https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 27 Apr 2026 11:00:14 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170908 Mon, 28 May 2012 09:46:43 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 170908@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think my husband is a better husband because he feels more secure in our relationship. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170899 Mon, 28 May 2012 09:33:57 +0000 leelee 170899@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH was a good boyfriend but he is definitely a better hubby. I can't wait for LO to arrive because I know he'll be an even better father. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170893 Mon, 28 May 2012 09:14:20 +0000 Minnie_Girl 170893@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He was a wonderful boyfriend and is a wonderful husband. Naturally the relationship gets deeper, stronger, and better as time goes on! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170852 Mon, 28 May 2012 08:04:59 +0000 mrsjyw 170852@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He swept me off my feet, id def say he's a better husband. More considerate, thoughtful, selfless, etc. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170380 Sun, 27 May 2012 09:05:05 +0000 heffalump 170380@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He's great at both! He was an awesome bf because he was such a gentleman. He would always open doors for me, etc. But now his hands are full with LO, all of her crap, or the pup, so he can't do that. But that's because he's too busy being an awesome daddy and husband! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170354 Sun, 27 May 2012 08:20:02 +0000 mrs. bird 170354@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH wasn't the best boyfriend, but he's a great husband! I feel like boyfriends are supposed to be good at the little stuff- romantic dates, gifts, etc and husbands need to be better with the big stuff like making responsible choices that put the family first, supporting their wives through big things like starting a family/illness/the death of loved ones. DH isn't the best at little romantic gestures, but he is a hell of a man for all the grown up and best friend stuff that he is awesome at! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170345 Sun, 27 May 2012 07:43:42 +0000 Rubies 170345@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hubs was a better boyfriend...But that's not to say he isn't a wonderful husband, too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170335 Sun, 27 May 2012 07:06:41 +0000 oliviaoblivia 170335@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Going to be in the minority here.....DH was a bit better at being a boyfriend. Eep! He's a wonderful husband and I've truly lucked out with him, but when we were dating he was super romantic all the time and brought me flowers at least once a week, now he's in a more comfortable routine. To be honest, I think I just miss getting flowers all the time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170324 Sun, 27 May 2012 06:32:52 +0000 chopsuey 170324@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We didn't date long, but he's definitely a better husband. He's an incredible appa too :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170319 Sun, 27 May 2012 05:28:06 +0000 Andrea 170319@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Husband! It doesn't even really compare ... especially now that I think of him as a dad. He is a great dad. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170301 Sun, 27 May 2012 04:55:39 +0000 mediagirl 170301@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He was an amazing boyfriend and things just got better when he became my husband. I really couldn't ask for a better one. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170276 Sun, 27 May 2012 00:49:53 +0000 lilteacherbee 170276@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He's definitely a better husband. In my head, pretty much nothing changed when we got married- I loved him as much as I always had, but I had a new last name and it was "official." To him, many things changed. It was like a lightbulb went off in his head and he was ready to be a man instead of a "college boy" (we got married at 21/22). With that said, he's been an amazing husband! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170265 Sun, 27 May 2012 00:20:41 +0000 HLK208 170265@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH wasn't the best boyfriend at first. He was kind of immature and didn't know how to be affectionate. After a year of training (...ahem, I mean...dating) he lost a lot his boyish tendencies that I didn't care for. He was a little bit of a bad boy at first...but a few years went by and he really started to grow up. I was more attracted to him went I saw his responsible side. He was great then, better as a fiancé and is amazing as a husband.</p> <p>I always think of that Tim McGraw song, "I may be a real bad boy but baby I'm a real good man" when looking back on our relationship, lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170258 Sun, 27 May 2012 00:06:13 +0000 Mrs. Superhero 170258@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: what about Mrs Bee?</p> <p>He's a better husband than boyfriend. And he's a better husband than he first was. Because, we just keep getting better! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170253 Sun, 27 May 2012 00:01:54 +0000 PrincessBaby 170253@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH was a pretty phenomenal boyfriend, but I actually get a little emotional thinking about what an amazing husband he's been - so I'll go with better as a husband! And thinking about him being a Dad just totally gets me teary-eyed! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170248 Sat, 26 May 2012 23:55:57 +0000 cyndistar3 170248@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He is definitely a better husband! Things are so much better being married :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/ladies-was-your-so-a-better-boyfriend-or-a-better-husbandso#post-170206 Sat, 26 May 2012 23:06:02 +0000 mrbee 170206@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm always curious how relationships evolve over time.</p> <p>Ladies: was your SO a better boyfriend or a better husband/SO? Gentlemen (if you're out there): was your SO a better gf or a better wife/SO? </p>