https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 22 Apr 2026 03:42:31 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mom-guilt-breakdown#post-448736 Fri, 14 Dec 2012 11:31:00 +0000 prettylizy 448736@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@autumnlove: Much better today, no more blood and she's acting very normal. I'm thinking it was just an aberration but I'm keeping a close eye on things. Thanks for asking :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mom-guilt-breakdown#post-448723 Fri, 14 Dec 2012 11:27:16 +0000 autumnlove 448723@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@prettylizy: how is your LO feeling? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mom-guilt-breakdown#post-448692 Fri, 14 Dec 2012 11:13:10 +0000 littlek 448692@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aww, you will definitely have enough love for both LOs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mom-guilt-breakdown#post-448685 Fri, 14 Dec 2012 11:10:57 +0000 prettylizy 448685@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hear ya, mommy guilt is a terrible thing. Every time I think #2 is a bad idea, I remember how much I love my own sister and how loved I felt by my parents all the time. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mom-guilt-breakdown#post-448679 Fri, 14 Dec 2012 11:07:10 +0000 T-Mom 448679@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hear ya... We are having a health relapse in my house. DS had vaccines Monday and is having a terrible reaction and DH is mad at me for letting DS get vaccinated when we just recovered from pneumonia. I sent him to day care all week too (horrible mommy guilt but I have minus vacation right now) ! Point being, you are not alone... You are doing great. This too shall pass (my parenting mantra). Oh and yes you will love #2 so much! I worried the it wouldn't happen but it did :-). I was pleasantly surprised. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mom-guilt-breakdown#post-448619 Fri, 14 Dec 2012 10:38:24 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 448619@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@autumnlove: You're a GREAT mom, and will continue to be GREAT for #2 :-)</p> <p>I hear you on the health thing. Daycare told me that they have an RSV outbreak and W woke up this morning w/ green snot in her nose and a cough so I'm worried about her getting sick again. I feel guilty that we can't afford a nanny and have to depend on family to watch her, often at the expense of messing up her schedule. I want to try for #2, but if we can't keep #1 healthy, how in the world are we going to keep 2 kids healthy? </p> <p>I also really worry that I might play favorites if we have another baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mom-guilt-breakdown#post-448611 Fri, 14 Dec 2012 10:33:45 +0000 travelgirl1 448611@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aw my dad said he'd been worried about that when my sister was born but the moment he saw her he loved her just as much. He had two more kids after that and said the same. My MIL had 7 kids-loves them all to bits, you'll be fine.</p> <p>I've only been a mum for 5 weeks but the guilt already kills me. I defo think it's just part of being a mum. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mom-guilt-breakdown#post-448594 Fri, 14 Dec 2012 10:27:15 +0000 chopsuey 448594@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Every parent worries about the love thing I think.<br /> They all say the same thing in the end though, so I wouldn't worry!<br /> Just shower your Lo with lots of love while you're a family of 3!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mom-guilt-breakdown#post-448555 Fri, 14 Dec 2012 10:10:21 +0000 sorrycharlie 448555@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>aww you are a great mom! sometimes babies just get sick. my mom was a fantastic mom, I didn't get sick often but my brother did all the time. she did exactly the same things with both of us! </p> <p>I'm sure you'll love baby #2 just the same as E! I won't lie though, I have the same fears. I want a second for O to have a sibling, but I'm so afraid I won't love the second as much as her, because I just can't imagine it! everyone tells me that when you think you'll have to divide your love, it only multiplies. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mom-guilt-breakdown#post-448550 Fri, 14 Dec 2012 10:07:49 +0000 autumnlove 448550@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@winniebee: Yeah, LO's health has been worrying me a lot. I know daycare babies get sick more but the last couple of months have been rough and makes me think I'm being cheap too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mom-guilt-breakdown#post-448546 Fri, 14 Dec 2012 10:06:11 +0000 winniebee 448546@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Awww! You will, everyone says it happens!!</p> <p>I had a mom guilt cry fest the other night when LO was sick again. I was feeling bad that I was "too cheap" to get him a nanny and he's sick all the time. Psssh. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mom-guilt-breakdown#post-448540 Fri, 14 Dec 2012 10:04:08 +0000 autumnlove 448540@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had one last night and I think I feel better today! I was just feeling overwhelmed with LO's recent health and thinking that I won't love my 2nd baby as much.</p> <p>Wahh. </p>