https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 07 Apr 2026 14:41:29 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time/page/2#post-2210344 Tue, 16 Jun 2015 15:40:15 +0000 stiletto_mom 2210344@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We've been together 14 years.</p> <p>As teens, both of our libidoes were CRAZY. I make no joke when I say that our sessions lasted all day, only stopping to eat or go to the bathroom. We'd climax multiple times a day. I'd go to his house at 10am and leave around 10pm. And we'd even "do it" in public on the way home. (hidden from view). It was insane the amount of drive we had.</p> <p>As we got older, it definitely whittled down. I can definitely attribute this to the stabilization of hormones.</p> <p>Now we dtd averaging three times a week. An average session lasts about 30minutes (including foreplay but not including after-cuddles). </p> <p>We can't do multiple consecutive sessions anymore. At most we'll dtd twice in one day (one in the morning, one at night) but that is rare. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time/page/2#post-1594786 Sat, 26 Apr 2014 14:09:33 +0000 dc yoga bee 1594786@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Leialou: @FaithFertility: I've always just not been a fan. And dh could do it every single day of the week!! Although when I do yoga regularly I have a higher libido. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time/page/2#post-1594777 Sat, 26 Apr 2014 13:58:56 +0000 FaithFertility 1594777@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@dc yoga bee: TTC sex does suck, has ir made you hate swx or arw you just not a fan? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time/page/2#post-1594674 Sat, 26 Apr 2014 12:57:05 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 1594674@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@dc yoga bee: you hate sex?!? :shocked: I agree that TTC sex sucks. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time/page/2#post-1594665 Sat, 26 Apr 2014 12:52:13 +0000 dc yoga bee 1594665@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hate sex! :shocked: There I said it. And all this ttc sex sucks!!! That being said even our usual 8-15min is too long! I'd be happier with 1-7! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time/page/2#post-1594583 Sat, 26 Apr 2014 11:48:20 +0000 FaithFertility 1594583@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It differs, but our nornal DTD from start to finish os about 30mons with 10 mins of that foreplay....<br /> Can I add this makes me sad :/ ...lol<br /> Ever since we found out we are expecting DH will not DTD he is afraid it was sweet at first but, 2 weeks later I'm dying. ......lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time/page/2#post-1594520 Sat, 26 Apr 2014 10:53:42 +0000 TheReelDeal 1594520@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can't physically go longer than 15 minutes, and I'm ok with that. Sometimes hubs will try to go longer but it just won't happen. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1594515 Sat, 26 Apr 2014 10:41:06 +0000 .twist. 1594515@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I voted start to finish and I have no complaints with our time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1594493 Sat, 26 Apr 2014 10:26:55 +0000 Crisark 1594493@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Start to finish (foreplay to p in v) I voted 30 to 60 min. 3/4 is foreplay. And I have no complaints. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1591321 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 21:50:01 +0000 Happygal 1591321@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The p in v comments are cracking me up! I honestly don't know. We've had lots of quickies during fertile windows. I'm going to keep an eye on the time next time! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1591130 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 20:51:49 +0000 DillonLion 1591130@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No idea! For actual p in v time, the shorter the better lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1591102 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 20:44:02 +0000 charmed 1591102@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd say about 20-30 minutes - and probably 2/3 of that time is foreplay. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1590292 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 17:08:23 +0000 littleredhairedgrl 1590292@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I voted including foreplay 30 min to an hour. gosh I miss sex! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1590284 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 17:04:21 +0000 coopsmama 1590284@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I voted 16-30 minutes but that's definitely not all tab a, slot b time...ouch! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589935 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 15:19:25 +0000 birdofafeather 1589935@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babyjmama: holy mackerel! we don't have time for that! get it girl!</p> <p>i voted start to finish. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589818 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 14:46:30 +0000 IRunForFun 1589818@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I voted based on start (clothes off) to finish and voted in the 16 to 30 minute range, but I'm sure it's closer to 16 than 30. Maybe 20? As long as I get mine, I'm good with that length of time. Much longer than 30 minutes and I'd get bored. And sore. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589736 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 14:28:48 +0000 keepcalmcarrie 1589736@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I know it's supposed to be fun and romantic, but when we've gone out to dinner and had a few drinks it takes longer for him to finish... and when it takes any longer than, like, 30 minutes, I am over it! It's usually about 15 minutes, start to finish. I'm happy with that! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589731 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 14:28:05 +0000 sarac 1589731@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I voted in terms of actual p in v. Start to finish is more like 30 to 45. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589728 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 14:26:33 +0000 mediagirl 1589728@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I've never actually timed it ... haha! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589717 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 14:23:24 +0000 simplyfelicity 1589717@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pui: Same here! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589578 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 13:45:42 +0000 Mrs.Someone 1589578@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm guessing they are counting actual intercourse, so I voted based on that! I'm good with the time it takes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589548 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 13:38:24 +0000 pui 1589548@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd say most of the time we have "quickies" that last less than 15 minutes. On weekends when we have more time it probably could go up to 45-50 minutes. No complaints here! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589521 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 13:32:24 +0000 Running Elley 1589521@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>20-40ish minutes for us I think? Start to finish. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589503 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 13:27:53 +0000 Fronkinzankinsbride 1589503@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think they are including "foreplay" or lack there of in the average total. </p> <p> If not then I guess we have sexy time for 0 minutes. ;)</p> <p>I voted 16-30. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589471 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 13:21:08 +0000 spaniellove 1589471@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Okay, I voted from clothes coming off to finish. No complaints! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589451 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 13:17:01 +0000 Mrs. Sunshine 1589451@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BakerBee: me too! We would have to stop for sure...I wouldn't make it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589440 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 13:15:33 +0000 LBee 1589440@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babyjmama: Get it, girl! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589431 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 13:13:59 +0000 LAZB 1589431@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm trying to find the article now, not sure about how it is defined </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589429 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 13:13:24 +0000 doodlepoodle 1589429@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BakerBee: well we kind of...uh...make it last. Wink-wink...?? We have foreplay then DTD, more foreplay and a make out sesh, DTD so I guess I can't time it but we had a quickie (we did time it-8min) last weekend and we were both sorely disappointed!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/length-of-sexy-time#post-1589424 Thu, 24 Apr 2014 13:12:37 +0000 HLK208 1589424@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@babyjmama: whaaaat? 1-2 hours?! Ouch.</p> <p>Um, it's about 10 minutes.</p> <p>Start to finish? 30. </p>