https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 07 Apr 2026 06:24:58 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-a-vent-1#post-2313634 Thu, 08 Oct 2015 12:09:38 +0000 Raindrop 2313634@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Argh again sorry this is happening to you! I would also have major trust issues with that person. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-a-vent-1#post-2313222 Thu, 08 Oct 2015 05:28:47 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2313222@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BabyMats: the fall down the ramp is the second lie and time to go to the director IMO. Does your center have cameras that you can request to see videos of specific days? Who else besides the teacher and your SIL are watching the children? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-a-vent-1#post-2313218 Thu, 08 Oct 2015 04:52:36 +0000 catomd00 2313218@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BabyMats: ugh I would have a real issue with the multiple fabricated stories. That's very concerning. If you're going to lie about how he got a scratch or him pooping his pants, what else are you going to lie about?! Lying is a serious character flaw and I would be talking to the director about it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-a-vent-1#post-2313117 Wed, 07 Oct 2015 21:09:41 +0000 BabyMats 2313117@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Raindrop: @catomd00: @lisa1783: @regberadaisy: I didnt believe her because she told me before that my son pooped in his pants and went down the slide and got it everywhere..totally embarrased and whe i spoke with SIL she said it didnt happen and that the teacher lied and she has no idea why she felt the need to lie so when the story was told it just sounded like another lie. The part that kakes me mad and why i just needed to vent is my SIL said that the head teacher wasnt there and didnt see anything and i asked her 3 times this morning if she was there and if she saw him fall and scratch his face and she said she was right there and saw him scratch his face<br /> Sorry on my phone and i suck at typing on here. There was that background story that she just makes up stories. I honestly didnt believe my son and when i text SIL and she called me back to explain that he did get pushed and she didnt think that caused this scratch but what we were told was a lie. That is where i was like huh? So when i did tlak to the teacher this morning about what happened i wanted more clarification she still said she saw it happen. So thats all. I just really needed to vent that this teacher lies about dumb things. Thats all. Thank you guys for reading ny nonsense vent </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-a-vent-1#post-2313029 Wed, 07 Oct 2015 19:30:11 +0000 regberadaisy 2313029@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sorry your son got hurt! If you're not satisfied I would ask his teacher for more clarification. But I definitely wouldn't 100% trust your sons version either. After all they are just kids and events get mixed up all the time.</p> <p>My 3.5 yr old daughter has a crazy memory for things but half the time she gets the timing wrong and can't remember what she had for lunch! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-a-vent-1#post-2313024 Wed, 07 Oct 2015 19:27:07 +0000 lisa1783 2313024@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry your son has the scratch but glad it's just a scratch and he's OK. Just wondering why you initially didn't believe the teachers story - even before you called your SIL?</p> <p>My son is 3 and he still sometimes gets confused when certain things happen. Sometimes he'll say he went swimming that day when he only goes swimming on Fridays. Kids get confused easily because they don't really understand the concept of time. It's possible he was thinking back to another incident of being pushed? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-a-vent-1#post-2312999 Wed, 07 Oct 2015 19:08:13 +0000 catomd00 2312999@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's really upsetting. Do you think it's possible the teacher was there when he got the scratch, Though? And your son is remembering a different incident when being pushed? I def think you did the right thing not throwing your sil under the bus here, but I'd keep an eye out for other indiscretions. It really sucks when you feel you can't trust the people who watch your kids! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-a-vent-1#post-2312991 Wed, 07 Oct 2015 18:58:12 +0000 Raindrop 2312991@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sorry you are upset! *big hugs*</p> <p>I don’t want to upset you more… but your SIL did say he didn’t get the scratch from falling down when the boy pushed him… maybe the head teacher did see him fall down a ramp where he actually did get his scratch? I mean that’s possible. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-a-vent-1#post-2312985 Wed, 07 Oct 2015 18:53:08 +0000 BabyMats 2312985@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So my MIL picks my son up from pre- school and my son had hurt himself he has a big scratch across his cheek ( he is fine) the head teacher told my MIL that he was walking down a ramp and fell stood up and the just faceplanted and hurt his cheek. It just sounded like a bunch of bs and my 2 yr old is barely starting to really talk where you can under stand most of his speech. So we were talking about it last night and i asked him how he really fell and he said a boy (said the boy's name) pushed him and he fell. So i text my SIL,who is an assistant how he really fell because he said a boy pushed him. So she called me and told me that all the boys in the class were being rough and this boy did push my son but that he didnt get the scratch but they really dont know how he got the scratch and the head teacher wasn't even there so she doesnt know why the head teacher made up a lie. Which made me mad. I understand that my son is going to fall and hurt himself and he is fine im over that. The part that pisses me off is she made up a dumb story as to how he got the scratch. So today when i drop my son off i give her the opportunity to tell me the story but told herthat my son said this boy pushed him. I asked her if she was there and if she saw him fall and scratch his face and she straight lied to my face that she was right there and saw him fall and scratch his face. I was pissed but couldnt throw my SIL under the bus because it is her superior and i just dont want it to be uncomfortable for her but I cant believe she straight up no flinching lied to me. She knows that when i left i didnt believe her story and that my son is coming home telling me whats going on at school.</p> <p>Ok..thanks for reading i just had to get it off my chest. It pissed me off and I have to vent if anything like that happens again im going to the director </p>