https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 22 Apr 2026 20:24:33 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1901736 Wed, 15 Oct 2014 10:41:33 +0000 ValentineMommy 1901736@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: thank you!!! Dh doesn't understand when I tell him I'm afraid I'm broken!! I am having a ton of symptoms this tww....so major fingers crossed :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900766 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 14:22:48 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1900766@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ValentineMommy: you are NOT broken, but I totally understand what you mean. I thought I couldn't get pregnant until I finally did 20 years after my very first cycle. </p> <p>@FliegepilzHut: thank you ^^ sticky baby! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900745 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 14:12:25 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1900745@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: FX for you! Sending lots of good and sticky thoughts! :goodluck: :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900741 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 14:10:52 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1900741@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: Sending hugs your way! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900737 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 14:06:57 +0000 ValentineMommy 1900737@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: FX!!! This is our 2nd cycle TTC after our mc in June. (I bled for 8 weeks following the m/c so it took awhile to get back into it). I was SUPER bummed last month when we got our BFN. Got preg with DS on the first try, as well as the first try when we had our m/c. I was positive since we didn't get preg on the first try (last month) this time, that it meant I was now broken. I'm still fighting those feelings! It's so hard. Major FX for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900732 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 14:04:31 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1900732@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Fingers crossed for this cycle. It's our first time TTC after an early MC in Sept. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900716 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 13:48:49 +0000 ValentineMommy 1900716@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: Hugs and prayers for a h&amp;h 9m for you!!!! &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900684 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 13:30:29 +0000 Jess1483 1900684@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ValentineMommy: Doing pretty well. A little anxious. I pushed for betas and got my first one done today. I was out of town this weekend, which helps. I may be starting to feel a little queasy (yay!) but I might also be imagining it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900683 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 13:28:47 +0000 ValentineMommy 1900683@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: &lt;3 Thank you!!! How are you feeling? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900672 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 13:17:28 +0000 Jess1483 1900672@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ValentineMommy: I am thinking of you and praying so hard for you. Maybe come up with a short-term project to focus on? The waiting is the worst! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900666 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 13:15:14 +0000 ValentineMommy 1900666@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FliegepilzHut: I wish!!! I am actually formally diagnosed OCD and PPA (which the mc amplified exponentially). It's SO hard to focus on anything else. I'm actually sitting at my desk doing guided meditations right now lol. I'm having a really hard time concentrating at work, honestly. This takes over my whole brain...I hate it! I definitely think I need to take some walks after work and at least get my blood pumping!! Thank you for the support!!! &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900575 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 12:27:44 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1900575@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ValentineMommy: I totally get the OCD (not formally diagnosed, but still)... Can you get some "flow" going at work...and then when you get home, maybe figure out a way to go walk/talk with DH...or get a babysitter and go see a movie/get dinner? Or maybe, just cuddles with DS will help! :wink: Hope you feel better soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900563 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 12:23:20 +0000 ValentineMommy 1900563@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FliegepilzHut: I wish!!! I'm at work....and obsessing. I have OCD and this is not helping. Lol! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900554 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 12:20:15 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1900554@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ValentineMommy: Don't stress, lady! :heart: Can you get out and get your mind off things? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1900551 Tue, 14 Oct 2014 12:18:57 +0000 ValentineMommy 1900551@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So, TWW on cycle 2 after mc. Stressed to the max. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1886299 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 14:46:09 +0000 simplyfelicity 1886299@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Tidybee: Hugs, I am so sorry. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1886296 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 14:45:07 +0000 simplyfelicity 1886296@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: That's a good way to think of it. I, too, have gotten pregnant each cycle I have tried (even though they ended in loss) so I am slightly worried if things don't work out quickly that something is "wrong." </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1885387 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 09:11:26 +0000 ValentineMommy 1885387@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FliegepilzHut: &lt;3 :goodluck: I'm glad to have you ladies. