https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Fri, 15 May 2026 08:54:03 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1691797 Tue, 10 Jun 2014 19:00:45 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1691797@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@QBbride: Thank you. I'm feeling guilty now ttc. My family is going through some stuff right now. My dad is quickly losing his battle with cancer and it just seems wrong ttc right now. I'm really torn. I'm scared the stress won't do me any good either. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1689196 Mon, 09 Jun 2014 14:06:43 +0000 QBbride 1689196@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: if your cycles only vary by a few days, you probably ovulate within a few days each cycle. I still have my fingers crossed for you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1689155 Mon, 09 Jun 2014 13:45:41 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1689155@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@QBBride: never heard of it. I'm going to download the app. I'd say my cycle fluctuates between 29 and 32 days. Since my mc's last year it's been off. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1687920 Sun, 08 Jun 2014 23:06:36 +0000 QBbride 1687920@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: have you heard of fertility friend? It's a great place to chart your CM and other fertility signs so you can compare months and keep track of everything. There's a website and an app.</p> <p>Is your cycle length pretty consistent or does it vary a lot? If it varies a lot, you probably O on a different day every cycle! Then again even those with totally regular cycles can ovulate early/late the odd time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1687614 Sun, 08 Jun 2014 18:19:26 +0000 LindsayInNY 1687614@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: It's different. Some people are totally regular, some peoples cycles vary as to when they O. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1686970 Sat, 07 Jun 2014 21:23:51 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1686970@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@badwolf: I'm going to look it up on my calendar. I started keeping track of my cm recently. I learn new things on her all the time. Makes me realize how little I actually knew about my body. So is it possible to O at different times every cycle or is it different for every women? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1686959 Sat, 07 Jun 2014 21:12:54 +0000 badwolf 1686959@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>How long ago did you have watery and egg-white cervical fluid? If it was only a few days ago, you probably just ovulated and wouldn't get a positive for several more days. I'd give it until about two weeks after you noticed the fertile cervical fluid and right ovary pain, since you would be unlikely to get a positive until at least 9-10 DPO. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1686849 Sat, 07 Jun 2014 18:57:22 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1686849@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Snowdrop: I definitely will. I love this place! Everyone here is lovely. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1686783 Sat, 07 Jun 2014 17:05:31 +0000 Snowdrop 1686783@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: good luck and keep us updated, also insomnia is just no fun! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1686777 Sat, 07 Jun 2014 16:57:37 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1686777@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Snowdrop: Any info is helpful. Yeah, I have been having a horrible time sleeping and early this morning my legs started to spasm. Weird. I'm still living as if I was pregnant just to be on the safe side. No caffeine, no cold cuts, etc. I'll continue taking hpt's every Friday until AF shows up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1686528 Sat, 07 Jun 2014 11:54:08 +0000 Snowdrop 1686528@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: I know I'm a bit late to the game but the whole insomnia thing caught me eye, I had a bad case right from when I think implantation happened to about 4+4. before a test would be positive. You might have O'd late and it's still to early for anything to show. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1686105 Fri, 06 Jun 2014 22:25:36 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1686105@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cole: Awe! Your an angel! I'm considered the strong one in the family. What they don't know is I crumble once I'm alone. When you get that title you don't want to let them down and know I'm really a big baby. I'm really not familiar with this site aside from writing post. Can you send private messages or im? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1685862 Fri, 06 Jun 2014 19:24:41 +0000 Cole 1685862@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: I am sorry you didn't get a positive this morning, I hope it is right around the corner for you. </p> <p>I completely understand what you mean about not being ready to let go. I had it in my mind my dad would love to be 100 and when he got sick it turned my world upside down. I thought I had decades left with him. Enjoy every moment and take pictures too. I thought it would hurt to have pictures of him so sick but I treasure the few I have of those last months. Please don't hesitate to get in touch, if you want my email or phone number let me know. Sometimes it's hard to explain the really weird thoughts you have while going through that process. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1685847 Fri, 06 Jun 2014 19:12:21 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1685847@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@QBbride: I tested again this morning. BFN!! Total downer. :sad: Aunt Flow hasn't shown up either. I'm bummed, but I guess I'll continue to test until she decides to show up. Maybe weekly. I'll keep on trying till I see the Rainbow. Thanks for keeping in touch. