https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 28 Apr 2026 03:30:19 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2252743 Sun, 02 Aug 2015 21:42:21 +0000 LovelyPlum 2252743@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry :sad: Mine were natural, so I am not much help. But I wish you healing and peace.</p> <p>@Pirouette: oh no, you, too?? Hugs, Mama :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2252737 Sun, 02 Aug 2015 21:30:18 +0000 Pirouette 2252737@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh I'm so sorry. We haven't ttc since my mc so I have no advice on that, but I just wanted to say I know how much it sucks and I'm sorry you had to join this club :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2252652 Sun, 02 Aug 2015 18:21:58 +0000 Modern Daisy 2252652@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss :heart: I had a mc in Feb, but it was a surprise pregnancy so we were never actually trying, and still haven't started. Don't feel frustrated for telling people about it too soon, you were allowed to be excited and are now allowed to mourn/heal. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2252612 Sun, 02 Aug 2015 16:38:33 +0000 mamabolt 2252612@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. I was able to get pregnant again about 4 months after D&amp;C. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2252599 Sun, 02 Aug 2015 16:02:53 +0000 FliegepilzHut 2252599@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JoJoGirl: So sorry for your loss. :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2252550 Sun, 02 Aug 2015 14:44:16 +0000 QBbride 2252550@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JoJoGirl: I'm so sorry, how completely devastating :crying: I had an early (natural) m/c but I got pregnant again right away (O'd about 3 weeks later). Fingers crossed you get pregnant quickly when you are ready. Hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2252526 Sun, 02 Aug 2015 14:01:10 +0000 JoJoGirl 2252526@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you all. I'm just pissed now. This sucks. Appreciate the support although i still can't wrap my mind around the fact that i've read so many m/c support threads in my years on HB and this one is directed at me :-/ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251564 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 19:53:45 +0000 ElbieKay 2251564@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm really sorry for your loss.</p> <p>I got pregnant (on the second try) at 35.5 and it was a missed miscarriage. Took a couple of months to get my cycle back, then I got pregnant with my son on the fourth cycle, a couple of months after my 36th birthday. However, I am pretty sure that Cycle 2.2 was a chemical pregnancy since there was a faint line. And I was really sick during Cycle 2.3 so we did not DTD.</p> <p>So, a total of five actual tries right around age 36 resulted in two non-sticky pregnancies and one toddler. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251554 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 19:41:41 +0000 travelgirl1 2251554@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JoJoGirl: I'm so sorry :heart: It took me four cycles (and one where we didn't try directly after the loss) to get pregnant again after a natural miscarriage. I do know a lot of people who conceived straight away though. Hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251544 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 19:16:15 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2251544@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs.Someone: I know :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251542 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 19:16:03 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2251542@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JoJoGirl: I am so sorry. It just sucks and people can't just seem to say that sometimes. There was no found medical reasons for mine. </p> <p>The first time it took a good 6-8 months to get regular and get another positive. After that loss I got a positive right away and it was my sticky baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251530 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 18:53:32 +0000 maybebaby 2251530@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am crushed to hear this. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Sending so much love. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251525 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 18:42:56 +0000 Mrs.Someone 2251525@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The club is already too full, I don't want anyone else to join :(. Sorry for your loss... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251523 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 18:41:06 +0000 Eko 2251523@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry to hear this. :heart: I had a miscarriage and my cycle started back about a month later. But I was not emotionally ready to ttc until 9 months later. I got pregnant right away but had a second miscarriage. Three months after I got pregnant with my son. No one ever said those words to me but if they did I would want to punch them out too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251516 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 18:27:38 +0000 jaguar 2251516@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JoJoGirl: Sending you lots of hugs and healing wishes. I'm so sorry for your loss. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251505 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 18:15:14 +0000 mrsjyw 2251505@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251500 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 18:09:52 +0000 yin 2251500@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry for your loss. It took me 9 months to be ready to TTC, and I got pregnant right away. It was difficult for me, and I grieved for a long time. *big hugs* </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251490 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 17:40:11 +0000 Tidybee 2251490@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry for your loss. That image and the horror I felt seeing our tiny baby with no heartbeat is forever seared into my mind. I'm sorry you had to experience it as well.<br /> I got pregnant the next cycle but it ended in a cp. I took the next month off to give my body a chance to heal and then we got pregnant the next month. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251487 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 17:34:40 +0000 Torchwood 2251487@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. Lots of hugs. For what it's worth, I got pregnant the first month trying after my first miscarriage, and second month trying after my second. I'm sure you've had offers, but if you need to talk, done hesitate to wall me. Take care of yourself. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251482 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 17:28:19 +0000 NovBaby1112 2251482@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1/page/2#post-2251472 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 16:58:39 +0000 Nutella 2251472@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JoJoGirl: I'm so sad to hear this - hugs to you. :heart:<br /> I'm going through the exact thing, had 8w scan on Friday but baby was measuring 6.5w with no HB. Still haven't confirmed next steps as I needed some time to think. A friend did say to me that March 11 will never be the same again :crying: </p> <p>I also hope it won't take too long after this to conceive a healthy baby - but I can't even think that far right now. Sorry this probably doesn't even help but at least know you're not alone. Xx </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1#post-2251398 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 15:24:02 +0000 Freckles 2251398@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1#post-2251395 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 15:21:26 +0000 AprilFool 2251395@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry for your loss. I had a loss in May but we haven't started ttc again yet. Even if there was a reason, it doesn't change the hurt and devastation. Take care of yourself :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1#post-2251390 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 15:14:16 +0000 jh524 2251390@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JoJoGirl: so sorry! :sad: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1#post-2251373 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 14:43:31 +0000 Ash 2251373@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh I'm so sorry!<br /> It took us 6 months but 4 months of actively trying. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1#post-2251371 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 14:43:22 +0000 Keybee 2251371@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. Take it easy for the next few weeks!<br /> I once lost a baby in December and was pregnant again at the beginning of April. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1#post-2251365 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 14:37:10 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 2251365@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1#post-2251364 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 14:34:50 +0000 Maysprout 2251364@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1#post-2251360 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 14:29:36 +0000 MamaCate 2251360@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@JoJoGirl: I am so so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately there are a lot of us in this club--sending prayers your way and good luck with the d&amp;c. :heart: </p> <p>It took me a year after my miscarriage to conceive again but I know that is longer than the norm. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/joining-the-club-1#post-2251359 Fri, 31 Jul 2015 14:29:23 +0000 Anya 2251359@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss. I too was able to go on to have a healthy pregnancy soon after my loss. I hope you will be able to conceive again quickly, and there's a good chance you will. And no it didn't happen for a reason, it just happened. and it sucks. i remember the phlebotomist telling me it wasn't meant to be and that really pissed me off. Hugs :heart: I hope your D&amp;C goes smoothly on wednesday. </p>