https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 03 Apr 2026 22:33:00 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/irrational-thoughts-your-dh-wont-love-you-anymore#post-672109 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 23:16:44 +0000 Mrs. Polish 672109@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a hard time when I finally stopped denying that we had infertility issues. I was afraid he would find someone who could easily have children. We talked about it and he assured me he would never do such a thing, and now looking back I know I was being silly. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/irrational-thoughts-your-dh-wont-love-you-anymore#post-672104 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 23:07:56 +0000 mrskc 672104@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sometimes I feel like I'm being a lazy wife and I worry DH will resent me for it one day. So then I'll make more of an effort to help out and do things for him b/c I know he appreciates it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/irrational-thoughts-your-dh-wont-love-you-anymore#post-672087 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 22:36:19 +0000 Mrs.B 672087@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! Right now I am such a frumpy Mom and I really have zero desire to not be. I'm just SO busy all day everyday with all the kiddos and taking care of him and the house. I talked to him about it yesterday and he doesn't seem to mind but I promised that once Alia is 1 and I have more time I will get my pre baby hot mom self back. For right now though I'm just focusing on Alia and soaking in all of her babyhood. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/irrational-thoughts-your-dh-wont-love-you-anymore#post-672080 Wed, 27 Mar 2013 22:31:47 +0000 Beebug 672080@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm back in bed after already going to bed, but getting up again because I felt guilty.</p> <p>DH and I made dins after LO went to bed, and had a lazy night on the couch infront the TV. When we got up to shower and go to bed a few hours later, we looked at the kitchen and thought "oh crap". We did nothing/left a mess and are usually the type to leave it spotless shortly after dinner. As DH kissed me goodnight (and he went to shower) he remembered he didn't pack a lunch for work tomorrow.</p> <p>I laid in bed for a minute feeling guilty and thought DH might not love me someday if I don't do wifey things like have his lunch prepped and kitchen spotless, so down I went and did all that.</p> <p>I'm back in bed laughing at my thoughts, though happy I got that stuff done. I didn't want to seem lazy or complacent, wanted to look like I care!</p> <p>But seriously, do you ever think as stupidly as I just did? Like if you don't do ________ your DH won't love you? I'm insane, lol. </p>