https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 27 Apr 2026 06:42:22 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1821606 Mon, 18 Aug 2014 13:12:36 +0000 Jess1483 1821606@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@78h2o:<br /> Yep! It's me. I saw you on here a couple weeks ago, but didn't want to be a creepy stalker ;) Thanks for your kind words. I've actually thought about you a lot because I remembered you had a MC before J, so it's a comfort to me to think about. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1821406 Mon, 18 Aug 2014 11:44:35 +0000 78h2o 1821406@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: I didn't realize you were on this site. Yay! I am so so sorry for your loss. (ETA: I'm assuming this is P's mom? This is J's mom). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1821261 Mon, 18 Aug 2014 10:49:33 +0000 ValentineMommy 1821261@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. :( Hugs and prayers. &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1821183 Mon, 18 Aug 2014 10:13:59 +0000 erwoo 1821183@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. :( I'm glad that you were able to pass it on your own. I've had a d&amp;c and passed one naturally too. Both were relatively painless. Just some pressure with having to take something to help dilate my cervix to help things along. Advil helped with some of the pain. I took it as a precaution. As for TTC again. My OB told me both times to wait until after my next period to start trying so it can be sooner than the few months that you've heard. But I don't think it hurts to wait a few months for your body to completely heal from the miscarriage. I wasn't ready until a few months later after both miscarriages anyway so it just worked out that way. Take it easy the next couple of weeks. One of the nurses at the hospital told me that having a miscarriage is like delivery a baby and your body will go through a similar process like delivery a full-term baby. Your emotions will be similar too. So take it easy and enjoy time with your first born. The second time it happened for me was so much easier b/c I had my oldest to keep me distracted. He was 2 then so at a really cute and fun age. Hang in there!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1821179 Mon, 18 Aug 2014 10:12:28 +0000 2PeasinaPod 1821179@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just wanted to lend you some support. I unfortunately went through my 4 miscarriage a few weeks ago.</p> <p>I've waited at least a cycle or two between miscarriages to start TTC again. It gave my body time to heal and also allowed me to start to feel like myself again. I too range in emotion from being fine one minute to a mess the next. PM if you want to talk, but take your time in recovering. I'm so sorry for your loss :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1821163 Mon, 18 Aug 2014 10:00:29 +0000 busylizzy111 1821163@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1818108 Fri, 15 Aug 2014 12:02:58 +0000 travelgirl1 1818108@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: :crying: You may feel like that, the pulling yourself together then falling apart, for quite a while. I wore sunglasses a lot when I had my miscarriage, inside shops too, so I could have a bit of a cry wherever I was and no one would know. It's such a sad, sad experience to go through and it was six or seven weeks until I could smile and laugh and actually feel that joy inside me too. I'm ten weeks past my mc now and I am back to normal feelings wise but still think about my lost baby a lot every single day. Be kind to yourself, big hugs x </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1818097 Fri, 15 Aug 2014 11:56:39 +0000 Alivoo01 1818097@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: &lt;3 *hugs* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1818070 Fri, 15 Aug 2014 11:39:45 +0000 LovelyPlum 1818070@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: I am so sorry :( I lost two last spring, and it is heartbreaking. Sending you healing and peace :heart:</p> <p>Too many losses this week. So much love to all :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1818054 Fri, 15 Aug 2014 11:19:50 +0000 Phillybaby2013 1818054@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. I'll continue to send prayers and good thoughts. &lt;&lt;Hugs&gt;&gt; </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1818027 Fri, 15 Aug 2014 10:54:05 +0000 Jess1483 1818027@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@travelgirl1: @TheSwissWifeStyle:<br /> Thanks ladies. I'm glad I'm not alone, but I sure wish that didn't mean others have experienced it. I think I passed the baby last night. It was really hard, but not painful. Today has been hard. I can pull myself together and then I just totally fall apart. I feel awful for my husband, too. He is really broken about it. My son is what is pulling us through. He is so sweet and keeps giving me hugs and making me laugh. It's amazing how much they can sense. Today is just some cramping and heavy-period bleeding.<br /> @jaguar: I'm so sorry to be in this position with you.<br /> I met with the nurse-midwife yesterday and she said they like to have you wait a few months to TTC. I want to talk to the doctor, but that seems unnecessary. What did other docs say about it? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1817500 Fri, 15 Aug 2014 04:02:52 +0000 TheSwissWifeStyle 1817500@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: I'm so, so sorry :(</p> <p>My last 2, I passed on my own. The first one of those wasn't too bad at all. With the last one it was a bit more painful. But for the last one, I was on vacation and still went out every day with no real issues. I only seemed to pass POC and bleed when I used the bathroom. For both of them, I never noticed anything recognizable. It was just like a really heavy and clotty period. Take some ibuprofen (3 at a time, every 6 hours if your cramping is bad) and use a heating pad if you can. Stay home, watch TV, eat ice cream. Take care of yourself :heart: </p> <p>Again, I'm so sorry. Sending you tons of love and healing thoughts. You are not alone. