https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 29 Apr 2026 09:50:45 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2409142 Mon, 04 Jan 2016 17:34:37 +0000 GoGoSnoGirl 2409142@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We aren't gamers, but my DH often will binge watch Netflix shows &amp; stay up too late or just not sleep well &amp; I get so irritated to hear him complain about how tired he is, so in your situation I would be totally ragey!! Our LO won't usually go (back) down for DH without a lot of crying. So, for everyone's sanity I've been doing all the wake ups unless it's the weekend or vacation &amp; then DH will get up w/ LO when she's up early &amp; he'll let me go back to bed. That has been glorious &amp; keeps me from getting too mad at hubby. I hope you can get some help out of him somehow. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2408535 Mon, 04 Jan 2016 11:40:23 +0000 Alivoo01 2408535@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh man! I'd totally be PO-ed too! *super angry face* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2408532 Mon, 04 Jan 2016 11:39:42 +0000 JenGirl 2408532@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah, I'd be super annoyed. Honestly, more about the complaining than the actual behavior. I still do most of the MOTN wake ups because it's easier for me and I don't mind it too much. But I totally hand him off to my husband if he's not going back to bed after eating. And my husband does all the early mornings when our son is fed and just awake at 6. </p> <p>My husband has been staying up late doing a lot of research for his work lately but he does a good job of not complaining too much. Yesterday we were both tired, so I watched the baby in the morning while he napped and he watched him in the afternoon while I napped! It was awesome! Maybe naps would help for both of you? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2408512 Mon, 04 Jan 2016 11:30:46 +0000 renee0106 2408512@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@snowjewelz: The same thing happens with my DH. He says that even though I'm the one getting up with DS he still doesn't get good sleep because he wakes up every time I get out of the bed. So supposedly he is just as tired as I am. So irritating! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2408503 Mon, 04 Jan 2016 11:28:17 +0000 Applesandbananas 2408503@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Corduroy: our cheapie monitor has lights that go from green to red if sound is detected. It works really well for when I'm exercising and have headphones in! Maybe something like that would help? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2408496 Mon, 04 Jan 2016 11:23:52 +0000 snowjewelz 2408496@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would go crazy too! I used to get so mad when DH is like oh man so tired, she woke up so many times last night. I'd be like yeah, maybe you woke up enough to acknowledge what was happening and went right back to sleep! I was the one actually up with her either nursing/rocking! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2408027 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 21:01:38 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 2408027@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh my gosh that would piss me off so much that I'd never even fall back asleep myself. I get stabby when DH wakes me up to tell me one of them is crying....you hear her first, you take care of it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407984 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 20:15:47 +0000 ShootingStar 2407984@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Corduroy: if you're still in the nursing to sleep stage is make DH get the baby and bring him to you. And possibly put him back down too if he could do it without waking him up. It was always so much harder for me to fall back asleep if I had been moving around too much. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407974 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 20:10:05 +0000 Corduroy 2407974@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ShootingStar: I've tried that many many times. Neither of us can get DS back to sleep with my boobs so it isn't an option. He does deal with LO1 on the rare occasion that she gets up but he can't hear the kids over the games so I have to get up and tell him to deal with her.I'm looking forward to re-sleep training LO2 when the winter illnesses let up.</p> <p>DH does help in the early morning when the baby decides he's up for the day super early but that sets the day up for bitching about being tired </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407973 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 20:10:03 +0000 Mrs. Champagne 2407973@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Corduroy: my DH wasn't allowed to say he was tired for months. He got to sleep through the night while I didn't. I don't care how tired you think you are, you're not!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407958 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 20:00:22 +0000 ShootingStar 2407958@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, am I the only one that would make DH deal with the wake up? That would just so not fly in my house. If DH's up, he can get DS. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407942 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 19:47:04 +0000 littlebug 2407942@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh, girl, I'm SO there with you. Irritates the shit out of me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407862 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 17:55:31 +0000 yellowbird 2407862@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would be so ragey!!!! My Dh stays up late playing video games but I make him take the baby monitor and do feedings if Ds wakes! I don't even care that he complains he's tired the next day! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407854 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 17:37:18 +0000 QueensBee 2407854@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This would definitely make me ragey. And I think it's perfectly rational and reasonable to feel that way! I hope he decides to get some rest tonight! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407707 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 13:53:10 +0000 travelgirl1 2407707@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cherrybee: it drives me bonkers. Especially living with my inlaws now, because DH hasn't been feeling well this last week, his mum is convinced he is exhausted and worn out and not getting enough sleep. Lol. No. He is getting plenty of sleep, just at the wrong time of day :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407600 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 10:07:27 +0000 MrsF 2407600@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh that would make me crazy! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407593 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 10:00:57 +0000 AggieDaze 2407593@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Corduroy: ugh yes! My DH complained about being so tired this morning at 7:45 am when our toddler woke up (he's in charge of the toddler and I'm in charge of the newborn since I'm breastfeeding). Made me want to punch him. 1. I would have killed for a 7:45 am wake up a year ago when I was also handling the toddler, and 2. I'd been up and down all night feeding LO2 and he was complaining about 7:45. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407591 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 09:54:10 +0000 FaithFertility 2407591@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Corduroy: I'd be upset! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407585 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 09:35:19 +0000 travellingbee 2407585@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Corduroy: I don't think your anger is irrational. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407583 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 09:27:41 +0000 HLK208 2407583@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, I would also be ragey!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407561 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 08:01:16 +0000 Keybee 2407561@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That is maddening. I'm sorry! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407553 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 07:06:40 +0000 Applesandbananas 2407553@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Right there with you! Thankfully DS has started STTN a little more but I remember those days very well. Hang in there! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407538 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 03:52:06 +0000 Cherrybee 2407538@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@travelgirl1: That second part would make me rage the most. DH is still in bed now at 9am because he worked really hard yesterday decorating the nursery, building furniture etc and he was only up later than me because he was loading the dishwasher - but I'm still watching the clock and tutting. :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407536 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 03:45:28 +0000 Foodnerd81 2407536@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes! Don't freaking complain that you are tired of you were up playing video games! Im with you. </p> <p>Also when the baby has just eaten an hour ago and I'm really sick and need some rest so I ask him to try to soothe her before j go straight to feeding her- that means you might have to walk and stand up. He just picks her up and brings her back to bed and pats her back- the she cries right next to me in bed so I may as well just feed her now, sick be damned. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407535 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 03:38:42 +0000 travelgirl1 2407535@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We have this exact same issue. It's not video games anymore, right now it is crosswords with his mum, lol. I get sooo mad in tripe morning when he doesn't appear until gone 10am and complains he is tired 😤 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407533 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 03:35:42 +0000 Truth Bombs 2407533@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh that would make me stabby </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407532 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 03:34:21 +0000 AprilFool 2407532@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep that would make me rage. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407527 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 02:49:50 +0000 Cherrybee 2407527@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh yes, I would be furious! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-drives-me-nuts-when-motn-vent#post-2407525 Sun, 03 Jan 2016 02:37:24 +0000 Corduroy 2407525@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I get irrationally angry when I get up with LO in MOTN and DH is up playing video games. Straight up ragey. He can't really help with MOTN wakings anyway since DS will just scream till he gets me but I hate hearing DH bitch that he's tired the next day. He was sooo tired today. So go the f to bed. Nobody is stopping YOU. </p>