https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 13 Apr 2026 16:18:24 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-strugglingvent#post-2909372 Fri, 31 Jan 2020 11:32:55 +0000 Tionn3 2909372@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've had feelings like that. They are at their worst when my son decides to wake up at 4am for months on end. I found that switching weekend days off with my husband helped. He takes a day off, then I take a day off. Since you love to dance, is there a way to sign up for a class on the weekends? Make that your day off? It will give you something to look forward to. As for the politicians, I've stopped reading the news. Instant quality of life improvement. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-strugglingvent#post-2909368 Fri, 31 Jan 2020 11:16:22 +0000 gotkimchi 2909368@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p> [attach=4256/20/q4zbva.600x401.C5166190-3F41-488C-BBB2-8B82C780DEF0.jpeg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-strugglingvent#post-2909367 Fri, 31 Jan 2020 11:09:36 +0000 wrkbrk 2909367@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jennlin821: Heard all of that mama. I’ve expressed nearly the same thing to my therapist. I said I want a life I do not feel the need to escape from. That was last January. I’ve worked on that one goal for a year and I can honestly say I’m in a better place. There isn’t much I would change at this point - except of course our “government” and I’d take more money :P Can you pick one thing to work on changing? Then maybe the momentum will keep you going!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-strugglingvent#post-2909366 Fri, 31 Jan 2020 10:48:41 +0000 LadyDi 2909366@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs to you mama! Some days (or weeks or months) everything just seems impossibly hard. Can you take your time to yourself this weekend? Have a heart to heart with DH? No advice re: politicians...they will fuck up regardless. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-strugglingvent#post-2909364 Fri, 31 Jan 2020 10:29:59 +0000 jennlin821 2909364@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm struggling.<br /> Everything is hard. I'm trying to make changes so that I don't feel the need to 'escape' my life. But I am struggling. I want to scream and cry and sleep. I want my house to run itself. I want my husband to support me. I want my child's sweet personalty back, before she turned into a threenager. I want to be able to do my job at work and not have to solve everyone else's problems. I want to dance more because it is my passion. I want to lose this extra 50 pounds that I've been working my ass off and it won't budge. I want politicians to wake the fuck up and do their job. I want to know where the past 10 years went, because i'm suddenly 35, and I don't understand where the time went.<br /> I'm struggling. Why is everything hard. </p>