https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 20 Apr 2026 04:49:29 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd/page/2#post-976991 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 22:50:57 +0000 skibobrown 976991@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugmama: You're doing the right thing. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you, but hopefully your midwife will be very understanding and will be able to help you to at least get some concrete answers. </p> <p>By the way, some therapists who deal with postpartum depression might also be very sensitive to what you're going through. It might help to talk to someone who can help you sort through what you're feeling right now. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd/page/2#post-976987 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 22:48:26 +0000 LovelyPlum 976987@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugmama: that is good enough for now, then. Good job, brave lady! When do you go? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd/page/2#post-976941 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 22:25:26 +0000 googly-eyes 976941@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugmama: Hugs!! No advice but I'll be praying for you. &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-976934 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 22:23:37 +0000 junebugmama 976934@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you everyone for your kind words. I still was able to test, but I did make an appt with my midwife </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974909 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 09:49:03 +0000 2PeasinaPod 974909@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugmama: Happy to see your name back here :happy: </p> <p>I can't say I know how you feel, but I did the same exact thing that you did. I knew I was pregnant with LO, but I waited as long as I possibly could to test b/c I had 2 prior losses. Both were first trimester losses, but it was just hard for me to get excited at the possibility of a baby when we were told we were going to have a miscarriage at our first appointment with my first pregnancy. </p> <p>Lots of hugs...it has to be incredibly hard for you. Can you test while DH is around so that you have a bit of support? Can you call your doctor right after you test to get you in there asap?? Then perhaps see someone afterwards to help you sort through your feelings? I'm so sorry you're going to have to go through the worry again. Lots of prayers that this baby sticks :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974892 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 09:43:00 +0000 JamieLee 974892@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Also, you might really want to consider talking to your regular doctor about your feelings. While medication might not necessarily be the right solution if you are pregnant, talk therapy can help A LOT. I saw a counselor after my mother died unexpectedly and then I miscarried in the same year, and it helped so much. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974862 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 09:32:07 +0000 Crisark 974862@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974788 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 09:10:49 +0000 Alivoo01 974788@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>*hugs* Wishing you strength and courage through it all! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974746 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 08:57:10 +0000 LuLu Mom 974746@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Good luck momma, and I would say call yoru doctor, they may be able to give you some tips to help calm your nerves. I think you do have a case of PTSD and they may be able to give you tips on how to help it! Hugs to you! &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974734 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 08:52:53 +0000 pui 974734@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry you are going through this. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974705 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 08:45:27 +0000 singingbee 974705@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>No advice, but lots of hugs! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974569 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 08:01:30 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 974569@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I noticed you haven't been around, and I'm so sorry to hear your story. Like all the other pp, I just want to let you know I'm so sorry and that I'm here for you. I do think you need to test so that a doctor can keep a close eye on you, not just for the baby, but for your own mental health. Good luck </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974557 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 07:57:20 +0000 MrsKoala 974557@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just want to say that I'm so sorry for what you have gone through. Lots of hugs to you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974550 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 07:54:51 +0000 JamieLee 974550@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Really feeling for you and hoping you find a moment of peace to test and that if you are pregnant you get a sticky baby. I think PTSD is the perfect terminology to describe what women suffer from post m/c. I can't even imagine what it must be like to have to go through that pain so many times. The one I had so fundamentally changed who I am and has caused so much anxiety through this entire pregnancy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974524 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 07:48:32 +0000 mediagirl 974524@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs, friend. I have missed you and am sorry you are going through such a tough time. We're here for you and I'll be pulling for you to have another successful and beautiful baby!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974520 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 07:46:14 +0000 Ash 974520@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can't even imagine what you're going through. I had a miscarriage in September and it has changed who I am, how I view things, and how I've handled being pregnant this time around. It really changes who you are. *hugs to you* Just know there is a load of support on the boards... whether you decide to test right now or not... we're all here for you. &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974517 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 07:45:45 +0000 edelweiss 974517@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>sending you hugs and good thoughts. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974492 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 07:36:20 +0000 Sunshine1810 974492@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry for your losses, and I just wanted to send some *hugs* your way! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974458 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 07:20:41 +0000 Mrsjets 974458@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sending you the strength you need to face this. I haven't been in your position but it breaks my heart thinking of you so scared. Maybe this is your rainbow baby #2 :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974383 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 06:07:59 +0000 Dandelion 974383@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You are not alone! I just found I'm pregnant, 4 months after a stillbirth! I'm traumatized, too, but I'm trying to keep positive about it. I still haven't even thought about names or anything...I'm terrified of being pregnant, but excited about the another chance at bringing a baby home with me. It's a roller coaster, I know it.</p> <p>The sooner you test, the sooner you can call your Dr and they can help you keep tabs on your pregnancy.</p> <p>Good luck! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974359 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 05:23:58 +0000 Smurfette 974359@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974355 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 05:16:18 +0000 PrincessBaby 974355@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am so sorry, Mama:( I had wondered where you went:( I am sorry that this is what you've been dealing with:( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974283 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 00:22:54 +0000 HLK208 974283@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Big hugs &lt;3 </p> <p>I don't have any advice but I'm so sorry for your loses </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974282 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 00:21:53 +0000 BoogieBea 974282@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry you're going through this turmoil. Sending prayers your way! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974279 Tue, 30 Jul 2013 00:14:48 +0000 pregnantbee 974279@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugmama: Hugs, my friend. Was wondering where you were. I'm so sorry. We're here for you for moral support and whatever else you need. Fingers crossed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974243 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 23:00:01 +0000 LovelyPlum 974243@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugmama: anytime, love. We are here for you! And so you know, most of my strength over the last five months came in large part from leaning on ladies here who had been there before me. So, I hope you don't stay away! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974232 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 22:51:55 +0000 Running Elley 974232@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugmama: I was glad to see your name pop up!</p> <p>I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage around his birthday :( I think you need to test. I definitely think that it's possible to get PTSD from miscarriages- I suffered with a lot of anxiety throughout my whole pregnancy with E. hugs!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974227 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 22:42:37 +0000 Mrs. Jacks 974227@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@junebugmama: oh, I'm sorry. Well, I'll have my fingers crossed and am hoping you can find a safe mental place :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974220 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 22:36:55 +0000 tysonja 974220@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>thinking of you :) you are brave for sharing! &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-ptsd#post-974216 Mon, 29 Jul 2013 22:33:52 +0000 blackbird 974216@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>re: scar tissue, i know some people who had lap surgeries and that helped them out a lot! But if your midwife debunked it, then that's not so helpful =\. </p> <p>Positive thoughts coming your way </p>