https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 18 Apr 2026 00:55:02 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2607629 Sat, 20 Aug 2016 07:04:43 +0000 delight 2607629@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry for your loss. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2607600 Sat, 20 Aug 2016 05:36:10 +0000 dc yoga bee 2607600@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: I'm so sorry you're going through this. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2607504 Fri, 19 Aug 2016 18:46:38 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2607504@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cole: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2607427 Fri, 19 Aug 2016 16:11:41 +0000 Mrs. Pen 2607427@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cole: just saw this and wanted to send my love and support. I'm so sorry you're going through this :heart: thinking of you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2607267 Fri, 19 Aug 2016 12:58:06 +0000 Cole 2607267@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: Thanks, I'll check in over there. I've been able to keep moving both yesterday and today, I'm definitely tired but I really want this to run its course and be done. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2607222 Fri, 19 Aug 2016 12:17:30 +0000 MaryM 2607222@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cole: I'm glad the worst of it (hopefully) is over for you. </p> <p>Keep moving around if you can. Spotting for me tends to stop when I take it easy, but then it's that much worse once I move around more. If you can stay somewhat active, hopefully things won't draw out too much for you. </p> <p>hugs and :heart: </p> <p>And we started a loss check in thread yesterday if you feel the need to connect with others. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2607213 Fri, 19 Aug 2016 12:10:29 +0000 Cole 2607213@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MaryM: thank you! I appreciate the support of everyone here. I'm sorry we are all part of this awful club. I walked until 4:15 the night before the procedure, I cancelled it and then an hour later I started to miscarry naturally so it worked out. I was really lucky too in that it wasn't super intense and the worst was over as soon as I passed the tissue which was within an hour and a half of it starting. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2607120 Fri, 19 Aug 2016 10:30:30 +0000 MaryM 2607120@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cole: Thinking of you today...no matter what you chose. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2605318 Wed, 17 Aug 2016 10:30:15 +0000 winniebee 2605318@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry for your loss! Personally, I would go forward with the D&amp;C because I would want to get back to my normal routines as soon as possible. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2605312 Wed, 17 Aug 2016 10:20:04 +0000 lilyann 2605312@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I chose to take misoprostol to help my missed M/C. It's such a personal decision and everyone has different experiences. I am so sorry for your loss. :crying: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2605299 Wed, 17 Aug 2016 09:47:52 +0000 Banana330 2605299@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Can you take the pill (I can't remember the name) to help you along? If you're already bleeding are they going to do an ultrasound to see if everything has passed before going ahead with the D&amp;C tomorrow? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2605295 Wed, 17 Aug 2016 09:42:36 +0000 MaryM 2605295@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry for what you're going through. It sounds a lot like my first loss. At 6 weeks I only measured 5 and we ended up waiting weeks for it to happen naturally. </p> <p>Having done that, and having had two D&amp;Cs (albeit later)...I know it can be psychologically TERRIBLE to be in that limbo. I was about to schedule a D&amp;C for my first when I finally miscarried naturally. </p> <p>I bled for so much longer after that experience than I did after my last D&amp;C since it sort of forces everything out at once. But just a warning...It's been my experience that bleeding is at a minimum for the first couple days after the procedure but then can be quite heavy a few days later. So I wouldn't count on the weekend being easy either way. </p> <p>Both options frankly suck. I don't know that I able to start to heal my heart until everything was over and I was fully able to grieve, so I would take that into account. But I also know that some women want to be able to see the miscarriage in order to know for sure it's over and be able to move on. </p> <p>Good luck and hugs to you. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/miscarriage-wwyd-question#post-2605276 Wed, 17 Aug 2016 09:28:42 +0000 Cole 2605276@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have a blighted ovum and I'm in limbo. I have a d&amp;c scheduled for tomorrow, but I have been spotting since Friday, the spotting is now red and contains small clots but it's not even close to a regular period. I should be 9.5 weeks and it was measuring right at 5. I can wait but I have been waiting for two weeks and my doctor is going out of town so it would be another two weeks before I could get a d&amp;c if this doesn't progress. </p> <p>On top of that, my sister is coming to town Saturday through Tuesday and I'm not really looking to share all of this with her (um, but I'm not above feigning a stomach bug if necessary.) Plus, the procedure means $500 oop and my husband has to take a day off. </p> <p>I did call and leave a message for my doctor but I suspect he's going to leave it up to me. Any thoughts? </p>