https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 20 Apr 2026 20:00:59 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lots-of-reminders#post-67129 Sat, 04 Feb 2012 09:46:03 +0000 heffalump 67129@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry you're having a hard time :( Really the grieving never goes away for me. I have a beautiful 6 month old and still mourn the loss of my other baby all the time. I'm very greatful for my LO and love her to pieces, but it still hurts that I don't have my first baby that was growing in my belly too. </p> <p>Sending you positive thoughts and hoping next month is your month! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lots-of-reminders#post-66752 Fri, 03 Feb 2012 15:32:17 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 66752@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh honey! I won't say any platitudes. It's ok to feel stinky for a while before you pick yourself up and move on. The hive is here to support you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lots-of-reminders#post-66750 Fri, 03 Feb 2012 15:30:17 +0000 googly-eyes 66750@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry for your loss. No apology necessary, vent away. I hope everything happens for you soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lots-of-reminders#post-66630 Fri, 03 Feb 2012 13:29:57 +0000 sulli301 66630@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Vent away!! I don't really have any advice, but I will be thinking of you &amp; sending good thoughts your way. :::hugs!!::: I hope your day gets better. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lots-of-reminders#post-66592 Fri, 03 Feb 2012 12:56:10 +0000 winniebee 66592@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You're not whining!! Have you been trying long since the m/c?</p> <p>I've been there, too. I thought after my m/c I would immediately get pregnant again. I had to wait a cycle to start trying again (and it was a looooong cycle). We didn't get pregnant on cycles 1 or 2 trying again. During those cycles, 3 friends gave birth. It was awful and I felt like something was wrong with me. Lo and behold, I got pregnant on cycle 3 trying again. It was just over 4 months after my m/c when I found out I was pregnant. A very long 4 months. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lots-of-reminders#post-66567 Fri, 03 Feb 2012 12:45:33 +0000 tequiero21 66567@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>sigh, i've been there. for us, we got too impatient. or maybe, it was god's timing for us to start fertility treatments? after our miscarriage, we tried for about 6 cycles - nothing. so we just went for it and saw an RE. a year after i lost my baby, i had 2 in me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lots-of-reminders#post-66550 Fri, 03 Feb 2012 12:21:03 +0000 mrskc 66550@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you're feeling that way, and you're not whining. That's what we're here for. I've been dealing with my losses as well. Some days are easier than others. Some days my heart aches so much. Especially since my what would be due date is fast approaching next month. </p> <p>Hang in there. I hope you get your BFP soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lots-of-reminders#post-66543 Fri, 03 Feb 2012 12:11:47 +0000 shinystraps 66543@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have been feeling pretty down the past couple of days too. Sometimes it just gets a little overwhelming when everyone has that cute baby you want so badly. And it feels so much worse after a loss, doesn't it :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lots-of-reminders#post-66533 Fri, 03 Feb 2012 11:58:26 +0000 Rescuemom10 66533@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Vent away!<br /> I love HB because it is a great place to vent and we all are here to support one another. You and your hubs are in my thoughts and prayers and I reall yhope you get your BFP soon.<br /> It is super hard when you want it so bad and it seems like everyone around you has a LO and you so badly want one of your own. My situation is different but I feel that way as well. It NOT easy! I feel ya! ((HUGS)) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lots-of-reminders#post-66523 Fri, 03 Feb 2012 11:47:02 +0000 MaisyMay 66523@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Most days I am fine with our loss over the summer, but some days it gets to me. I know that I've whined about it here before, but there really isn't anywhere else for me to talk about it. Today seems a bit harder dealing with it because we just finished ANOTHER period, so another month of not getting pregnant again, trying to figure out what we need to do differently, and when I go online it's literally all about babies. One friend is in labor (excited for her!), another is doing one of her non-stress tests today, two are announcing babies that were born in the last few days, one is celebrating baby turning 1, another turning 2. And it makes me sad that it isn't our time right now. I know that it will be soon, but for now we have to wait on God's timing.<br /> Sorry about the vent. </p>