https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 12 May 2026 12:42:14 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880793 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 17:51:24 +0000 birdofafeather 880793@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not sure how far your parents live but if they're close I'd ask them to come to you just to save on dragging everything over. That being said, R sleeps the same at all grandparents house and sometimes better there! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880517 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 15:44:11 +0000 heffalump 880517@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it just depends on your LO. My LO has never napped or slept well in different places. Plus it's just easier since we have everything she will ever need here. What if he gets a high fever in the middle of the night? Do they have children's tylenol on hand? I know that you would bring a lot of that stuff to them, but you just never know what they will need. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880472 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 15:29:25 +0000 katsupgirl 880472@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: the only reason I'd say have them come is to save schlepping stuff. Other than that I think your LO will be fine at their place. I worry about forgetting stuff all the time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880455 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 15:24:46 +0000 Anagram 880455@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: my SIL and her husband left their son with my inlaws at about 6 months for a week long vacation. I don't know how his sleep was, but my DH claims that week without the parents is why he and his nephew are SO bonded, and they are really, really close for an uncle/nephew relationship. To clarify, DH spent that week w his parents to help with his nephew, </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880047 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:34:26 +0000 Adira 880047@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@plantains: Now that multiple people have said it, I'm totally going to forget the sound machine!</p> <p>@chopsuey119: Oh, that's true. I think I read that separation anxiety starts around 9 months, so at 4 months, he presumably won't be freaking out that I'm not there. At least I hope. Sort of... :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880033 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:30:37 +0000 chopsuey 880033@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: Will let you know how it goes! I don't think babies start having stranger/separation anxiety until a little later, so hopefully X will be okay!!<br /> If it makes you more comfortable, I would ask and see if they're willing to stay at your place? The worst thing they can say is no! :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880030 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:29:34 +0000 Dandelion 880030@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think he'll be ok anywhere. Babies are super portable. Your inlaws will be more comfortable in their own place, which will roll over to X being more comfortable. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880028 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:28:57 +0000 plantains 880028@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think he will be fine, just bring his stuff and especially sound machine. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880020 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:28:13 +0000 Smurfette 880020@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: LOL!! I was talking to R the other night and I said you love Mommy the most right? DH was like Nope, Daddy. I said No, Mom's got the milk jugs I win! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880017 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:27:35 +0000 luckypenny 880017@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>At 4 months I'd say he's still young enough that he should do okay anywhere :) I'd ask what's more convenient for them </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880010 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:26:23 +0000 Adira 880010@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Smurfette: haha, oh right, I keep forgetting he's so easy. :P You're right - it will probably be fine! Though I keep hoping he'll be fussy for other people so I can know for sure that he loves me the most. :P </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880005 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:23:16 +0000 Smurfette 880005@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: I was going to suggest having him sleep in it before then, so you will feel better knowing how he will do. Since you have easy baby, I am sure it will be no problem. Now I am sure when we try and get R to sleep in hers, that will be another story :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-880000 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:21:50 +0000 Adira 880000@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Smurfette: He's napped in our PnP before, but never slept in it overnight, though we are spending the night at these grandparents' house in a couple weeks, so he'll sleep in it then (with us in the room), so I'll get to see how he does. Hopefully he does fine sleeping there and that will probably make me feel more comfortable about leaving him for a weekend! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-879994 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:19:41 +0000 Smurfette 879994@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would think he would be fine. Has he slept in the PnP before at all? I would bring whatever sound machine, etc he uses for sleep at home. Just ask them to follow the same routine/schedule. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-879989 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:17:36 +0000 Adira 879989@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: Yes! Let me know how it goes! Our wedding is the last weekend in July, so I'll be curious how your LO handles it! Though, you'll be there with your LO, right? So he'll have something familiar (parents), right? Xander will be in a new place without even us, so I'm nervous about it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-879986 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:16:12 +0000 Adira 879986@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@yoursilverlining: Thanks for your insight!! I'm glad to hear that it worked out just fine for your LO! Hopefully the same is true for Xander! There's just so much stuff I'm going to have to remember to bring! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-879981 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:14:57 +0000 chopsuey 879981@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: we're taking the kids to Texas in July and I asked my MIL to give DS the darkest room she has available! He's used to napping and sleeping in semi darkness so I'm guessing as long as the room's dark he'll be okay! He sleeps in a pnp at home and he'll sleep in one at my inlaws' place too. I'm taking his sound machine with us because we have it running in his room for naps and bedtime.</p> <p>DS will be almost 7 months when we go. If your wedding's at the end of July I'll let you know how DS did!<br /> We'll be traveling 7/9-13 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-879978 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:14:28 +0000 Modern Daisy 879978@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm most likely going to leave future LO with my parents at their house for the weekend when he is 6 months old. They aren't willing to come up and stay in our apartment so it's my only option if I want care for the weekend. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-879977 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:13:57 +0000 yoursilverlining 879977@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We left our LO with my parents overnight at 3 months and she was totally fine at their place. She actually napped pretty well for them because they basically held her the entire time and snuggled and loved on her. I brought over some of her favorite things: favorite bouncy chair type device, some toys and books and plenty of clothes, diapers/wipes. </p> <p>Everyone had a blast! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-879974 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:12:57 +0000 aprk 879974@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would think he'd be ok. Andy has slept in a hotel before and had no trouble. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-879968 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:11:36 +0000 Adira 879968@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: Oh, you think since he's so young, he'll probably be fine? I'm just worried because I've never done it before! I was thinking he just might sleep better in a familiar environment. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-879962 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:09:41 +0000 chopsuey 879962@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No advice since I've never left my kids at someone else's house overnight..<br /> But since X is so young, I don't see why he wouldn't do well at your inlaws' place. As long as they have him sleep in a similar environment that you have for him at home? (dark, sounds, etc). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-879961 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:09:08 +0000 looch 879961@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd let them decide, but be clear on what you're offering to bring to their home (obviously not the entire kit and kaboodle). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/leaving-4-month-old-at-grandparents-for-a-weekend#post-879932 Mon, 24 Jun 2013 13:02:13 +0000 Adira 879932@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hubs and I are attending a wedding in July when Xander will be 4 months old. We're already asked my FIL and SMIL to babysit for that weekend and they are SUPER excited about it. I had always planned on bringing Xander to them for the weekend, but everything I read suggests bringing THEM to our house.</p> <p>So... I guess my question is... should I try to insist that they come stay at our house for the weekend? Or will Xander be fine spending the weekend (Friday-Sunday) away from home and us? </p>