https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 08 Jun 2026 01:12:43 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2109024 Sat, 14 Mar 2015 23:45:58 +0000 Emilia80 2109024@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: I'm so sorry you're going through this, sending u lots of love and hugs. Hope your husband makes a quick recovery. Stay strong. It's hard and stressful when battling a disease. But u have to be strong for him and yourself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2109016 Sat, 14 Mar 2015 23:17:05 +0000 Grace 2109016@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just saw this. I'm so sorry. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2108986 Sat, 14 Mar 2015 22:19:52 +0000 Mama Bird 2108986@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. I hope your dad can go home soon and be surrounded by family. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2108957 Sat, 14 Mar 2015 21:50:35 +0000 yellowbird 2108957@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending lots of love your way &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2108956 Sat, 14 Mar 2015 21:46:56 +0000 Crisark 2108956@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2108198 Sat, 14 Mar 2015 06:43:12 +0000 Charm54 2108198@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2108194 Sat, 14 Mar 2015 06:30:55 +0000 Honeygold89 2108194@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry about your dad. Sending many hugs and thoughts for you and your family </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104878 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 07:19:30 +0000 Mamaof2 2104878@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thinking of you and your family - I hope your Dad can come home and spend time with all of his family :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104874 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 07:16:36 +0000 LindsayInNY 2104874@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thinking of you and your family &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104844 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 06:44:31 +0000 travellingbee 2104844@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. Thinking about you... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104838 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 06:31:33 +0000 sorrycharlie 2104838@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry. Sending love. &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104820 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 05:57:49 +0000 SugarplumsMom 2104820@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104815 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 05:41:18 +0000 jaguar 2104815@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>&lt;3 &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104801 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 04:06:06 +0000 Cherrybee 2104801@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh no, I'm so, so sorry..... :heart: :heart: I know it sounds weird, but I have some lovely memories of my dad's last couple of weeks. He was in a hospice, surrounded by his family - my step mother's daughters and their children, who had drawn pictures for him and stuck them up around his bed. It wasn't lovely at the time - it was heartbreaking and scary and kinda surreal - but looking back, the thing I really remember was all the love. </p> <p>I will be thinking of you lots and sending love and strength. PM me if you need to chat. xxx </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104777 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 00:45:46 +0000 Freckles 2104777@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry. :heart: thinking of you and your family. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104771 Thu, 12 Mar 2015 00:34:33 +0000 HLK208 2104771@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am SO sorry, friend. Many hugs &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104749 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 23:55:10 +0000 namaste 2104749@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104742 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 23:17:54 +0000 MrsLilybugg 2104742@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: hugs. Praying for you and your family </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104730 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 22:48:13 +0000 simplyfelicity 2104730@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104725 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 22:44:27 +0000 littlejoy 2104725@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thinking of you!!! It's got to be so hard. You're in my heart! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104719 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 22:39:22 +0000 MrsScallop 2104719@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry you are going through this hard time. So many hugs being sent your way :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/3#post-2104717 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 22:32:56 +0000 ALV91711 2104717@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending lots of love and hugs your way :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/2#post-2104713 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 22:16:41 +0000 BoogieBea 2104713@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/2#post-2104691 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 21:41:23 +0000 autumnleaves 2104691@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That is wonderful that he wants to spend time with your LO now. These are precious moments and it is so hard to see our parents decline in health and face death. My mom is declining in health, was in the hospital for a month now, went home for 2 weeks, and is now going to assisted living. She has no interest in socializing because she is so depressed and in pain. She loves my LO but also shows very little emotion and interest and that is hard. I am focusing on all the years she was there for me and am thankful I have my husband and LO for support. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/2#post-2104610 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 20:33:35 +0000 photojane 2104610@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: I'm so sorry. You're in my thoughts and prayers. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/2#post-2104608 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 20:32:48 +0000 avivoca 2104608@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: I'm so sorry friend. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/2#post-2104605 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 20:31:08 +0000 Mrs. J 2104605@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Love, strength, and prayers, my dear :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/2#post-2104584 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 20:13:51 +0000 .twist. 2104584@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you everyone. I don't have the words to express how much all of your well wishes mean to me. </p> <p>UPDATE: I spent the day with him today. Obviously, we would much prefer a different setting, but it was a good day with lots of family and love. I got a better idea of what's going on. They are doing 15 treatments of radiation and hoping that that will help reduce the tumours in his brain enough for him to be comfortable and in a place to go home. Ultimately, he is terminal. The radiation is not a cure, but an extension of time. I would honestly say 2 months is being generous. It will be amazing and very welcomed if he manages to make it longer. </p> <p>He wants very much to have Lukas be a big part of the rest of his life and I am going to do my best to make that happen for him. </p> <p>@Pepper: @Anagram: It sounds like my dad will want to be at home. If we can accommodate him, we certainly will. He kind of has an attitude right now of giving no Fucks and wants to see Lukas all the time so that his last days are happy ones. </p> <p>@T.H.O.U.: I'm honestly not sure what all of his treatments have been. Although, I do know that after the radiation, they have said there is nothing else they can do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/2#post-2103762 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 11:37:14 +0000 coopsmama 2103762@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh man. :sad: This is so tough. Thinking of you all in this time - big hugs and lots of love. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/in-need-of-support-and-love/page/2#post-2103761 Wed, 11 Mar 2015 11:36:48 +0000 Anagram 2103761@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: I agree with Pepper. My dad wanted to be at home when he passed, so when his doctors finally felt like there was nothing else they could do, they transferred his care to Hospice--who came to our house with a bed for the living room, a bedpan, and other essentials. They were a great help and were there to support my mom (they had daily visits the last week) and give my dad palliative care.</p> <p>Don't be afraid to ask your options. </p>