https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 09 Jul 2026 10:55:51 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-158794 Tue, 15 May 2012 09:14:10 +0000 Nskillet 158794@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@His Barista: this is what I'm talkin about! I'm into the electronic age myself and have been wondering when to try again.</p> <p>I agree, everyone is amazed by my speedy recovery I'm 2 weeks post section and never have had problems lifting my baby, have been very active, and stopped pain meds as soon as my spinal headache went away! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-158723 Tue, 15 May 2012 08:05:17 +0000 LivsMama 158723@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Nskillet: Yep, he definitely noticed a difference. It wasnt all that pleasant for him either lol. And we used lube. It HURT. Im glad your section was a piece of cake too! I sometimes feel weird about describing it like that, but really, thats how it was. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-158668 Tue, 15 May 2012 05:50:29 +0000 His Barista 158668@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It didn't hurt but my lady bits felt tingly and heavy. I started using a vibrator around 3 weeks post partum.<br /> Now I am 10 weeks pp and sex is a little uncomfortable at first but not bad. : ) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-158636 Tue, 15 May 2012 00:26:26 +0000 Boogs 158636@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I also had a c-section and was in a similar situation as you. ;) The O didn't hurt, just penetration because things felt really tight. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-158591 Mon, 14 May 2012 22:12:01 +0000 sandy 158591@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LivsMama: I had a c section too and it totally hurts to have sex again..feeling like everything had closed up is a pretty accurate way to describe it. It does not hurt to orgasm though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-158313 Mon, 14 May 2012 17:09:41 +0000 regberadaisy 158313@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Nskillet: I was going to start the same thread....with the same title! too funny!</p> <p>I didn't have a C section but yes in the past week the desire has started to come back! O did not hurt. As of now we're still in the camp of wait for the doc's OK at the post partum care appt at six weeks. We'll see where we stand in another few weeks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-158262 Mon, 14 May 2012 16:29:07 +0000 MsMini 158262@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are going to wait the 6 weeks, I too have been tempted to dabble in "other things" but when I asked my OB about undertaking it, she told me to wait the 6 weeks for any and all sexual activity. She did give me a prescription for birth control so when the 6 week mark hits we can get right into it without worrying. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-158252 Mon, 14 May 2012 16:21:54 +0000 Nskillet 158252@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LivsMama: So many women say this!! I find it hard to imagine being closed up, did your DH notice a difference?</p> <p>Oh and BTW you were so right about the c section. I hate to say piece of cake but....piece of cake!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-157963 Mon, 14 May 2012 13:15:46 +0000 Mrs. Superhero 157963@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh, sorry, you're c-section, no idea then! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-157962 Mon, 14 May 2012 13:14:54 +0000 Mrs. Superhero 157962@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Depends on what kind of shape you're in. With my first I had wicked stitches and it took a while to not hurt (penetration...orgasm didn't hurt). This time around I was in much better shape and it didn't hurt at all! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-157952 Mon, 14 May 2012 13:11:32 +0000 heffalump 157952@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I didn't have a c-section. We waited 6 weeks. Orgasm didn't hurt, but the sex in general did. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-157925 Mon, 14 May 2012 12:38:29 +0000 LivsMama 157925@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had a c-section and we waited 6 weeks. I can tell you that the O didnt hurt at all. DTD for the first time DID hurt though. I was shocked at how badly it hurt. I felt like I closed up lol (sorry for the TMI) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-157825 Mon, 14 May 2012 11:15:07 +0000 Mrs. Sunglasses 157825@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, I didnt have a c-section and couldn't do the deed until 6 months, but I did have intense ripping though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-157823 Mon, 14 May 2012 11:13:49 +0000 cvbee 157823@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Nskillet: did 'other things' too and the o did not hurt me...but i, too, was scared that it might. Sneezing hurt more. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lets-talk-about-sex-babylets-talk-about#post-157814 Mon, 14 May 2012 11:07:41 +0000 Nskillet 157814@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So...I'm 2 plus weeks post partum from a c section and already feeling my desire coming back....yay! Obviously I'm not going to jump into things before 6 weeks DH and I arent comfortable with that but I have a blunt question....</p> <p>Did it hurt to orgasm? I've been semi tempted to be intimate in other ways but am pretty scared of pain. A lot happened down there even though I ended getting the section. Maybe this is a wicked TMI post but I'm curious other people's experiences! </p>