https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 14 Apr 2026 00:14:52 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/3#post-1057350 Sat, 31 Aug 2013 10:54:49 +0000 immabeetoo 1057350@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>K I haven't read all of this thread and didn't get a chance to comment on the other one that I did read but wanted to share this <a href="http://www.upworthy.com/a-comedians-take-on-the-miley-cyrus-debacle-completely-changed-what-i-thought-of-it?c=ufb1" rel="nofollow">http://www.upworthy.com/a-comedians-take-on-the-miley-cyrus-debacle-completely-changed-what-i-thought-of-it?c=ufb1</a></p> <p>I finally actually watched the performance and.. Was not shocked. I can't believe it's gotten this much attention and agree with those concerned about her use of Black women as props, blurred lines lyrics, and slut shaming. You also couldn't pay me to wear my hair like that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/3#post-1057317 Sat, 31 Aug 2013 10:38:16 +0000 singingbee 1057317@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsTiz: I'm dying!!!! That's so funny!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/3#post-1052068 Thu, 29 Aug 2013 11:45:00 +0000 MrsTiz 1052068@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&#038;v=vU4VHdzbi7k" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&#038;v=vU4VHdzbi7k</a></p> <p>I know this thread died, but I just saw this video of this guy explaining how to do a Miley Cyrus VMA costume.. it is SO funny - NSFW but it's worth a watch :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/3#post-1047460 Tue, 27 Aug 2013 17:03:56 +0000 BlueWolverine 1047460@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My reaction was summed up well by the quote below. Now, I do think it was just horrible, but I'm a little sad that she's taking the brunt of the criticism.</p> <p>Dear Society,</p> <p>If you think a woman in a tan vinyl bra and underwear, grabbing her crotch and grinding up on a dance partner is raunchy, trashy, and offensive but you don’t think her dance partner is raunchy, trashy, or offensive as he sings a song about “blurred” lines of consent and propagating rape culture, then you may want to reevaluate your acceptance of double standards and your belief in stereotypes about how men vs. women “should” and are “allowed” to behave.<br /> <a href="http://sexologist.tumblr.com/post/59399069155/a-sexologists-two-cents-on-the-2013-mtv-vmas" rel="nofollow">http://sexologist.tumblr.com/post/59399069155/a-sexologists-two-cents-on-the-2013-mtv-vmas</a> </p> <p>Blurred Lines is incredibly catchy -- and incredibly disturbing to me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/3#post-1047434 Tue, 27 Aug 2013 16:45:48 +0000 erinpye 1047434@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think it's also pretty interesting to note that people are so upset about Miley's outfit (I couldn't care less about what she wore and it really wasn't all that scandalous), her sexual antics (in my opinion gross, but not something that's never been seen before by an entertainer, and what about Robin Thicke being a willing participant?), commenting on her body (of course, women's bodies in this society are seemingly always public property), slut-shaming (oh hello there, rape culture we're steeped in), yet few noticed her blatant racism. I literally couldn't believe it when she slapped her backup dancer on the butt, and using black women as props and appropriating bits and pieces of a culture she hasn't grown up in and can't begin to fully understand, is just not OK. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/3#post-1044405 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 14:10:25 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1044405@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsTiz: so she is a recreational drug user :sad: although marijuana isn't the worse thing...Lindsay told Oprah her issue is with alcohol and that's legal in all 50 states!</p> <p>Beetlejuice = hilarious! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/3#post-1044364 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 13:59:46 +0000 Mrs Checkers 1044364@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can't even...</p> <p>Let's just say I felt violated after watching. Totally disturbing/disgusting to watch. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/3#post-1044314 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 13:44:56 +0000 littlek 1044314@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Honestly, I think she did all of this for publicity. And it seems to be working because it's a big news story today. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/3#post-1044305 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 13:42:04 +0000 MsLipGloss 1044305@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsTiz: Oh. Gah. Hopefully she will come out the other end of the experimentation tunnel with minimal residual damage. :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/3#post-1044285 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 13:37:05 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1044285@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@HabesBabe: probably, she stays high lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/3#post-1044167 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 13:00:36 +0000 sorrycharlie 1044167@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@FutureMrsMcK: hahaha twins! if you google it, you can find the entire 6 minute clip...it's almost worth it just to gape!