https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 02 May 2026 01:56:46 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2488278 Wed, 09 Mar 2016 06:23:20 +0000 MCD919 2488278@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks ladies! I honestly don't think I would've cared or really noticed if a guest wore the color of our dresses, which was eggplant purple! If it was one of the moms or something, yes I could see some people being bothered... Thanks for your feedback ! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2488186 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 22:31:30 +0000 LovelyPlum 2488186@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ha, I have family who do this on purpose, which I find annoying, but only because it's them. Accidental matching, or matching because it is what will work for you, is totally OK. Going out of your way to match?? Eh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2488152 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 21:51:47 +0000 pastemoo 2488152@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MCD919: I might be more of a no no if it were a very particular shade of yellow or something. But navy. 90% of the women will wear navy, black, or a combo with black and white or black and red. So no harm wearing navy! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2488137 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 21:30:33 +0000 Mrs. D 2488137@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>NO BIg deal! Most of the time people have no idea what the bridesmaids will be wearing, plus NAVY is so common! It'll look good in pictures too, lol. If you're worried, add a colourful beaded necklace or scarf and shoes to offset yourself from the girls. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487955 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 18:18:26 +0000 youboots 2487955@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@agold: mine was from Banana Republic. It was years ago but still I remember how awkward I felt. Ha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487952 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 18:17:06 +0000 agold 2487952@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@youboots: Ha! So funny it happened to you. People were also asking me things about the wedding! It was just a dress from white house/black market. I would have never thought it was the bridesmaid dresses. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487940 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 18:09:38 +0000 youboots 2487940@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@agold: me too. Random people came up and asked me questions about the wedding. As long as it is not THE bridesmaids dress you are good. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487821 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 16:33:05 +0000 Mrs. Champagne 2487821@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No big deal! Especially when the colour of choice is navy or black! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487790 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 16:14:17 +0000 MOMTOLITTLEB 2487790@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think navy is safer than a more distinct color. At the last wedding I went to, the wife of one of the groomsmen wore the same color as the bridesmaids which was bright purple and it came across as pretty awkward like she wanted to be part of the bridal party! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487788 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 16:13:43 +0000 My Only Sunshine 2487788@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MCD919: Navy is fine. My bridesmaids wore black and there were obviously several guests wearing the same color. It was fine! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487764 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 15:56:48 +0000 sapphire 2487764@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have accidentally worn the bridal party color a number of times (how was I supposed to know)? While I didn't like it, the bride always has gotten a good laugh. I wouldn't worry about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487743 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 15:40:25 +0000 PawPrints 2487743@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would generally try to avoid it if feasible, but at 35 weeks you get to wear anything you like and deserve congratulations for finding anything comfortable and flattering, regardless of color. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487681 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 14:33:34 +0000 erinbaderin 2487681@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think as long as you're just a guest, it's fine - my sister-in-law, who I have no relationship with, showed up at our wedding wearing a floor length strapless dress in the exact same sage green as my bridesmaids, whose dresses were tea length, and the pictures with her in them look a bit weird. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487679 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 14:33:00 +0000 snowjewelz 2487679@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nbd! Because what if you don't know what the bridal party is wearing?! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487602 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:57:37 +0000 nana87 2487602@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>navy is a total neutral, so nbd. also, guests rarely even know the bridesmaid dress color ahead of time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487599 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:56:22 +0000 Shantuck 2487599@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've worn navy to weddings where the bridesmaids wore navy (I didn't know in advance - I love the color navy and half of my wardrobe is navy!). I think if it is a common color like navy or black, it's totally acceptable. I joked with the bride at the last one that if something happened to one of her bridesmaids, I was ready to hop in. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487591 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:53:52 +0000 MCD919 2487591@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We live close to each other and get together often, so we've talked a lot about wedding planning, colors etc. But I also feel like navy is a really common color, and it's hard enough finding something while super pregnant! On the other hand, I'm not sure if I'd be committing some huge etiquette sin :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487589 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:53:39 +0000 Mommy Finger 2487589@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wearing the same dress as the bridesmaids? Bad. Wearing the same color? Of course that's ok. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487585 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:52:42 +0000 runnerd 2487585@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's no big deal like others said, but if I knew the color/dress ahead of time, I'd only wear the dress if style was drastically different (just personal preference). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487570 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:46:53 +0000 MaryM 2487570@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would gauge my response on the bride. If you think it'd be a big deal to her, then I wouldn't do it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487556 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:42:17 +0000 Mrs.KMM 2487556@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Guests don't usually know what color the bridesmaids dresses are anyways. You'll be totally fine! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487546 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:31:55 +0000 psw27 2487546@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not a big deal at all, 90% of the time I don't know what the bridesmaids are wearing anyway. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487537 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:27:50 +0000 Raindrop 2487537@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I accidentally wore the exact same color as the bridesmaid! (turquoise blue) I had no idea that was going to be the color.</p> <p>Also she did the thing were the bridesmaid didn't have to wear the exact same dress just the color so I totally looked like I could be a bridesmaid. </p> <p>It wasn't a big deal at all.</p> <p>I think you will be fine. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487525 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:23:23 +0000 agold 2487525@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I agree that most people don't know the color of the bridesmaids' dresses beforehand. I once showed up to a wedding wearing the exact same dress as the bridesmaids. :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487524 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:23:22 +0000 SweetiePie 2487524@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Miss Ariel: Agree! Unless I'm a bridesmaid or very close friend, I never know the colors. So it's always possible to show up in tbe same color.<br /> And I agree with @catlady: that navy is such a common color, I'm sure you won't be the only one in a navy dress! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487519 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:17:49 +0000 Miss Ariel 2487519@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think most people don't even know the bridesmaid dress color so I really think you're fine. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487518 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:17:26 +0000 catlady 2487518@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Navy is such a common color. If it was like bright purple or something, I might suggest something else, but I doubt anyone will notice with navy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-it-inappropriate-to-wear-the-same-color-as-the-bridesmaids-as-a-guest#post-2487514 Tue, 08 Mar 2016 13:15:28 +0000 MCD919 2487514@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm going to be 35 weeks pregnant at my cousins wedding in May and I've been looking for a dress for awhile. I think I found something that I actually like and could work on my huge preggo belly, but it's the same color as the bridesmaid's dresses (navy). Is this a faux pas or not a big deal? </p>