https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 22 May 2026 09:31:32 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-one-of-those-nights#post-274194 Wed, 29 Aug 2012 01:22:33 +0000 luckypenny 274194@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HeatherlovesKenny: DD is 4 months old. I really try not to let physical appearance get to me but when you mess with a girls hair! Lol :) </p> <p>@mrsmenow: yup. Nothing like a good cry alone to make things better</p> <p>Update: sex life a little better as of 5 minutes ago :) hehe </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-one-of-those-nights#post-274184 Wed, 29 Aug 2012 00:11:07 +0000 mrsmenow 274184@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Girl go an cry and keep talking about it! We all go through these things. DD #1 was in the NICU so I didn't really have time to think about my emotions. With #2 I felt like I was going crazy-I would get frustrated, cry because I loved my new baby so much, cry because I changed DD #1's life so much, cry because I was overwhelmed. The best thing you can do is take time for your self, a few minutes here and there to regain some sanity and keep talking about all the emotions you are feeling. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-one-of-those-nights#post-274183 Wed, 29 Aug 2012 00:01:21 +0000 HLK208 274183@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry :( all of it is hard! I feel so similar sometimes and burdened by negative aspects of life post baby--we all go through it after becoming mothers, some more than others. It's okay to cry! I do at least 3x a week and I know it's hormone related. Luckily, the tears are slowing down so I know I'm getting better. How many weeks/months pp are you? Also, most of that will improve: your hair, sex life and LO's sleep...it's all temporary! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/just-one-of-those-nights#post-274179 Tue, 28 Aug 2012 23:47:15 +0000 luckypenny 274179@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>When all you want to do is get in te shower and cry...</p> <p>Who knows. maybe it's because it took my perfect little sleeper 1 hour to be put down tonight, or the raging migraine I've had for two days, or that hat I put on 70 lbs during pregnancy and still have 30 to loose and its definitely that all of my hair is falling out leaving me with a receding hairline and bald spots like an old man. And to top it off when I used to be able to "finish" like 100x during sex with my husband, I'm lucky if I can once because I am definitely not as sensitive. </p> <p>And for some reason all of those things got to me at exactly the same time and despite DH's best efforts I walked into the bathroom, took a hot shower and cried. I feel much better but sometimes this postpartum stuff just sucks.. </p>