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1044118 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 12:44:43 +0000 lovehoneybee 1044118@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't have cable so I didn't watch it but this popped up on my FB feed this morning...I think I get the gist, lol.</p> <p><a href="http://www.buzzfeed.com/lyapalater/the-weirdest-and-craziest-moments-from-miley-cyrus-vma-pe" rel="nofollow">http://www.buzzfeed.com/lyapalater/the-weirdest-and-craziest-moments-from-miley-cyrus-vma-pe</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1044116 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 12:44:41 +0000 sorrycharlie 1044116@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>in case anyone missed it (I did!) I found this gem on google!</p> <p><a href="http://www.buzzfeed.com/lyapalater/the-weirdest-and-craziest-moments-from-miley-cyrus-vma-pe" rel="nofollow">http://www.buzzfeed.com/lyapalater/the-weirdest-and-craziest-moments-from-miley-cyrus-vma-pe</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1044101 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 12:38:42 +0000 HabesBabe 1044101@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: ri-ri was probably high off her ass and didn't even know what was going on! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1044072 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 12:28:38 +0000 Colee 1044072@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: I agree! She's young and having fun, but her actions are very deliberate. I think she is trying way too hard and her whole look/behavior is very contrived.</p> <p>As far as the drugs, she's really no different than many kids her age. If she wasn't famous and was just a normal 20 year old going to college, she would probably be experimenting with drugs, partying, and wearing revealing clothing as well. It doesn't mean she's the next Lindsay Lohan or needs to go to rehab (hopefully it will never get to that point for her). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043958 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 11:53:07 +0000 MrsTiz 1043958@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: Marijuana:<br /> Miley says she rather smoke marijuana than consume alcohol to avoid any unpleasant aftereffects ''When I smoke, I don't get that sick feeling I get when I drink, or that anger rising up. There's a reason Bob Marley was like some kind of Rasta Mother Teresa.'', she explains.</p> <p>Extasy:<br /> "I don't think people have a hard time understanding that I've grown up. You can Google me and you know what I'm up to -- you know what that lyric is saying."</p> <p>Xanex:<br /> She "accidentally" Tweeted a screenshot of a text to a friend about taking a xanax.<br /> <a href="http://gossipgirl.alloyentertainment.com/miley-cyrus-accidentally-tweets-about-drug-use-726131/" rel="nofollow">http://gossipgirl.alloyentertainment.com/miley-cyrus-accidentally-tweets-about-drug-use-726131/</a></p> <p>It's sad to me seeing as how she was a Disney star, and even though she doesn't want to be a role model, she is..one look at any of her social media accounts and that's obvious..there are tons of young girls fangirling so hard over everything she does..unfortunately, that's getting high and twerking. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043903 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 11:29:08 +0000 wonderstruck 1043903@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: Several of those were just rumors because they had mutual friends and ended up at dinner together or whatever. But clearly I care too much considering that I do not actually know her, lol. But I guess we just read the song lyrics and quotes differently - it seems pretty clear to me that she's on something. And if she's not...well, then I think it's just kind of sad that she's willing to go to those kinds of lengths for attention. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043876 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 11:19:39 +0000 babycanuck 1043876@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrstiz OMG HAHAHAHAHAHA best. post. ever. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043859 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 11:09:41 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1043859@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@wonderstruck: hmm I see the Molly quote a little different, like she's dismissive of the drug rumors because she is so open about her life that anyone paying close attention to her would know those are just song lyrics.