https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 11 May 2026 06:14:28 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-this-appropriate#post-2925775 Sat, 11 Dec 2021 11:18:19 +0000 LadyDi 2925775@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No, that's weird and annoying. My in-laws (and my parents) drove by our new house after we had our offer accepted but with my SIL my in-laws actually got out of the car and walked the property and peered in windows. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-this-appropriate#post-2925769 Sat, 11 Dec 2021 01:26:57 +0000 cake2017 2925769@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ALV91711: Yes! I still am and DH is too but handling it better alittle better. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-this-appropriate#post-2925768 Sat, 11 Dec 2021 01:26:09 +0000 cake2017 2925768@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@erinbaderin: No, they’ve always overstepped since the beginning. Sad.</p> <p>We aren’t too sure as I think since contractors are in and out trying to finalize and my FIL drives by regularly when in the area- I think they took the opportunity and just walked in and walked through. They called DH after to brag. So disappointed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-this-appropriate#post-2925764 Fri, 10 Dec 2021 21:57:06 +0000 ALV91711 2925764@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I’d be pretty upset!! This is a big purchase and you should get to show it off. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-this-appropriate#post-2925763 Fri, 10 Dec 2021 21:20:01 +0000 erinbaderin 2925763@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don’t even understand how this was allowed but I agree that it’s totally inappropriate. Was this unusual for them? Or is this not the first time they haven’t understood boundaries? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-this-appropriate#post-2925757 Fri, 10 Dec 2021 18:20:32 +0000 cake2017 2925757@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LemonJack: Yes, every time I think about it I get so mad! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-this-appropriate#post-2925754 Fri, 10 Dec 2021 17:41:55 +0000 LemonJack 2925754@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, no, super inappropriate. I would be upset too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-this-appropriate#post-2925753 Fri, 10 Dec 2021 15:55:16 +0000 cake2017 2925753@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@jhd: You would think?! We haven’t even seen the finish touches and it’s our home :/. I’m glad DH spoke to them and told them we felt this was wrong but they don’t see the “issue”. I feel bad cause it would be better if they would just apologize and understand how we feel but no… unfortunately this is normal on their end. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-this-appropriate#post-2925752 Fri, 10 Dec 2021 15:15:47 +0000 jhd 2925752@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would be very upset by this. I’m sorry. That is not at all appropriate in my mind. I mean I understand they might be excited but would it not be more special for them to wait and let you show them around!? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-this-appropriate#post-2925751 Fri, 10 Dec 2021 14:06:35 +0000 cake2017 2925751@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We just bought a new home. We have not completed any steps for it but my in laws went to the home without us knowing and walked through it. I’m upset about it. DH was too and spoke with them. Am I wrong to be upset…. i feel like they overstepped their boundaries especially on something special. </p>