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1685041 Fri, 06 Jun 2014 12:55:21 +0000 QBbride 1685041@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: stalking!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1680834 Thu, 05 Jun 2014 10:19:41 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1680834@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Cole: Thank you! I always say my dad is my first true love. (Not in a creepy way) what can I say I'm a daddy's girl all the way. I'm not ready for him to be with God yet. I selfishly want to keep him here forever. I'm just trying to cherish every moment with him. I appreciate your kindness. I will definitely hold you to that. :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1680808 Thu, 05 Jun 2014 10:15:10 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1680808@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Honeygold89: I've read reviews on that hpt and it was really mixed. Some people hated it and some people loved it. I'm just going to try another test to be on the safe side. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679924 Thu, 05 Jun 2014 06:25:45 +0000 Cole 1679924@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: My fingers are crossed for you! I am sorry to hear about your dad, I lost mine to cancer a year and a half ago so if you ever need someone to talk to funny hesitate to let me know. I wish all of you peace! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679853 Thu, 05 Jun 2014 04:22:11 +0000 Honeygold89 1679853@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hope you are but FYI I used those same test and they worked fine for me </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679756 Thu, 05 Jun 2014 00:49:09 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1679756@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@hellocupcake: I really hope that's the same case for me. My dad is terminal with cancer (BOO cancer!) and I'd like him to see a new grandbaby sometime soon. It would bring him great joy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679754 Thu, 05 Jun 2014 00:45:55 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1679754@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@QBbride: It's going to be hard, but I think I can do it. I will update you for sure. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679730 Thu, 05 Jun 2014 00:01:13 +0000 hellocupcake 1679730@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: I didn't get a positive on any test until I was over a week late :( i was cramping and kept "checking" for AF every time I went to the bathroom. Once i even had light pink spotting and counted myself out...I finally bought a Walmart cheapy and saw two lines at 9 days past my missed period. Keep testing every other day or until AF shows up. Good luck!!!</p> <p>ETA: my first ultrasound showed that I was as far along as my LMP, so I ovulated on time and everything so no clue why the positive took so long :/ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679716 Wed, 04 Jun 2014 23:33:47 +0000 QBbride 1679716@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: thanks! He's a keeper!</p> <p>I have a good feeling about you!<br /> How can you wait till Friday?! I would be testing tonight haha!<br /> Keep us posted!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679712 Wed, 04 Jun 2014 23:28:02 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1679712@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsMccarthy: Thank you so much! God willing I'm holding a beautiful baby in 9 months. :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679706 Wed, 04 Jun 2014 23:17:29 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1679706@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: I'm so sorry about your loss honey! I hope you are pregnant and it's just a bit early. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679663 Wed, 04 Jun 2014 22:42:05 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1679663@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@QBbride: Thanks! I'm getting excited, but if I get a bfn I will keep trying. Oh and your baby in the profile pic is ADORABLE! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679659 Wed, 04 Jun 2014 22:39:56 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1679659@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@winniebee: I'm definitely going to test on Friday morning. Hopefully I can wait till then. I tested last Friday so I would like to test a week from that day. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679604 Wed, 04 Jun 2014 22:07:12 +0000 QBbride 1679604@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: I had major insomnia for the whole first trimester, test tomorrow! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679592 Wed, 04 Jun 2014 21:58:45 +0000 winniebee 1679592@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ChasingARainbow: there's only one way to find out! I would use a First Response Early Result test and test with first morning pee. Good luck I hope it's positive! That sounds like my typical first trimester sleep :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/missed-period-totally-confused-need-help#post-1679582 Wed, 04 Jun 2014 21:50:53 +0000 ChasingARainbow 1679582@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@winniebee: I haven't taken another test. I'm actually scared to take another. I would be heartbroken if the second was negative. After two mc's I want to be pregnant more than ever. I'm definitely going to take one though. As far as the insomnia. I usually sleep like a baby, but recently I find it hard to get to sleep. Then I toss and turn and continuously wake up. And when I do get a second of sleep I end up having crazy dreams that freak me out. </p>