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1817453 Fri, 15 Aug 2014 01:38:55 +0000 Ree723 1817453@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. Sending you big hugs. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1817445 Fri, 15 Aug 2014 01:14:17 +0000 jaguar 1817445@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: I'm so sorry. I'm still bleeding and cramping post d&amp;c earlier this week, but I haven't experienced a natural one - but am thinking of you. x </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1816678 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 18:47:06 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1816678@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: I'm so sorry. :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1816622 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 18:26:30 +0000 Raindrop 1816622@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: *big hugs* I'm so sorry. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1816612 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 18:23:46 +0000 oliviaoblivia 1816612@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: so sorry to read your update. :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage/page/2#post-1816582 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 18:15:35 +0000 travelgirl1 1816582@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: :crying: I'm sorry.<br /> My natural miscarriage wasn't painful at all, I has cramping when the bright red bleeding started and that was all, but I did feel very, very sick and nauseous for a few days. Two days after I first started bleeding I felt something slipping out of me and it was like a bubble, about the size of a walnut. I think that was the baby and sac. A few more tissue-type things passed through in the next few hours after that. I was terrified of passing the baby but it wasn't as bad as I had expected. Take care of yourself, it's such a sad experience to go through. Big hugs to you :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage#post-1816549 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 18:05:28 +0000 Jess1483 1816549@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm definitely miscarrying. My doctor said to expect 1-2 hours of intense cramping/bleeding. So far all I feel is early-period cramping. Can anyone share stories of a naturally-passed miscarriage? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage#post-1816509 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 17:30:49 +0000 MrsStar 1816509@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry, thinking of you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage#post-1816474 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 17:08:21 +0000 Annette 1816474@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry to hear this. Will be thinking of you :sad: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage#post-1815575 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 09:30:07 +0000 Mrs.Pinecone316 1815575@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry to hear this. Praying everything turns out ok, hang in there. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage#post-1815481 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 08:56:28 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1815481@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh honey I am so sorry. Thinking of you and sending love and light. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage#post-1815464 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 08:53:21 +0000 mrsjyw 1815464@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage#post-1815459 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 08:51:48 +0000 loki 1815459@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: i'm so sorry to read this :( i would probably go regardless because my dr told me if i have any bleeding to come in. they might not be able to stop it or do anything but it's worth getting a medical opinion, i think... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage#post-1815443 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 08:49:28 +0000 Jess1483 1815443@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm bleeding red this morning, so it doesn't look good. I'm devastated. I have an appointment at 10, but I'm not sure whether to go, as I don't know what they would be able to say or do. I'll call before hand, but does anyone have thoughts on whether it would be valuable to go?</p> <p>Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers, ladies. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage#post-1815289 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 07:51:57 +0000 MrsF 1815289@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thinking of you :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage#post-1815284 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 07:49:10 +0000 snowjewelz 1815284@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Praying for your little bean in there to hold on! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage#post-1815245 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 07:23:09 +0000 maybebaby 1815245@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So scary, I am thinking of you and your sweet baby :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/impending-miscarriage#post-1815230 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 07:03:13 +0000 irene 1815230@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Can you not go out of town ? I worry about you. I went through a similar deal, I was so afraid and I wasn't even the one going out of town - my husband was. I was expecting that I would miscarry, and wanted someone to be there for me if I started bleeding / need someone to take me to ER...etc. (well but he had to go anyway, and I ended up having a healthy baby) I can't imagine if you would be not at home...</p> <p>Best wishes to you and I hope it all works out.... thinking of you. </p>