?<br /> Hope you're doing ok today. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-107941 Sat, 31 Mar 2012 18:45:57 +0000 sslm 107941@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@googly-eyes: thank you so much :) it's awesome to have support here bc I don't have a lot of people in real life I want to share with (no one knew we were trying). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-107888 Sat, 31 Mar 2012 17:34:59 +0000 googly-eyes 107888@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've never experienced this but I'm following your story and just wanted to say good luck &amp; I hope you get your BFN with next week's test. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-107742 Sat, 31 Mar 2012 10:29:18 +0000 sslm 107742@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pastemoo: too late! Haha. I'm not being tested back to 0 with blood unfortunately. I might call and request one from my doctor though. Getting blood drawn is much easier. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-107688 Sat, 31 Mar 2012 09:27:30 +0000 pastemoo 107688@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I tested after their blood tests and still got a BFP and it was horrendous.<br /> DON'T TEST until the blood work says you're back to 0 hCG.</p> <p>Good luck, and baby dust for the cycle after. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-107630 Sat, 31 Mar 2012 08:38:05 +0000 sslm 107630@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks everyone. </p> <p>I tested and still got a positive, but it was faint - definitely there but light. Last week it was very dark, so I think I'm happy with this. I'll probably retry in a week!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-107519 Sat, 31 Mar 2012 01:13:47 +0000 cupcakemama 107519@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@sslm: I haven't been in your position but just wanted to lend my support and hope you get your bfn. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-scared-of-a-bfp#post-107509 Sat, 31 Mar 2012 00:40:04 +0000 MaisyMay 107509@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If you feel up to it, do a POAS, but if you'd rather be a step removed from the whole process, ask your doctor to just do a blood test. While we didn't have to deal with this, I can see how it would be easier to just let the doctor's office draw your blood and do the test. There's something very emotional about POAS and waiting for the result. </p>