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Hellobee Boards Topic: Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other? https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sun, 28 Jun 2026 01:15:42 +0000 Peasinapod on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2169508 Wed, 06 May 2015 18:20:33 +0000 Peasinapod 2169508@https://boards.hellobee.com/ My husband only really gets mad when I get angry first. And I'm quick to calm down. But it does annoy me that even when I have legitimate reasons to be angry he won't admit it and I just eventually let it go and then we're fine. I don't think he's ever said sorry. CakeLady on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2169481 Wed, 06 May 2015 17:59:20 +0000 CakeLady 2169481@https://boards.hellobee.com/ I like to just get it all out and move on, I am also willing to admit when I am wrong, so I don't usually stay mad for very long. DH is definitely a grudge holder and has a really hard time acknowledging when he is at fault. He is often mad longer. Which sometimes makes me mad again. Fortunately we don't fight too often. PawPrints on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2169456 Wed, 06 May 2015 17:43:07 +0000 PawPrints 2169456@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Like maybe five minutes, if that. We sometimes snap at each other but we always resolve it almost immediately. Our relationship just isn't about conflict. We default to a state of peace. LuLu Mom on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2169278 Wed, 06 May 2015 15:56:25 +0000 LuLu Mom 2169278@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Hmmm, I don't think we've ever been madder than a day. I know there's times we go to bed mad (for us this works, we both have tempers and we need to sleep it off a little otherwise we just go round and round.) Usually in the morning after a fight, we can talk things through calmly and sort it out pretty quickly. Mrs. Lemon-Lime on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2169222 Wed, 06 May 2015 15:24:03 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2169222@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Going on 7 months, but it's not affecting our ability to manage the house or have fun together. It's a big difference of opinion that hasn't been resolved. dc yoga bee on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2169125 Wed, 06 May 2015 14:42:03 +0000 dc yoga bee 2169125@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @MrsSCB: Agreed!!! I've been working on being less stubborn and it's really helped us not prolong the silent treatment lol. DillonLion on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2169076 Wed, 06 May 2015 14:23:27 +0000 DillonLion 2169076@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pretty quickly. It got prolonged this last time because of common issues (people in town over the weekend and then the hustle and bustle week started). So, something that started on Thursday wasn't resolved until Tuesday. But that's really unusual. snowjewelz on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168984 Wed, 06 May 2015 13:32:35 +0000 snowjewelz 2168984@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @Anagram: haha yeah this is 100% us right now! MrsSCB on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168969 Wed, 06 May 2015 13:18:28 +0000 MrsSCB 2168969@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Not long at all, but I give all credit to my DH. He cools off extremely fast and is also very quick to apologize. It's actually made me better at apologizing to him when I'm wrong, too. I used to be much more stubborn :meh: Torchwood on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168968 Wed, 06 May 2015 13:18:09 +0000 Torchwood 2168968@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Not long? I don't think any argument we've had has lasted longer than a few hours. One of us (usually me) realizes we were being irrational and says so. If that doesn't happen we talk about it again to try to figure out a compromise. Anagram on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168965 Wed, 06 May 2015 13:14:56 +0000 Anagram 2168965@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Our spats are usually over pretty quickly...even if we don't "resolve" them really, we just get over it. But that's because the majority of our stuff is just sleep-deprived grumpiness. tiramisu on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168947 Wed, 06 May 2015 12:52:52 +0000 tiramisu 2168947@https://boards.hellobee.com/ About a day. In fact, we got into an argument last night and it's still not resolved. We have people coming over tonight so not sure when we can talk about it either. Before baby I didn't like to go to bed angry but with the baby we rarely resolve it before the next day. 2PeasinaPod on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168894 Wed, 06 May 2015 12:10:36 +0000 2PeasinaPod 2168894@https://boards.hellobee.com/ A few hours at most. LO actually usually brings us back together! sarac on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168890 Wed, 06 May 2015 12:08:06 +0000 sarac 2168890@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Sometime a day or more, which is really unusual for us. But this whole surprise pregnancy thing has been hard for me in a lot of ways. travellingbee on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168848 Wed, 06 May 2015 11:36:08 +0000 travellingbee 2168848@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Not long, but we are both very sensitive and neither grudge holders so we always talk it out pretty much right away. miramira on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168847 Wed, 06 May 2015 11:33:05 +0000 miramira 2168847@https://boards.hellobee.com/ It's so hard when most of your energy goes towards meeting the baby's needs! Occasionally we have a good talk over dinner but more often than not, we're focusing on feeding LO. I figure it'll all balance out eventually... I hope snowjewelz on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168837 Wed, 06 May 2015 11:24:37 +0000 snowjewelz 2168837@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @miramira: I am so bad with that still! While DD is in bed, with that 1-2 hr window I just run around doing chores! Neither of us really stay mad either but it's just weird that nowadays we don't really talk through it... Since most fights are not a big deal we just kinda let it go and move on... miramira on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168827 Wed, 06 May 2015 11:20:38 +0000 miramira 2168827@https://boards.hellobee.com/ We co-sleep too but DH and I spend 15-20 min talking in the living room after LO is in bed and before I go in. I used to love talking in bed too! Fortunately, we aren't prone to staying angry with one another. snowjewelz on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168823 Wed, 06 May 2015 11:14:27 +0000 snowjewelz 2168823@https://boards.hellobee.com/ @BabyBoecksMom: It's tough now too since we co-sleep so we don't talk while in bed lol! I think to keep our marriage healthy I really need to move her back to her room! BabyBoecksMom on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168814 Wed, 06 May 2015 11:05:20 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 2168814@https://boards.hellobee.com/ They are definitely longer post-bab(ies), but we usually get them resolved before bed. snowjewelz on "Longest you and SO have gone being mad at each other?" https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/longest-you-and-so-have-gone-being-mad-at-each-other#post-2168808 Wed, 06 May 2015 10:55:12 +0000 snowjewelz 2168808@https://boards.hellobee.com/ Our "fights" are so prolonged now b/c of the baby! We had a small tiff when I came home in the yesterday evening, but never got resolved since we had people over, and I was upstairs the whole night w/ DD, and then I fell asleep before he came up. And then morning we always rush around getting ready/out the door.