</p> <p>ETA: I don't know all things Taylor Swift, so I googled her boyfriend count and Billboard came up with ten. </p> <p><a href="http://www.billboard.com/photos/1484087/taylor-swifts-boyfriend-timeline-10-relationships-their-songs?i=178649" rel="nofollow">http://www.billboard.com/photos/1484087/taylor-swifts-boyfriend-timeline-10-relationships-their-songs?i=178649</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043787 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 10:40:03 +0000 MrsTiz 1043787@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>[attach=2456/13/ms5a6s.534x401.1377483237000-mileytonguebetter.jpg]</p> <p>annnnd 9 months later we get: </p> [attach=2456/13/ms5a79.348x428.beetlejuice2.jpg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043773 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 10:36:18 +0000 wonderstruck 1043773@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: She definitely does drugs, she's basically admitted to it in interviews. One of her quotes about the 'dancing with Molly lyric' was, "You can google me and you know what the f*** I'm up to, you know what the lyric is saying." Ecstasy is a pretty serious drug, more so than the pot she has admitted to (and been filmed) smoking. And there's also a lyric about doing a line in the bathroom...which most people think seems to be a reference to cocaine and she hasn't denied that either.</p> <p>And all of the Taylor hate I see online about how she goes through guys kind of baffles me...she's 23 years old and has dated 6 guys in the last 5 years (Joe Jonas, Taylor Lautner, Jake Gyllenhaal, John Mayer, Connor Kennedy, and Harry Styles). If dating 6 different guys between the ages of 18 and 23 is worse than whatever the hell Miley was doing up on that stage...I don't even know. Because it's not! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043702 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 10:11:40 +0000 MsLipGloss 1043702@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@grizz: I would have expected a grown man to *just say no* . . . ! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043661 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 09:59:13 +0000 HLK208 1043661@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@TurtleDoves: right? Isn't he 16 years older than her?! Why is she "twerking" on him?!? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043626 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 09:46:11 +0000 CupQuakeWalk 1043626@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@grizz: respect for RT is now lost. Miley? Come on...that was not even good dancing nor was that a cute outfit, so why even bother?</p> <p>#scarredforlife </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043576 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 09:24:09 +0000 Boheme 1043576@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsLipGloss: If I was Robin Thicke's wife I'd be ticked. I love her! Backup dancers? Fine. But there's no way I'd be ok with my husband doing THAT. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043570 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 09:22:26 +0000 MrsSCB 1043570@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: exactly, she needs more adult supervision :-) That's the problem with a lot of these young stars -- they basically become cash cows for everyone around them and no one ever wants to tell them "no." </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043564 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 09:20:47 +0000 wonderstruck 1043564@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@grizz: Hahaha, that is great, I love the reaction! Especially his son, his face is definitely saying WTF. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043563 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 09:20:39 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 1043563@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsSCB: I wouldn't go as far as calling her a slut. She is in a monogamous relationship and I think she comes from a good family. To me, she is not one of the "lost" stars. I haven't heard rumors of her partying like Lohan or Lovato or running through guys like Taylor Swift. In one of her songs she references Molly (drug), but I don't think she is an actual or at least not a frequent user. She's young and having fun. I think everything she does is deliberate. She needs someone-agent or manager or tv producer- to tell her it's too much. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043556 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 09:16:58 +0000 MsLipGloss 1043556@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsSCB: I don't think she's a slut by any stretch of the imagination! Besides her misguided fashion and recent hair choices, I think she's a nice young lady! I just wish she had another inch (or two) of fabric and that she didn't do the fully bent over azz-to-crotch grind scene. </p> <p>I am appalled that Robin Thicke okayed it in rehearsal . . . </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/mtv-vmas/page/2#post-1043544 Mon, 26 Aug 2013 09:12:18 +0000 MrsSCB 1043544@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't know, maybe I'm a softie but I just feel kind of bad for Miley. I think she's trying to figure herself out. I mean, girl is 20 years old, thank God I didn't have cameras on me 24/7 at that age! Plus I don't think she's had good discipline at home. She's been supporting that family's lifestyle since she was a kid. I guess I just find it ironic that so many people were up in arms about Blurred Lines being sexist, and then the Internet explodes with people calling MC a "slut." </p>