https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 21 May 2026 18:53:46 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-feels-real-now#post-740163 Wed, 24 Apr 2013 14:29:06 +0000 Raindrop 740163@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>*hugs* Thank you for sharing. You are in my thoughts. This is a really tough thing go to through because so many things are unknown right now that you can't help but worry. Hopefully the rest of your tests turn out with good news. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-feels-real-now#post-740111 Wed, 24 Apr 2013 14:17:36 +0000 Mrs. Polish 740111@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Big hugs to you. Sometimes dh just doesn't understand. We're all here when you need us. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-feels-real-now#post-740108 Wed, 24 Apr 2013 14:16:13 +0000 Suzimo 740108@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>also sending you hugs. I have found this community to be very supportive and informative. You are not alone and there are many people here going through the exact same thing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-feels-real-now#post-739707 Wed, 24 Apr 2013 12:18:50 +0000 spaniellove 739707@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending you hugs...it can be so hard when you're trying to get answers and each step takes you down a path you weren't prepared for. There are so many wonderful ladies here to support you; I hope you'll ask questions when you have them and most importantly believe that you will see your BFP someday soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-feels-real-now#post-739635 Wed, 24 Apr 2013 12:03:02 +0000 MrsTal 739635@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thanks everyone. I've witnessed how wonderful this community can be and it is so lovely to experience that first hand. I will definitely be posting and asking more questions in the coming days and weeks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-feels-real-now#post-739612 Wed, 24 Apr 2013 11:55:31 +0000 Apex 739612@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've lingered on this page for a bit trying to think of the right words of encouragement for you.....and i really have none. I do however know how you are feeling. Just keep believing that it would happen, you would get your BFP soon honey. There's always a light at the end of the tunnel. *hugs* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-feels-real-now#post-739608 Wed, 24 Apr 2013 11:53:06 +0000 Shutterbug 739608@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsTal: hugs to you!! This is a great community, and there are a lot of us going through similar things. I'm seeing an RE, just had my tubes checked last month, so I understand how hard it can be to feel like it's not following the path you imagined. We're all here for you, and I encourage you to ask questions and participate here because TTC and IF are really isolating, and we can be your support :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-feels-real-now#post-739576 Wed, 24 Apr 2013 11:40:42 +0000 mrsjyw 739576@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>huggs!!! i have no advice, but wanted to send my thoughts your way and that you get some positive news from the specialist. we are always here with support and an ear to listen to venting!!! HUGGGS </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/it-feels-real-now#post-739567 Wed, 24 Apr 2013 11:38:41 +0000 MrsTal 739567@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>A little backstory, DH and I have been NTNP since last spring, we started getting more serious about TTC in the fall, OPKs, fertility awareness etc. I've lurked on this site forever but finally need to just let it all out.</p> <p> A few weeks ago I mentioned all this at my annual gyno visit and my doctor started testing right away. Today I had an ultrasound and follow up with my doctor about the results of the US and the blood work he had done. The doctor said everything looked normal minus a couple of small cysts on my left ovary. He said that given my history of PID, he is worried about my tubes and is referring me to a reproductive specialist. This news hit me like a ton of bricks. I think that I was sort of in denial before, and it was easy to feel like it could be just a small thing and ignore the nagging thoughts in the back of my mind that my pelvic infections caused irreversible scarring when I was younger. I'm not really sure what to do, my poor DH can't understand that no news doesn't feel like good news to me in this case. I've just been crying off and on for the last few hours and just needed to vent where someone might understand. </p>