https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 13 Apr 2026 23:28:05 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101442 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 14:34:30 +0000 Andrea 101442@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: my LO loves older kids. i told DH we should adopt an older kid but he is not into that idea. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101441 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 14:33:09 +0000 chopsuey 101441@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Andrea: My mom asked me when I was around 4. I said no too! haha. I'm the youngest of 3! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101438 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 14:30:02 +0000 heffalump 101438@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: My niece was excited for a sibling. Until her parents got a divorce.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101436 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 14:29:25 +0000 Andrea 101436@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: I think it is funny how adamantly she says no every time. Hahaha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101432 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 14:26:42 +0000 chopsuey 101432@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Andrea: you can't ask your LO if she wants a sibling! :D </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101429 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 14:24:42 +0000 Andrea 101429@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@artbee: yeah, I don't dare hold any babies in front of her! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101428 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 14:18:56 +0000 heffalump 101428@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Andrea: Lol, I have a friend who's 2 year old cries every time she tries to hold my baby. She loves my LO, but only if her mommy's not holding her. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101425 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 14:15:22 +0000 Andrea 101425@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: so lucky! my LO's separation anxiety is so bad.<br /> @artbee: that would so be my daughter. i keep asking her if mommy should have a baby and she says "no!!". </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101423 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 14:08:40 +0000 heffalump 101423@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: I remember watching the baby story or one of those shows where the older brother kept saying, "but you're MY mommy!" after his little brother was born. It was so cute, but kind of heartbreaking for the little boy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101415 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 13:49:15 +0000 chopsuey 101415@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>SO cute!! :) I left my LO with my mom so I could run errands and party plan and girlfriend didn't miss me at all! She has zero separation anxiety. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101399 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 12:58:52 +0000 mrbee 101399@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@artbee: He's not jealous of her at all so far... it's kind of surprising! We're pretty careful not to trigger it though... although I'm sure we'll run into problems with it soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101371 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 11:37:19 +0000 BoogieBea 101371@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@NYCaliMama: yeah, totally cute. I didn't even know he cared about her that much until I saw him do that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101344 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 10:33:32 +0000 heffalump 101344@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>How sweet! Is he ok with you being olive's daddy too!? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101337 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 10:28:38 +0000 SAHM0811 101337@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BoogieBea: lol same deal. She says, "my baby! My baby!" it's cute right! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101334 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 10:21:50 +0000 BoogieBea 101334@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@NYCaliMama: LO does that with his sister too. When I pick him up from day care, other kids would come up to his sister to play with her and he would come in between them to block them. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101326 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 10:15:44 +0000 SAHM0811 101326@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes this happened when she was younger. Now with 2.0 though she tells everyone and anyone who even LOOKS at her sister that she's HER baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101265 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 08:30:35 +0000 Andrea 101265@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, I really can't pay attention to other kids or else the "my mommy" thing starts. The other kids at daycare seem to be the same so I am thinking this is normal at least. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/is-your-lo-possessive-of-mommy-andor-daddy#post-101262 Sun, 25 Mar 2012 08:19:02 +0000 mrbee 101262@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Charlie started telling his grandma today that I was his daddy... or has he eloquently put it, "MY daddy!!"</p> <p>As a joke, I put my arm around Grandma and said that I was *grandma's* daddy. Then Grandma got in on it and told him, "no Charlie, he's *my* daddy!"</p> <p>Haha we were not prepared for his reaction... he started to tear up and almost cried! I held him for a long time to comfort him and then we all headed out for coffee. He was especially loving to me and held my hand for four blocks. I guess he takes this daddy thing pretty seriously!</p> <p>He's starting to get more possessive of his parents lately, telling people that Bee is "my mommy" and that his dad is "my daddy". It's interesting, because he seems to be more emphatic and possessive about us lately.</p> <p>Is your LO possessive of mommy and/or daddy? </p>