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1885377 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 09:05:35 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1885377@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Tidybee: So hard... :sad: </p> <p>@ValentineMommy: I had the same worries after my first D+C...a little less so this time around, but only after a more or less "normal" AF arrived. It really can take a little while for things to get back to normal. But if you're really concerned (say, in a few months), you could ask them to take a look at your lining--I have a mandatory saline hysterosonogram coming up before we can transfer another embryo... The worst case scenario (Asherman's) is still very treatable! :heart: I hope this gets easier and you don't have to worry for long... :goodluck: :happy: </p> <p>I'm currently actively trying to *arrange the circumstances by which I can* conceive. Our cycle "au naturale" didn't work, obviously...so I'm in the process of arranging my frozen embryo transfer for just after Thanksgiving. Wishing all of you ladies lots of luck...hopefully we'll all be pregnant again very soon! :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1885350 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 08:51:21 +0000 mrsjyw 1885350@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Tidybee: hugs mama :heart: :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1885323 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 08:42:52 +0000 ValentineMommy 1885323@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Tidybee: :( Hugs. I feel your pain :( &lt;3</p> <p>@MaryM: I was saying that the procedure was going to ruin my insides before it even happened lol. Then, when I had 8 weeks of bleeding afterwards, I was pretty darn positive it messed me up. After my BFN last month, I was 100% positive. Haha - I know it's not necessarily the case, but my head just can't stop going there. :( I hope you get some answers from your testing &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1885297 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 08:32:54 +0000 MaryM 1885297@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ValentineMommy: :heart: Your body might just need a cycle or two to heal. I would try not to jump straight to it ruining your body (although I know it's hard to not expect the worst!)</p> <p>I'm 9 months past MC and still trying. I had a "WTF?" discussion with my doctor yesterday. She did 6pdo testing and hopefully I'll hear those results today. Other than that, she said come back in 6 months if you're not KU and we'll look into other interventions.</p> <p>I hate that it means more waiting, but that's also what she said at my annual last year, and I got KU without trying, so I'm trying to hold on to that hope! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss/page/2#post-1885246 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 08:12:54 +0000 Tidybee 1885246@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>As soon as AF gets on her way (stillll spotting which is a sign she's coming), this will be our first month of trying again. EDD from m/c #1 is a few days away and it reminds me of how long I've been at this.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss#post-1885243 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 08:12:31 +0000 Jess1483 1885243@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ValentineMommy: I'm sorry you are feeling so anxious. I got pregnant with DS and my mc on the first try, so I totally understand the extra worry after not getting pregnant first cycle again. I am trying to tell myself that if I don't get pregnant right away, my body is trying to make sure the next one sticks by preparing extra. I'll let you know how that works. But you WILL get pregnant again. I'm sure enough for both of us. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss#post-1885237 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 08:06:57 +0000 mrsjyw 1885237@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Jess1483: :goodluck: :goodluck: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss#post-1885235 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 08:06:33 +0000 Jess1483 1885235@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm 7 dpo here and really glad I don't have wondfos in the house. Trying to hold off for Saturday. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss#post-1885187 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 07:25:27 +0000 ValentineMommy 1885187@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsjyw: Thank you!! I hope you get one too!!!! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss#post-1885156 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 06:43:52 +0000 mrsjyw 1885156@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ValentineMommy: it's such an emotional roller coaster! I'm the same way in expecting/thinking the worst. It's our first cycle post-CP and I still have days where I think that the CP was a sign of a more serious issue, even though it's SO common and I have no other known issues at this point. Hugs, I hope your worry lessens and you get your BFP soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss#post-1885155 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 06:42:09 +0000 mrsjyw 1885155@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hi! I'm here after an early CP loss at 4w1d. We didn't skip a cycle (per OB) and am in the thick of O week. I go back and forth on being hopeful to expecting the worst even though I have no real reason to really worry at this point as CPs are common. I've been using a CB fertility monitor and it crapped out on me this morning so I'm nervous about that, but I've also been using wondfos and got a clear positive yesterday and we've been BDing this week, so hopefully the timing was good. Now just some :goodluck: our way~ </p> <p> :goodluck: to you all!!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-anyone-actively-ttc-after-a-loss#post-1885149 Thu, 02 Oct 2014 06:32:22 +0000 ValentineMommy 1885149@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hey all - just stopping back in to see how everyone is. The fact that I didn't get pregnant on the first try is freaking me out (I know, I know). We got preg with DS and our m/c both on the first try. I don't know why, but I've convinced myself that the d&amp;e has ruined my insides and I won't be able to get pregnant again (or sustain one). Sorry all, my anxiety is getting the best of me today as we're entering our second cycle. I could use some encouragement or something. </p>