https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 20 May 2026 05:23:20 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/judging-at-daycare#post-2426508 Mon, 18 Jan 2016 17:06:16 +0000 pinkcupcake 2426508@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This happened to me all the time in Korea. Didn't matter if I had her bundled up completely - the older Korean women always had something to say. It got old, quick. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/judging-at-daycare#post-2426434 Mon, 18 Jan 2016 16:25:04 +0000 blackbird 2426434@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think judging would've been directed towards you: "why didn't you put a coat on her! It's cold!" versus at your child. Mine wouldn't put her warmer coat on today, and insisted on a hoodie ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/judging-at-daycare#post-2426425 Mon, 18 Jan 2016 16:16:58 +0000 BadgerMom 2426425@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@yoursilverlining: That was my first thought too :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/judging-at-daycare#post-2426400 Mon, 18 Jan 2016 15:55:34 +0000 yoursilverlining 2426400@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Maybe she wasn't judging you, but instead thought your LO probably refused to put on her coat? You know how sometimes when mom says do something (like put on your coat, it's cold outside) it's a huge fight, but if a teacher or someone else suggests it, it's the best idea ever? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/judging-at-daycare#post-2426387 Mon, 18 Jan 2016 15:49:55 +0000 gingerbebe 2426387@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's not that cold here but it rains a lot and my mom keeps asking if I've used the giant puffer coat she bought DS for Christmas. No. Nor the raincoat and rain boots. Instead I keep a big hooded towel in the back of the car and wrap DS like a burrito for the walk in from the car to wherever we are going. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/judging-at-daycare#post-2426381 Mon, 18 Jan 2016 15:46:33 +0000 mediagirl 2426381@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Caly: hahaha. So perfect!<br /> @BandDmommy: I know. And the thing is, my kid doesn't complain that she is cold! If she's cold, she will tell me. 15 seconds outside in 30-40 degree weather is not going to freeze her fingertips off. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/judging-at-daycare#post-2426378 Mon, 18 Jan 2016 15:44:24 +0000 BandDmommy 2426378@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mediagirl: This is such an internal battle of mine. They can't wear coats in the car seat and the walk into daycare is so short. Do I really need to put a coat on for 30 seconds? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/judging-at-daycare#post-2426375 Mon, 18 Jan 2016 15:43:54 +0000 Mommy Finger 2426375@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My mom does stuff like to me all of the time. She doesn't understand the whole no puffy coats in the car thing and has made comments about it to me. I've learned to just ignore her.</p> <p>For instance, she helped me out by picking up the boys from daycare awhile ago. DS2 is still in an infant carrier and I have one of those shower cap style covers. It's plenty warm and it was almost 50 out. She still asked his teachers if I had brought a snowsuit for him. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/judging-at-daycare#post-2426362 Mon, 18 Jan 2016 15:37:18 +0000 Caly 2426362@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Reminded me of this. Heh. </p> [attach=3358/16/o161a6.600x600.FB_IMG_1453149399311.jpg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/judging-at-daycare#post-2426186 Mon, 18 Jan 2016 14:26:04 +0000 Finfan 2426186@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not at daycare but someone did that to me at the grocery store yesterday. She would have been standing out longer in the cold than it took me to carry her in. She's old enough to walk but I carried her because it was icy and I wanted her in the building ASAP. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/judging-at-daycare#post-2426177 Mon, 18 Jan 2016 14:23:22 +0000 mediagirl 2426177@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I got judged the other day at daycare. It was in the 30's and my daughter didn't have her coat on. We walk about 10 feet from the car to the door and she has a puffy coat so she can't wear it in the seat. We got into the building and a teacher said, "Oh! Why aren't you wearing a coat? It is so COLD outside!" And then she walked away. Hrmph. </p> <p>Have you judged or been judged at your childcare center? </p>